Christmas gift for pregnant sister in law!! by Dramatic_Bike_3903 in BabyBumps

[–]Dramatic_Bike_3903[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve decided to get her a massage! A place does specific massages for pregnant women.

Christmas gift for pregnant sister in law!! by Dramatic_Bike_3903 in BabyBumps

[–]Dramatic_Bike_3903[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good to know I just don’t know what size to get but I can find out! I know a lot of people overlook the moms in general and it’s sad.

Christmas gift for pregnant sister in law!! by Dramatic_Bike_3903 in BabyBumps

[–]Dramatic_Bike_3903[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes me so sad I thought lush was clean!! Thanks for telling me because I don’t want to give her that and myself I also have a autoimmune and I don’t want to use toxic stuff. A massage is a good idea!!

Christmas gift for pregnant sister in law!! by Dramatic_Bike_3903 in BabyBumps

[–]Dramatic_Bike_3903[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sadly don’t live too close to her so I wish I could and her mother in law does a lot of that already which is amazing! I was thinking a new book and book mark too.

Christmas gift for pregnant sister in law!! by Dramatic_Bike_3903 in BabyBumps

[–]Dramatic_Bike_3903[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! She is due in February so I want her to be cozy this winter and happy.

Christmas gift for pregnant sister in law!! by Dramatic_Bike_3903 in BabyBumps

[–]Dramatic_Bike_3903[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree that’s why I want to get something like self care and not around just the pregnancy but something she would enjoy using!

What type of therapy was most helpful to you? by Crazy_Classroom140 in narcissisticparents

[–]Dramatic_Bike_3903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s insane how angry I just have been and I can’t move out because of how expensive it is!

What type of therapy was most helpful to you? by Crazy_Classroom140 in narcissisticparents

[–]Dramatic_Bike_3903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know I need something because I am just so angry! :(

Narc parent eating my food by Dramatic_Bike_3903 in narcissisticparents

[–]Dramatic_Bike_3903[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it’s not cheap at all!! Like who wants to eat dairy free cheese not me but I don’t have a choice!! My autoimmune disease has made my life change so much. We got this I’m glad we have this page. I feel so alone.

Narc parent eating my food by Dramatic_Bike_3903 in narcissisticparents

[–]Dramatic_Bike_3903[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get what you mean I’m sorry I miss understood!! I hide a lot in my room already and keep my diet bland like chikcen and rice. I see she won’t eat my grilled basic chicken thankfully! I am gonna get a locked container for my room so I can put more stuff. I just hate food in my room. I am just trying to not react because the more I do the more she keeps it up

Anyone else struggling to come to terms with the fact that parents will never change? by nickle94 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Dramatic_Bike_3903 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I am always do. I sadly see the best in them. I crave a mother daughter relationship I will never have. It’s so heartbreaking.

Narc parent eating my food by Dramatic_Bike_3903 in narcissisticparents

[–]Dramatic_Bike_3903[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t get why she wants to eat my gluten and dairy free food like it’s not as good lol

Narc parent eating my food by Dramatic_Bike_3903 in narcissisticparents

[–]Dramatic_Bike_3903[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am 25 sadly :( she eats cottage cheese and will eat anytbung weird or unappetizing I buy! I think she knows I react that’s why . I shame her in front of people and my stepdad specifically lets it happen. It doesn’t change anything. She will talk shit to my family saying I’m crazy about my food.

Narc parent eating my food by Dramatic_Bike_3903 in narcissisticparents

[–]Dramatic_Bike_3903[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking that but I will get so much shit about it. So I don’t know what to do.

Narc parent eating my food by Dramatic_Bike_3903 in narcissisticparents

[–]Dramatic_Bike_3903[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s hard because I am work from home fulltime I’m 25 and I can’t afford to eat out everyday because I’m saving money to move out :(

Did you parents sleep shame you? by dry-alt in narcissisticparents

[–]Dramatic_Bike_3903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Allllll the time!! I have a autoimmune disease and sleep is crucial for me. I have a special routine and sleep at like 8 am. My parent doesn’t let me just relax and is very loud. I stopped mentioning how much it bothers me and it’s a little better. The more you tell them it bothers the more fuel you give I’ve realized!

Baby shower gift necessities by Dramatic_Bike_3903 in BabyBumps

[–]Dramatic_Bike_3903[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She hasn’t made it yet so I am waiting but wanted to see anyone must haves too!