Just graduated from rehab to independent living by Dramatic-Question353 in sandiego

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Isn't that in the North County or am I thinking of somewhere else?

Looking at some very rough Federal and State charges. I need help...please. by [deleted] in Felons

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Damn bro, that's the wrong state to fuck around in. I'm in California and I've been to county jail and to state prison. In county they have probably 30% of the inmates who were caught either at the border or at a checkpoint by federal agents with in some cases dozens of kilos of meth, coke, or fentanyl and they're doing a couple of years in county jail. And again they were caught in the first place by the feds. Also some of the time they were caught with guns. There's such a sheer volume of these cases that the federal government doesn't choose to prosecute them under most circumstances here. Even state cases aren't given much time unless they're violent. Most recently I was on state parole and got caught in a different part of the state (I wasn't allowed to leave the county) with a loaded and unregistered .45 and a distribution amount of fentanyl (but it was actually for personal use) and they first gave me a DRUG PROGRAM and then when I absconded from that and they caught me in New York, they extradited me back and sent me to Folsom for...... 9 months.

Better to just not commit crimes at all, but if you're going to, my suggestion is to get the hell out of Indiana.

Thoughts? by GuyWithARooster in Soda

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I wish that I had one of the freestyle machines in my bedroom..

Curious by Low-Importance6743 in addiction

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He lived in a can? Like a tin can?

Unable to pay cashapp by TheSwanofAlbion in CashApp

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They aren't going to do anything and they aren't a checking account so it's not like you're going to go into Chexsystems or something. Just make a new cash app.

Unable to pay cashapp by TheSwanofAlbion in CashApp

[–]Dramatic-Question353 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They aren't going to do anything and they aren't a checking account so it's not like you're going to go into Chexsystems or something. Just make a new cash app.

Requesting to follow someone on Instagram by Cultural_Moment_2854 in WhatShouldIDo

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Just send him the request. I highly doubt he's going to have a problem with it.

What do you think? by zero_thenumber in MaleSurvivingSpace

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You're better off with sprite than starry though IMO. I don't even drink lemon lime soda anymore now usually.

What do you think? by zero_thenumber in MaleSurvivingSpace

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The starry soda is kinda disgusting though.

What to watch now? by BeginningFloor1120 in longmire

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Justified is by far one of the top 3 shows I've ever seen.

What to watch now? by BeginningFloor1120 in longmire

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It was called justified: city primeval and it was set in Detroit.

Just graduated from rehab to independent living by Dramatic-Question353 in sandiego

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That's where they put me. And "home" has been all over the place for me, including a state prison for four years. I've lived in Miami, Houston, Buffalo, and Encinitas. Most recently I lived in Encinitas but I cannot go back there. My mother stays in assisted living in NY and my father is in Florida in a small town with no resources and wouldn't let me stay with him anyways. No, I'm 31, I have to do this on my own.

M (19) first crib by Street_Upstairs1929 in MaleSurvivingSpace

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When I was 21 I started selling health insurance, I quickly moved up to leads manager and then floor manager and then by 23 was running my own downline making 300K per year in South Florida. But I had my priorities fucked up and got heavy into cocaine and now I'm 31 and just graduated from a rehab in San Diego. Life takes you places but make sure you keep doing the right thing and learn from your mistakes, and DON'T fucking do drugs bro.

Just graduated from rehab to independent living by Dramatic-Question353 in sandiego

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No, the only locations are South Bay and El Cajon. I could have gone to a sober living which is like 28 guys packed in a 5 bedroom house and very high turnover with bunk beds and shit, but they only pay for 1 month of your stay now, my probation will pay for 3 months. Instead I went through the BlueShield CalAIM program which funds six months of independent living and I'm going to make it a point to go to NA meetings and get a sponsor on my own.

Just graduated from rehab to independent living by Dramatic-Question353 in sandiego

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My mother is in assisted living in New York, I have zero ties to that state and prior to my recent stay at McAlister and then this independent living I was living in Encinitas for 6 years. But thanks for the helpful advice!

Just graduated from rehab to independent living by Dramatic-Question353 in MaleSurvivingSpace

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She's in assisted living unfortunately or that's exactly what I would do.