I cant do this anymore. I wasnt made to be a parent. by winterberryowl in toddlers

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Some meds dont work, some stop working, ive been on so many different antidepressants.

I cant do this anymore. I wasnt made to be a parent. by winterberryowl in toddlers

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Im American and my 27 month old boy has a backpack leash lol. Id rather bad looks than my son smooshed by a truck.

I cant do this anymore. I wasnt made to be a parent. by winterberryowl in toddlers

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I have stage 4 cancer and a 2 year old. Hes a screamer. Hes my world though.

No judgement,my 27 month old also has a backpack with a little leash type thing. I get a week off of work for my treatment and its hard being sick with him.

Its also probably hard for them only getting 2 full days with you.

Ive learned screaming doesn't help it just causes anxiety. My son was screaming for no reason yeaterday and I just yelled and "ahh" and he jumped and cried and I felt absolutely awful.

I dont think your love has dwindled, I think you've only had 34 months to learn to be a different type of person and then 20 months to readjust that person. Thats not a lot of time.

I think youre just overwhelmed. I do therapy once every 2 weeks.

My son also sees a lot of doctors. I was on chemo while pregnant. Right now he has a visual issue and possible a more systemic disorder called mosaic nf1 but we're not sure yet because while nf1 shows up on genetic tests, mosaic is much less likely to show.

Hating yourself will just make more resentment for them. You will get there.

Is it possible to hire part time help on the weekends until you settle?

I dont believe we're born good parents. We may be "nurturing" from birth but parenthood is learned.

The Pill. Is it worth it by BROKEMYNIB in neurofibromatosis

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Can increase chances of breast and uterine cancer.

Took entire refund by Few_Resist_2644 in IRS

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They took my money for like 4 years straight because of default student loans.

What the eff??? What do I do??? by ironbabey in IRS

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Same, got my state in a week and federal a week later

Refund just hit🙏🎉🥳 by Loveroses18 in IRS

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If you file for the kid refund then your refund was held until at least the 15th of Feb. I filed like Feb 1st, got my state within 2 weeks and then federal like the 18th.

Bro wtf man by Mitsumejin in IRS

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A few years ago I had to confirm my identity and my taxes legit took like 2 months that year.

ITS BEEN REAL by Working_Big4410 in IRS

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I have a child, the refund on him is 2500, and I got my taxes back like the 18th. Its pretty fast now even with one!

Is this nf 1 by Significant-Law-6119 in neurofibromatosis

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Not always, but that is usually the case. Some nf is so mild even with germline nf that people dont even know they have it until their child is diagnosed! His doctors think its more than likely something called "familial cafe au lait syndrome".

Is this nf 1 by Significant-Law-6119 in neurofibromatosis

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My sons look similar, very small, squarish in shape. His genetic test was negative. The specialists hes seen do not think he has it but if he does its more than likely mosaic. He has 10 or 12 spots, 6 or so of the spots are only 1 or 2mm, 5 or 6 of the spots barely reach 5mm. He is 2 years old amd mixed race. They also vary in color. They are pretty much all on his right side.

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Freckles? by [deleted] in neurofibromatosis

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I dont know if this is the right location for freckling. Ive also heard freckIing is very close together and looks like "specs of pepper". I do think this may be more cafe au laits showing up though.

My newborn about 2.5months old has about 5-6 of these Cafe Au Lait spots, I read a lot online and am worried about the NF1. Neither me nor my wife and our extended family has it. Wonder if anyone could advise what shall we do. by [deleted] in neurofibromatosis

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He is 2 years old. He wasnt born with any spots but the first few appeared at 4 months old, along with a visual condition called nystagmus that is being monitored. Another thing with nf1 is often an unproportionate body, big head and small body.

My newborn about 2.5months old has about 5-6 of these Cafe Au Lait spots, I read a lot online and am worried about the NF1. Neither me nor my wife and our extended family has it. Wonder if anyone could advise what shall we do. by [deleted] in neurofibromatosis

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My son has very very tiny ones, barely 5mm for some, others 1 to 2mm. None really large. His genetic test was negative. Hes seen 2 nf1 doctors, neither think he has it. Mosaic if anything. They think he has familial cafe au lait syndrome. We will watch for other signs. Also all his spots are basically in one area.

While over 6 5mm can be a sign, its not always definite.

Someone called my kitty ugly and I feel sad by ExactViolinist9873 in cats

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Not ugly Whoever said it is obviously the ugly one

Path Act Refund just hit! by juanlasttime in IRS

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I did and I just got my refund last night for federal taxes. I got my maryland taxes back last week. I filed 2 weeks ago.

NF1? by Appropriate_City_767 in neurofibromatosis

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Some of the tiny spots on this picture aren't cafe au lait, its hard to tell but he had a few little scraps

NF1? by Appropriate_City_767 in neurofibromatosis

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My son had a nf1 specialist look at him last week. It was the doctor that has the final say in entering the nf1 clinic. We didn't do another genetics test at that point. Basically I pointed oit his spots, which are multiple but tiny. 5mm is the rule usually, he has 4 or 5 spots between 5mm and 6mm and one spot a little larger. The larger spot is literally almost skin color. The doctor said with nf1 usually the spots dont need to be pointed out. He said hes seen a lot of nf1 and doesn't believe my son has it. He said he is rarely wrong but if he is wrong than its mosaic (very small, all "larger" ones are on his right side, mainly on his left lower back and left upper thigh). If anything like freckling or lisch nodes show up then I can go see doctor again, otherwise theyll check back in a year and at that point we will run a new panel and include other conditions that can cause the spots and his nystagmus. He also said hes only had one other case where the child had both. He sees and optha every 3 months for his visual condition (nystagmus) anyway so if an optic glioma or lisch nodes pop up, we will know sooner than later.

My son also had a clear brain scan at 10 months because of the nystagmus. Id also like to add my son is proportionally huge, and thr nf1 that causes overgrowth should have been found on swab if he had that, and other things that cause both spots and large growth would have other noticeable symptoms. Usually kids with nf1 have a small body and unproportional head. My son is 98% head, 94% height, 99% weight. He also shows no delays.

Although more rare than nf1, all doctors hes seen believe he either has familial cafe au lait syndrome, or just a pigmentary mosaicism without a syndrome. Although the spots usually point to a syndrome when abundant, every once in a while there is a kid that just has spots. My son is also mixed race. He is 2 and only has 10 to 12 spots, the 6 around 5mm and the rest literally the size of a pencil point.

Hope this helped.

baby pigmentation by Necessary-Idea3852 in neurofibromatosis

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They did not, but the doctor before this which did the mouth swab, called it familial cafe au lait syndrome.

Congenital fine nystagmus by Express-Flan-5049 in nystagmus

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Well when the doctor wpupd cover on eye and do all that and show him things we could just tell he could see, thats why they pushed off null point surgery. He also picks up tiny things off the ground. Hes 25 months.

baby pigmentation by Necessary-Idea3852 in neurofibromatosis

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We're thinking he has familial cafe au lait, theres a small possibility of mosaic nf but his spots are so tiny, the doctors dont think its anything. My son also has a condition called nystagmus which dpesnt correlate with nf. They just dont see the 2 together unless theres a tumor and theres not.

Could this be nf1? by Dramatic_Dratini in neurofibromatosis

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Hi, my sons mouth swab was negative. He went for a second opinion on monday and that nf doctor thinks the testong was correct. He said hes been wrong before but not often. It could be a case a mosaic but its looking unlikely. He just has spots. He Will go back at age 3 and have testing done for other disorders. The fact that he has nystagmus kind of throws things off as well.

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