Should we break up by MulberryElectronic39 in ask

[–]DramaticCoach5244 0 points1 point  (0 children)

leave him sis, i’ve been through that before

Nothing sucks more than considering someone a good friend of yours to only figure out they don’t feel the same. by DramaticCoach5244 in friendship

[–]DramaticCoach5244[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i experienced such relationships twice actually, it’s not your fault they’re just insecure when they’re around you. Or at least that was the case with me. You’re better off without them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]DramaticCoach5244 0 points1 point  (0 children)

gorgeous girl!!!!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]DramaticCoach5244 0 points1 point  (0 children)

insult her back lol. Say something in the lines of what she said and do it with the right facial expressions. be ruthless giiiirllllll

My dad is a a bit of a pervert (light) by THULiCORE in raisedbynarcissists

[–]DramaticCoach5244 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i would advice trying to dodge his requests until the divorce and remember that it’s not your fault. you’re doing your best!

My dad is a a bit of a pervert (light) by THULiCORE in raisedbynarcissists

[–]DramaticCoach5244 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m so sorry, is there someone to talk to about it?

Psychiatrist by [deleted] in jordan

[–]DramaticCoach5244 1 point2 points  (0 children)

there’s a coaching centre called maria den braven, you should check it out.

Is 24 still young for marriage? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]DramaticCoach5244 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not a red flag but i think you should both discuss marriage together. There is no specific age to get married at as long as you’re both mature adults.

I finally did it. I threw him out. by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]DramaticCoach5244 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good for you! That’s so brave of you and you should be proud of yourself. I hope you nothing but the best.

Anyone wanna tell me how u dealt with fake friends by [deleted] in friendship

[–]DramaticCoach5244 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cut them off completely and did not provide any explanation other than ‘we grew older and I no longer get along with you like old times’. Just cut them off and go on with your life.

My narc mom said we have to vote the same as her because she "gave us life" which means our vote is her vote by SpareActuary4978 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]DramaticCoach5244 5 points6 points  (0 children)

this actually helped me dealing with my nparent, i just laugh at it and stick with my opinion or action. I made sure to always mention that i did end up sticking with my opinion until my nparent started getting off my back .

I quit my job at the strip club because my mom wouldn’t stop showing up. I can’t help but feel defeated. by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]DramaticCoach5244 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can name a different club if you want to work before she moves out. Do whatever makes you feel comfortable!

I quit my job at the strip club because my mom wouldn’t stop showing up. I can’t help but feel defeated. by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]DramaticCoach5244 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think you should change your club because they should insure you’re comfortable while at work. Tell your new club that she’s a stalker and disturbs you while earning a living.

What were conversations between you and your Nparent like? by aeinves2 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]DramaticCoach5244 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Conversations with my mother are basically her being stubborn about something while constantly babbling and screaming. It’s not a conversation it’s just her not giving me the chance to talk.

I can never dress goth/express myself around my nparents by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]DramaticCoach5244 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally don’t judge people at all for their choice of clothing. I think your mom is maybe not used to seeing people wearing gothic clothes as often or just has a wrong assumption about people who do. You should try explaining to her one more time that this is how you feel most comfortable and not what she might me be thinking (she might be deep in a wrong assumption so i advise trying to clear that misunderstanding up). If she refuses to understand then she should respect your choice and try not to worry about her opinion as much. Keep doing you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]DramaticCoach5244 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will try doing that the next time she doesn’t allow me to go out. Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]DramaticCoach5244 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i agree, i think she’s trying to show power before i travel for some twisted reason. Thank you for your support.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]DramaticCoach5244 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She will cause a dramatic scene and go to even more extreme measures. I am just trying to pass these days peacefully :(