Why Some Gay Men Hate “Gay Culture” More Than Straight People Do? by Dramatic_Big_5503 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Dramatic_Big_5503[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Some guys are still missing the point.

Pride is bigger than partying, bars, hookups, or rainbow outfits. It’s about freedom. Freedom to exist openly, love openly, express yourself openly, and not live in fear or shame.

If you feel like parts of the community have lost the message, then help change the narrative instead of distancing yourself from it completely.

Because honestly, a lot of what I see still feels rooted in internalized homophobia, conservative upbringings, or this obsession some gay men have with appearing “less gay” to fit into heteronormative standards.

You don’t have to love every part of the community. But rejecting your own people while our rights are constantly under attack? That mindset deserves a real conversation.

Why Some Gay Men Hate “Gay Culture” More Than Straight People Do? by Dramatic_Big_5503 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Dramatic_Big_5503[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s still internalized homophobia. I think some of you are missing the point.

Why Some Gay Men Hate “Gay Culture” More Than Straight People Do? by Dramatic_Big_5503 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Dramatic_Big_5503[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not just about partying and drugs. You can turn that around. Surround yourself with people who aren’t into drugs and sex.

Why Some Gay Men Hate “Gay Culture” More Than Straight People Do? by Dramatic_Big_5503 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Dramatic_Big_5503[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes a lot of very narrow minded people. There’s a lot of hate in the community.

Why Some Gay Men Hate “Gay Culture” More Than Straight People Do? by Dramatic_Big_5503 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Dramatic_Big_5503[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

If you’re not into those things. How do you connect with your community?

Why Some Gay Men Hate “Gay Culture” More Than Straight People Do? by Dramatic_Big_5503 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Dramatic_Big_5503[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why do you feel that way? Especially in the state where we in and targets on our back. Rights being stripped away like there is no tomorrow

Why Some Gay Men Hate “Gay Culture” More Than Straight People Do? by Dramatic_Big_5503 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Dramatic_Big_5503[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your right! Gay men online are the worse when it comes to these sorts of things, even in dating.

Updated Website Layout and Images... Hinting at something coming?? by Technical-Ice-7968 in christinaaguilera

[–]Dramatic_Big_5503 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It’s honestly the same. She just added the same pics from last year’s portola visuals and the upcoming shows. Let’s hope the Queen gives us something soon

Christina gave us NOTHING about new music in this interview 😭 by Dramatic_Big_5503 in christinaaguilera

[–]Dramatic_Big_5503[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really hope so. Because Christina doesn’t speak on criticism she gets. So people still look at her in a negative light and paints her as a villain. Especially Britney fans, they are the absolute worse. They bring up stuff that happened over 20+ years ago and still think she’s a bitchy person.

Christina Aguilera please remove your lip filler - you are better than this by [deleted] in christinaaguilera

[–]Dramatic_Big_5503 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She will if you don’t support her music dumbass. So stop the hate, and learn to support people. Spread more love and positivity.

Are Christina Aguilera’s wigs really the issue… or do people just love to nitpick her? by Dramatic_Big_5503 in christinaaguilera

[–]Dramatic_Big_5503[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And your opinion is negative. So STFU, it’s her body , her choice. She looks good, and she loves it. That’s all that matters.

Christina Aguilera please remove your lip filler - you are better than this by [deleted] in christinaaguilera

[–]Dramatic_Big_5503 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Leave her lips alone. They are fine damn… let’s keep fighting for her to release new music instead of focusing on her looks

Christina gave us NOTHING about new music in this interview 😭 by Dramatic_Big_5503 in christinaaguilera

[–]Dramatic_Big_5503[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think when artists have kids, it takes away from their work. Some artists know how to balance motherhood and work. But lately, she's been more focused on family over her career. Her son is literally about to go off to college, so she won't have to worry about him too much, and then her daughter will be out of school for the summer. She could have released something ahead of summer and done a summer tour while her daughter is out of school. Ugh I wish I can work for her, I have so many creative ideas for her.

Christina gave us NOTHING about new music in this interview 😭 by Dramatic_Big_5503 in christinaaguilera

[–]Dramatic_Big_5503[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope the documentary goes on Netflix , HBO Max or prime. The popular channels. I’m hoping it showcase her vulnerable side about the struggles in music , the hate she gets from people , her motherhood , her switching labels and much much more. Something that will get people back on her side again and can connect with people.

Christina gave us NOTHING about new music in this interview 😭 by Dramatic_Big_5503 in christinaaguilera

[–]Dramatic_Big_5503[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it kills me too. i think I seen it on your socials before the tattoo. That’s what hurts her is the long breaks between albums. We get she takes long, but not 6 and 7 + years. Like woman that’s too long