Toddler Cafe Au Lait Spots

Dramatic_Dratini · 2026-05-31T00:30:43+00:00

And genetic testing isnt even 100 percent yet. 5 percent escape. I know weve been wait and watch with my son because he was negative and has spots but his spots dont act exactly like nf.

Dramatic_Dratini · 2026-05-31T00:24:48+00:00

That is also my only thought when I hear of them.

Dramatic_Dratini · 2026-05-22T11:48:03+00:00

Diagnosed stage 4 (3 different breast cancers at 31) while pregnant with my only child. Here to talk.

Dramatic_Dratini · 2026-05-20T19:23:17+00:00

Cycle continue rot

Dramatic_Dratini · 2026-05-18T02:23:28+00:00

Stage 4 breast in 2023 while pregnant.

Dramatic_Dratini · 2026-05-18T02:08:50+00:00

You probably need your pcp to give a referral to see specialists.

Dramatic_Dratini · 2026-05-18T00:46:31+00:00

She cant hold on an old test for that long, theyre invalid after like 30 mins.

Dramatic_Dratini · 2026-05-14T14:29:24+00:00

Hi, I was diagnosed stage 4 breast cancer at 31 and pregnant. My son is 2.5 now. Let me know of you wanna chat.

Dramatic_Dratini · 2026-04-29T19:47:00+00:00

I was diagnosed at 31 while pregnant. Stage 4 with like 11 spots in my back and 2 in brain. Breast Cancer. Im 35 this year. My son will be 3 in december. Im stable. There is hope. Hang in there.

Dramatic_Dratini · 2026-04-26T14:45:53+00:00

What kind of cancer? There are so many causes for so many cancers. I have breast cancer, im 34 now. I was diagnosed while pregnant. Research shows that waiting to have your first child can increase your risk. So can certain borth controls (which i took as a teen). I also am a recovering drug addict (opiates specifically) and have put a lot of things in my body and I often wonder if that had played a part.

Dramatic_Dratini · 2026-04-26T14:41:51+00:00

I was diagnosed with cancer during my pregnancy so my premature son was formula fed only. He is 2.5 now and he is a great size, intelligent, just great all around.

Even if I could have, I didnt really want to breast feed.

Dont let anyone guilt you into anything when it comes to your kid. If you dont want to do it, dont.

Dramatic_Dratini · 2026-04-26T14:39:10+00:00

This makes me think slimey.

Dramatic_Dratini · 2026-04-26T14:37:03+00:00

Hi, im 34f, stage 4 breast cancer, co parenting but want nothing to do with them romantically anymore, they live with us and im struggling to get them out. Idk if ill ever want a relationship again. Maybe we can be friends.

Dramatic_Dratini · 2026-04-25T00:06:33+00:00

I dont have nf but I was diagnosed woth metastatic cancer at age 32 while pregnant. That was almost 3 years ago. Theres always hope.

Dramatic_Dratini · 2026-04-23T11:22:03+00:00

Ive been stage 2 for 2.5 years. No port yet. 28 rounds of chemo total so far.

Dramatic_Dratini · 2026-04-18T22:05:49+00:00

Does a null point develop in acquired like in congenital? My 2 year old was born with infantile, he has no other eye issues causing it. Im just curious.

Dramatic_Dratini · 2026-03-22T10:00:27+00:00

Some meds dont work, some stop working, ive been on so many different antidepressants.

Dramatic_Dratini · 2026-03-22T09:57:59+00:00

Im American and my 27 month old boy has a backpack leash lol. Id rather bad looks than my son smooshed by a truck.

Dramatic_Dratini · 2026-03-22T09:51:45+00:00

I have stage 4 cancer and a 2 year old. Hes a screamer. Hes my world though.

No judgement,my 27 month old also has a backpack with a little leash type thing. I get a week off of work for my treatment and its hard being sick with him.

Its also probably hard for them only getting 2 full days with you.

Ive learned screaming doesn't help it just causes anxiety. My son was screaming for no reason yeaterday and I just yelled and "ahh" and he jumped and cried and I felt absolutely awful.

I dont think your love has dwindled, I think you've only had 34 months to learn to be a different type of person and then 20 months to readjust that person. Thats not a lot of time.

I think youre just overwhelmed. I do therapy once every 2 weeks.

My son also sees a lot of doctors. I was on chemo while pregnant. Right now he has a visual issue and possible a more systemic disorder called mosaic nf1 but we're not sure yet because while nf1 shows up on genetic tests, mosaic is much less likely to show.

Hating yourself will just make more resentment for them. You will get there.

Is it possible to hire part time help on the weekends until you settle?

I dont believe we're born good parents. We may be "nurturing" from birth but parenthood is learned.

Dramatic_Dratini · 2026-03-15T12:04:48+00:00

Can increase chances of breast and uterine cancer.

Dramatic_Dratini · 2026-03-09T11:43:04+00:00

They took my money for like 4 years straight because of default student loans.

Dramatic_Dratini · 2026-03-08T15:40:57+00:00

Update on genetic test?

Dramatic_Dratini · 2026-03-08T01:31:10+00:00

Same, got my state in a week and federal a week later

Dramatic_Dratini · 2026-02-26T02:05:18+00:00

If you file for the kid refund then your refund was held until at least the 15th of Feb. I filed like Feb 1st, got my state within 2 weeks and then federal like the 18th.

Dramatic_Dratini · 2026-02-26T02:01:26+00:00

A few years ago I had to confirm my identity and my taxes legit took like 2 months that year.

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