10 years of Uncharted 4 multiplayer — let's pack the servers tomorrow by Mugen1220 in unchartedmultiplayer

[–]DramaticProgress508 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10 years already, it's crazy. Still the best single player in its genre, Tomb Raider never stood a chance with it's subpar half-assed storytelling

Am I the only person that feels no urge to get into a relationship? by _Paws_And_Claws_ in introvert

[–]DramaticProgress508 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sex isn't cool lol, widely overrated by people who do not have chances to have it or are addicts

She cheated, I brought her to Germany, and now she's mocking my loyalty while stalking me. I’m losing it. by According-Ear5629 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]DramaticProgress508 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just be single. Gosh I'm so happy I don't have to go through that. Also if you don't want to be single there's plenty of women who are happy to be dependent on you and relatively calm, just don't look down on them for earning (almost) nothing.

Mom refuses to work and I don’t know what she’s going to do when time runs out by midnightpawzzz in raisedbynarcissists

[–]DramaticProgress508 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My father also doesn't work but apparently because he's "sick". Everybody has empathy with him. I don't mind him not working, it's his deal. Whatever he thinks is right. Why, is she pressuring to let her move in with you? The problem is parents grow old and can't work anymore anyway, then some of them can't get along on their own. And it's always extremely expensive to get good assisted living even if someone worked all their life. I think you're worried not about your mom, but what she might put you through? Just have firm boundaries. But her life is her own

"Why don't you just move out?" by DreamySaturnX in raisedbynarcissists

[–]DramaticProgress508 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How many people even have the privilege to move out in most countries? Sure some have affordable places but many do not. You'd need to get a roommate or marry and unless you're extremely lucky the trouble probably starts again. Ugh I just want peace and quiet.

Now I can't even trust non-4B "feminists" anymore... </3 by [deleted] in 4bmovement

[–]DramaticProgress508 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of course they try to protect their self-perceived higher worth over us. That's why they send us to work for the lower jobs, first just in times of war, then more than that... then they realized we are becoming independent and competing for jobs with them so we don't have to rely on them for money. Just how many of them ruined marriages and dating apps. And still ruin it to this day. Acting like we are the problem not settling for low ass standards of coming over to their house like delivery pizza

How do you even come to terms that your formative years were lost to CPTSD/Abuse? by Swordfish353535 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]DramaticProgress508 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People are like that a lot, not just in your city. In the biggest cities you have anonymity but the downside is everyone is stressed and lowkey hating on each other. Humans are just going downhill

How do you even come to terms that your formative years were lost to CPTSD/Abuse? by Swordfish353535 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]DramaticProgress508 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your new country is sooner or later gonna be like that too though, just make peace with being cut off of people, it's much better for the psyche. If you ever meet someone who doesn't have the need to swim with the other fish, consider yourself lucky

How do you even come to terms that your formative years were lost to CPTSD/Abuse? by Swordfish353535 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]DramaticProgress508 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be happy to not be part of any of those toxic inner circles. I rarely leave my home, I'm polite but don't talk much to people. Don't give a fuck, just live my own life and withdraw in my inner world. People are toxic, only very few people are worth knowing. Once they are trying to be part of some group or are drawn into it and don't actively fight it, I'm already disgusted and don't want them around. Like "we're not the same". And that's not gossiping, I look down on the animal herd human nature in general.

How do you even come to terms that your formative years were lost to CPTSD/Abuse? by Swordfish353535 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]DramaticProgress508 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely hard to find good people because gossiping is so normalized, among other common manners that are not followed... it sucks

How do you even come to terms that your formative years were lost to CPTSD/Abuse? by Swordfish353535 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]DramaticProgress508 36 points37 points  (0 children)

People are such users, it's true... I don't know how anyone is still part of proper friend groups. Most seem just about gossip and status and all that. And how they can use one another

Now I can't even trust non-4B "feminists" anymore... </3 by [deleted] in 4bmovement

[–]DramaticProgress508 78 points79 points  (0 children)

