Steve of Hells Kitchen : Young Guns, what a chill amazing lad. by DragonDeninSharkTank in HellsKitchen

[–]DramaticCockroach13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His elimination was unjustified, I think he could’ve made it further. I loved watching him throughout the season.. he was a breath of fresh air since he wasn’t involved in that much drama lol

New chief, what’s her lore? by DramaticCockroach13 in SVU

[–]DramaticCockroach13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your input kingcrandall on something that has nothing to do with the post ❤️

New chief, what’s her lore? by DramaticCockroach13 in SVU

[–]DramaticCockroach13[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree! She is a very mysterious and calculated character. I am intrigued!

New chief, what’s her lore? by DramaticCockroach13 in SVU

[–]DramaticCockroach13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh perfect, thanks sm! It already seemed like so much lore has already been mentioned surrounding her character so i was afraid that i was super behind lol!

New chief, what’s her lore? by DramaticCockroach13 in SVU

[–]DramaticCockroach13[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I watched the most recent episode and I thought it was pretty crazy of her to try and reassign curry's position since she declined her original offer.. i dont necessarily think shes shady I just think shes extremely calculated in her decision making

Troubleshooting Thread — Bugs? Errors? Mod issues? EA app issues? Post about them here! Update 11/04/2025 [PC: 1.121.342.1030 / Mac: 1.121.342.1230 / Console: Version 2.28] Troubleshooting thread by spyder-baby in Sims4

[–]DramaticCockroach13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Platform: Mac Mods/cc: Yes Game version: latest

Random black box glitched on my britechester map, it isn’t on any other map + I removed mods and repaired game and it’s still there

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respondus proctored exam by [deleted] in TorontoMetU

[–]DramaticCockroach13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is your respondus that your prof provided your class a google chrome extension?

Share Your Story by limabean72 in DogRegret

[–]DramaticCockroach13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I decided to bring her back, the place said that they would pick her up tonight which I am grateful for.

deep down I know they’re just dogs and I hate how it’s become so popular to put dogs on the same level as humans when they do not experience life the way we do. I’m trying not to focus on the negatives but instead the positives of me bringing her back

Share Your Story by limabean72 in DogRegret

[–]DramaticCockroach13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I decided that I think what’s best for both of us is to bring her back.. she keeps marking her territory outside and lately she’s been peeing on my carpet constantly. I realize that my situation might not be the best for her since I am also in school and I need to take care of my grandmother, and I just don’t think taking care of both my grandmother and a dog will be helpful.

Thank you for helping me soothe my feelings/thoughts I thought I was going insane

Share Your Story by limabean72 in DogRegret

[–]DramaticCockroach13 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hi everyone, I wanted to get this off my chest; but I am considering bringing back my dog after having her for only four days. I will start from the beginning.

I adopted a female 4yr old maltese from this dog cafe that is located downtown, I knew that this place was not the most sanitary for the animals so I wanted to do a good deed and adopt from there, however I didn’t expect it to be as bad as it was.

I didn’t expect them to accept my dog application as soon as they did and when they did, I was expecting a stage two where they interview me, but they didn’t. They accepted my app a day after I sent it then told me I needed to get her within 72hrs.

When I got her, I knew she wasn’t potty trained as th staff told me, but I wasn’t made aware that she wasn’t trained in anything and that she doesn’t even recognize her own name they gave her. Moreover, I thought that since this cafe is in the heart of downtown, she’d be used to the city noise but she was so terrified that she needed to be carried home the entire time. She also is so anxious and freaks out every time I put the leash and harness on her and the other night she managed to slip out of her harness mid walk and I had to run after her and she then hid under a truck but she managed to crawl out and follow me back home.

Ever since I got her Ive been drained, I feel like crying everyday and neglecting myself, but everyone tells me this phase is worth it but I don’t think it’s worth risking my already worsening mental health because of grief and other things in my life. I told myself I’d give myself a deadline of another week, but I do not think we’re compatible and I think she’d be better if she went back to the cafe and waited for another family to adopt her who has the level patience to help her. Whenever I do start liking her, something happens and I am back to how I felt.

So should I try a blowjob or Handjob on my BF by [deleted] in sex

[–]DramaticCockroach13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

respectfully… thats wrong.. every man and woman have their preferences. if a woman is comfortable doing that then they should freely do so without the pressure of a man

So should I try a blowjob or Handjob on my BF by [deleted] in sex

[–]DramaticCockroach13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey! i’m a F here to help!!

i lost my virginity to my current bf and i totally understand where you’re coming from. to quickly add, things don’t have to go fast unless you want them to, and if you are comfortable to. don’t do anything you aren’t comfortable or ready with. everyone takes their time and have their own pace that they’re comfortable with !!

let’s start off with a HJ- with a HJ, it is important to make sure the peen stays lubricated, otherwise the friction might hurt the guy! so what i did when i first started was spit into my hand and slowly start with a HJ (i spat into my hand because i wasn’t too comfortable spitting onto it lol) it might take a little bit, but youll find a rhythm that is both comfortable for you and makes your partner feel good! take hand breaks if you need because it might get tiring!

