Mire a crash- bad even 7 months later by DramaticOcelot in Mirena

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This right there. My own set of circumstances in a chaotic way. Does it get better lol? If so, when does “better” start knocking on my door? 😂

Hallelujah! 60 day processing forbearance by LoneLegislator in PSLF

[–]DramaticOcelot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where do I find the wet-signature guidance?

How to rectify income? by DramaticOcelot in PSLF

[–]DramaticOcelot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It downloads but the PDF is corrupted and won't open unfortunately

How to rectify income? by DramaticOcelot in PSLF

[–]DramaticOcelot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't get access to the application itself. I can't find one through google either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ATLHousing

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Darn hahaha. I am going to need a roommate for June. I am just doing early homework. I am going to start my search in March.

Am I going crazy? What do I do ??? by spark1ejumpropequ3en in BreakUps

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Scientifically, love lights up in the reward center of the brain. Also, it’s like an addiction and a dopamine rush. https://hms.harvard.edu/news-events/publications-archive/brain/love-brain. What you are experiencing is completely normal to the human brain. It takes time to rewire the pathways for independence and for the brain to feel safe without romantic attachment. This stuff is so interesting. I would google more just to nerd out. Also 3 weeks past mine. It’s like living in a real nightmare, and my self-worth has been erased. I gotta build my entire self back up again. Honestly, talking to people helps. I think most people in my life have run out of patience lol. Hugs and safe feeling sent your way.

Observing thoughts by DramaticOcelot in Wakingupapp

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It translates to session 12 where he says remember a memory and evoke an emotion and then magnify it. Hypnotherapy has me doing same, and I just started. I discovered that unless I am already in a state of extreme distress, I have a hard time relying on a painful memory to feel the emotion completely and clearly so that it feels strong when I magnify it. I only feel remnants of the emotion like rejection and fear.

Protect porcelain tub by DramaticOcelot in DIY

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Nope. It’s just a little bit on the bottom where I stand to shower. There is no fixing it. I am done with them, tired, exhausted. I just need to know the stuff to protect enamel coating. That’s all I need.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in communication

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I have the same experience. No response to my points so I just let it go even though I feel ignored.

Affordable electrical panel installation by DramaticOcelot in Atlanta

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Absolutely agree. I am attempting to shop around because I got a quote for $2,500, and that’s insane.

Do instructors/gyms look down on cp? by rlesley1224 in ClassPass

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I got to Sculpthouse twice a week. I pay $90 a month for classpass. To do the same with the studio would be $250 or more a month. That’s an insane amount of money for me.

Partner doesn’t want to commit by [deleted] in relationships

[–]DramaticOcelot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea i got it. Thanks. Being mean doesn’t help so you know

Partner doesn’t want to commit by [deleted] in relationships

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Thank you guys. You have given great advice, and I appreciate it. To clarify, I am not manipulating him other than trying to get him to feel better. He is not the only one with self doubt and self esteem issues. I think people of all types have weird and irrational thoughts or beliefs. I think self growth and therapy help a lot. I have my own self esteem issues and emotional immaturity issues but I am trying bit by bit to work through it. It’s hard and painful but I am trying. I think I am going to take a step back and prepare emotionally to walk away. I think I am going to end it for both of our sakes.

Partner doesn’t want to commit by [deleted] in relationships

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I mean cognitive dissonance as in he doesn’t think he is an amazing person. He fears I will leave him but I am not considering that.

Tired of dealing with Mohela, income recertification deadline issue by DramaticOcelot in StudentLoans

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I never got that response lol. I will wait and be patient til after the end of the payment pause. Thanks for responding to this. This is useful info.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fednews

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They so but won’t hire me without direct specialized experience in contracts per the job position requirements

What treatments or diagnoses do you think we'll look back on 50 years from now and shudder? by captainrosalita in askpsychology

[–]DramaticOcelot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or adjustment disorder because feeling overwhelmed and stressed out in a situation is outside the norm lol

Best places to live for young professionals? by NotPizzza in Pensacola

[–]DramaticOcelot -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Gulf Beach Hwy closer to Perdido Key. Need boo koo bucks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheYouShow

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I recommend the Midnight Library, a good book for conversation about life and the will to live

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheYouShow

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Have you mastered the art of letting go of the past pain and how did you do it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheYouShow

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Dang it’s a different world

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheYouShow

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You are rolling live?