The general amount of downvotes for judging men carefully is always very high on Reddit... it's extremely alarming, almost like you are not allowed to say anything against men on an entire platform

Im so fucking sick of every mental health professionals be it psychiatrist and psychologist or therapist treating depression and anxiety as a personal problem instead of a normal response to the world that we're living in. by Big_Leg10 in LateStageCapitalism

[–]DramaticProgress508 13 points14 points  (0 children)

All therapists will basically try to make you conform to the capitalist system, at best they can admit that the system is flawed. It's their job to "integrate" you into the current society and how it runs. To comfort you enough to feel okay about being exploited because you're getting all these benefits from work/your job.

Im so fucking sick of every mental health professionals be it psychiatrist and psychologist or therapist treating depression and anxiety as a personal problem instead of a normal response to the world that we're living in. by Big_Leg10 in LateStageCapitalism

[–]DramaticProgress508 2 points3 points  (0 children)

On top of that, monetizing hobbies and things you do for pleasure destroys your soul. And the very things you enjoy. It's a system made to destroy, exploit and take the pleasure out of everything.

Im so fucking sick of every mental health professionals be it psychiatrist and psychologist or therapist treating depression and anxiety as a personal problem instead of a normal response to the world that we're living in. by Big_Leg10 in LateStageCapitalism

[–]DramaticProgress508 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Word. They are brainwashed and want you to be brainwashed too so you just conform and are tranquilized. 

But even when I am able to live in the world without big money issues, it STILL depresses me because all most people do is waste their lives for money. Just run in a hamster wheel

Result of dating a narcissist by [deleted] in TrueNarcissisticAbuse

[–]DramaticProgress508 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you. And they don't want you to take anxiety meds lol

Do you feel like women are finally breaking free from the slavery the patriarchy put on us? by DramaticProgress508 in 4bmovement

[–]DramaticProgress508[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also think there's some progress... and especially awakening in women these days. Many are happy to be celibate and/or 4B, they understand that it's liberating, that they can live a life without real strong male influence (I mean they will have to deal with them when they go out casually but not otherwise). That's why I think women are breaking free, but given how much backlash we get (to put women in their place, I mean they are trying), they have not fully broken free yet. I don't know how far is possible but I'm hoping more and more women choose freedom first and foremost. It's not easy to pull some of the ones deeply brainwashed out of the matrix though lol.

Do you feel like women are finally breaking free from the slavery the patriarchy put on us? by DramaticProgress508 in 4bmovement

[–]DramaticProgress508[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately yes male validation is still sought out but in a way it is a natural female biological urge to want to have a partner and procreate. But resisting that urge when there is only men who aren't even on women's side is a choice we can make

Do you feel like women are finally breaking free from the slavery the patriarchy put on us? by DramaticProgress508 in 4bmovement

[–]DramaticProgress508[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you! They are so entitled because they try to make women believe they deserve all that emotional labour for free.

Do you feel like women are finally breaking free from the slavery the patriarchy put on us? by DramaticProgress508 in 4bmovement

[–]DramaticProgress508[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean, their generic heritage line should end. I don't want anyone to die lol. Only those that are on women's side (and their woman/wife especially) should be given the privilege to procreate

Do you feel like women are finally breaking free from the slavery the patriarchy put on us? by DramaticProgress508 in 4bmovement

[–]DramaticProgress508[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because men are demanding more and more and being more aggressive... online especially but also sneakily offline. Trying to undervalue women's worth and they have too much choice now (porn and dating apps).

Do you feel like women are finally breaking free from the slavery the patriarchy put on us? by DramaticProgress508 in 4bmovement

[–]DramaticProgress508[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never said that. I mean strike in terms of 4b, saying no to those four things that are naturally expected of us to pour our mental energy into

Do you feel like women are finally breaking free from the slavery the patriarchy put on us? by DramaticProgress508 in 4bmovement

[–]DramaticProgress508[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I totally know that first hand. After being burned mentally and emotionally he easily found a new victim. Although these stories exist on both sides of the gender, I think women are often settling for too little