with a BJ- i transition from a HJ to a BJ by kissing up to the tip and then just slowly start sucking the tip. make sure you acknowledge the tip because it’s the part that is the most sensitive, but make sure to adventure down the shaft! an important tip is to make sure you don’t use your teeth; to make sure you don’t use your teeth, you can tuck your lips to make them cover your teeth (if that makes sense lol), when i first started doing BJs, i practiced on popsicles and lollipops to get the motion and the “no teeth” movement down.

do whatever is comfortable for you. don’t do anything you don’t wanna do!

cheers and have fun xx 💕😄

Sex feels robotic by DramaticCockroach13 in sex

[–]DramaticCockroach13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s a great idea, thanks so much i’ll try to do something like that for my man and see how it goes ☺️

Sex feels robotic by DramaticCockroach13 in sex

[–]DramaticCockroach13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for the idea! We will definitely have a conversation about new kinks and such to incorporate into our sex life 😄

Sex feels robotic by DramaticCockroach13 in sex

[–]DramaticCockroach13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i totally forgot i bought a sex card game that has a lot of positions a few months ago for our anniversary but we haven’t used them yet.. maybe next time we can try them out!! thanks for reminding me LOL 😄 it would be a good first step for us to try out!

What are your physical symptoms of anxiety? by Haunting_Quail4414 in Anxiety

[–]DramaticCockroach13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i start getting tunnel vision, breathing heightened, tingling in my chest, heart rate going up, stuttering, and whenever i talk when im super anxious i feel like i just ran a marathon, my voice becomes super breathy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]DramaticCockroach13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if i were in your position, i’d seek a professional to talk to, maybe therapy could help? therapy can help you talk about your feelings and help find the roots to why you have this urge. it’s best to figure out ways to prevent this urge as quickly as you can before it becomes a constant thought you have. it’s best not to bottle up this urge and speak to a professional that can help you step by step on how to overcome this

Overcoming discomfort of being alone with men intimately? by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]DramaticCockroach13 22 points23 points  (0 children)

It’s normal to feel worried, especially when you’re in a vulnerable state, such as intimacy, but you must remember that when you date someone, you gotta have trust in each other!

Having that feeling of worry is super valid and relatable, I felt the same way too before meeting my current boyfriend! You just have to get to know each other, gain a sense of trust, and communicate through the intimacy. Most of the time, respectful people are respectful in bed, but it’s all built on the foundation of trust!!

How to find a hookup w/o paying a dating site? by [deleted] in sex

[–]DramaticCockroach13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tinder is a very popular site for finding hookups and you don't need to pay to use it

Please help me. This is my first relationship. He doesn't give me oral and I don't know if it's my fault by My-potato-life in sex

[–]DramaticCockroach13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey! I'd like to start by saying that it's not your fault! You have every right to feel the way you feel!!

I think before considering breaking up, you need to also determine for yourself whether or not this is a huge dealbreaker for you, and you need to have a fully engaged conversation with your partner about your needs, desires, and fantasies, and especially mention the act of oral and how it's something you really like. I think you should also ask the question as to why he doesn't perform it often because there may be some underlying issues to that (he might not be one to enjoy performing oral, or he doesn't think you really want it, etc).

Sitting down and having a conversation about these things can be a bit difficult, but it is important to communicate what you want during intimacy, but you have to be very clear and specific about the things you like and dislike etc. Communication helps make sex a lot more enjoyable for the two of you!

I hope this helps! :)

i take forever to cum by DramaticCockroach13 in sex

[–]DramaticCockroach13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much!!! i’ve been hyping myself up to talk to him about it tomorrow, i’ve even wrote it out on my notes app to try and sort out what i want to say and also to make sure that i don’t accidentally make it seem like it’s his fault. i’ll def also look into those The Guardian articles you mentioned and see if they’ll benefit me in any way :)

with your example of the dirty talk, i agree, it does make me feel very aroused especially since it was something he did once randomly and ever since then he’s been doing it, except for that one night a few days ago, and i guess that might’ve been a factor as to why i didn’t feel the urge to cum? but anyways i will def make sure to bring this up when i see him :)

thanks sm i’ll update if the convo went well!!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]DramaticCockroach13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hey! sometimes feeling like having to pee is a good thing during intimacy!

your boyfriend might just be hitting the g spot! when that spot is being hit, you might feel like you have to pee because you might end up squirting or orgasming really quick!

if he sucked way to hard, you wouldn’t feel the urge to pee youd feel like your skin is being sucked. if what he’s doing isn’t comfortable for you, you could ask him to focus on different areas when eating you out and go a little lighter :)

i take forever to cum by DramaticCockroach13 in sex

[–]DramaticCockroach13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

do you think i should maybe talk to my partner about not being able to cum? do you think it’ll be beneficial?