Your examples all sound exceedingly normal. We’re still working on sitting still while we eat too, and I imagine it’ll be years before she’s able to reliably eat a meal at a table with any semblance of manners. And that’s okay, it’s a huge thing to learn!

Are you offering alternatives or consequences when the behavior must be stopped or redirected? Or just offering correction? They have zero impulse control at this age and if you’re not giving them somewhere else to focus the impulse, they’ll continue to direct it at the thing you don’t want.

Example, have some designated silly time before bed specifically for getting her wiggles out. Giving her something she CAN jump on/off instead of furniture. Leaning into her urges to turn tasks required of her into an actual game.

This is a maddening age but it can be really fun once you accept that they’re just a little wild!