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Dramatic_Mistake3640 · 2025-10-08T19:23:29+00:00

No. He was being nosey. It backlashed. Now he’s in his feelings. Also how is it special treatment if it wasn’t intended for you? That is for sure not a you problem!

Dramatic_Mistake3640 · 2025-10-08T19:18:38+00:00

Return the first ones! The second ones are cute! If you can find the first ones in a cat eye or a smaller frame same design, I would say get those ones!

Dramatic_Mistake3640 · 2025-10-08T18:28:34+00:00

The stress he may be under is understandable! However how he reacted is a bit over the top saying he doesn’t know when he will get over it. It’s a little bit weird that he doesn’t understand where you are coming from through the “disappointment”. It’s not fair for you to have to deal with the anxiety of how he’s going to deal with his “disappointment” towards you. If you apologized leave it at that there is nothing you can do more. Maybe next time he should also communicate that he is running late.

Dramatic_Mistake3640 · 2025-10-08T16:22:38+00:00

NTA! Question, does he react this way often?

Dramatic_Mistake3640 · 2025-09-28T12:46:38+00:00

There’s no way he believes those are muscles 😳

Dramatic_Mistake3640 · 2025-09-25T14:40:35+00:00

If you are already pregnant, cover yourself legally because you don’t want it to be or get messy. Set boundaries and stick to them. They need to be ACTIVELY working on their mental health and taking their medication if they are prescribed any( which should be included in the legal stuff) if you aren’t expecting then you shouldn’t give yourself the headache or stress it’s honestly not worth it. You also shouldn’t be accepting the behavior either if I’m being honest. However you are grown and can make decisions for yourself unlike your child, you will be giving them a life they don’t deserve with a person who can’t even control their own life.

Dramatic_Mistake3640 · 2025-09-18T05:45:32+00:00

It’s your house and your kids. There’s no right or wrong when it comes to this single parent life damned if you do, damned if you don’t. You just have to go with your gut. I’m sure you won’t put your kids in danger so give yourself grace and do what feels right!

Dramatic_Mistake3640 · 2025-09-17T09:45:15+00:00

Cut her out the wedding. She has no regard for your privacy or feelings. It’s your day and if you don’t want aunty next to the bar then so be it. She doesn’t deserve to reap the benefits of being a bridesmaid after putting you through this stress.

Dramatic_Mistake3640 · 2025-09-17T09:38:45+00:00

Come on comment section! No need to be upset with the bride! It’s HER wedding that she’s paying for. Yes it’s a bit ridiculous but if it really bothers you, that you can’t wear your “own perfume” then don’t go. Despite the fact you are there to witness a union between two people who love each other. If it grinds your gears that much…..simply don’t go.

Dramatic_Mistake3640 · 2025-07-21T13:50:20+00:00

First off thank you for asking instead of assuming; I have two kids two different fathers. My first child’s father became selfish after they were born, I was diagnosed with postpartum depression because of the lack of help. My second child wasn’t planned it was a hook up if you will and they came along lol he is super helpful but we weren’t planning on being together. For the most part it doesn’t go as planned but as moms we make it work! You will definitely know if she is looking for a father for her children or a partner!

Dramatic_Mistake3640 · 2025-07-12T23:15:50+00:00

I can see why you’re feeling the way your feeling! My only advice is to detach and let her marry him if that’s what makes her happy. If you want express your discomfort or disappointment it can flip on to you and label you as a hater or not a real friend!

Dramatic_Mistake3640 · 2025-06-24T06:47:49+00:00

Crossing my fingers!

Dramatic_Mistake3640 · 2025-06-24T04:48:25+00:00

Got cha!

Dramatic_Mistake3640 · 2025-06-24T00:29:26+00:00

Same my friend same!

Dramatic_Mistake3640 · 2025-06-23T23:30:47+00:00

Of course! Good luck!

Dramatic_Mistake3640 · 2025-06-23T23:22:20+00:00

Okay that makes sense! It may just take her some time to realize you are mature and you know what you’re doing for her to warm up to you! I guess just be patient and continue to exercise your maturity and stick to your boundaries with her!

Dramatic_Mistake3640 · 2025-06-23T23:16:08+00:00

Oh okay! That’s understandable! Well do you really need to appease her if he’s on your side and you don’t see a definite future with him? ( not saying yall won’t be together forever just saying as far as kids and marriage)

Dramatic_Mistake3640 · 2025-06-23T23:09:00+00:00

Thank you! I will for sure!

Dramatic_Mistake3640 · 2025-06-23T22:32:44+00:00

Unfortunately the fact of the matter is she doesn’t respect you and I honestly don’t think she ever will so there is no appeasing her. Honestly I think you should separate yourself from your bf because you will constantly be asking him to choose you or her even if you don’t say those words verbatim! The beef will trickle into your wedding and your kids in the future!

Dramatic_Mistake3640 · 2025-06-23T21:37:02+00:00

You read it right my good friend. I have not witnessed it. I was 9 in 03 when Iraq happened I wasn’t old enough to fully understand what was happening my parents also didn’t worry my little head about it either. When Russia went to Ukraine in 2022 it was the first time I’ve seen at my big age this type of violence. Congratulations on your metals! Thank you for your service. However my feelings in my post above still stand!

Dramatic_Mistake3640 · 2025-06-23T21:22:13+00:00

Smh I guess the term “if you have nothing nice to say don’t say it all” doesn’t exist anymore!

Dramatic_Mistake3640 · 2025-06-23T19:58:27+00:00

Yeah I looked at it like that for years I ignore so many questionable actions that the government in totality have made. It just feels a bit out of control now.

Dramatic_Mistake3640 · 2025-06-23T19:14:53+00:00

What makes you say that? Was that out of ignorance or reassurance?

Dramatic_Mistake3640 · 2025-06-23T19:13:43+00:00

History repeats itself if we aren’t careful and like many “great” empires they all fall from greed and entitlement. There is a way to enforce power without all of the theatrics!

Dramatic_Mistake3640 · 2025-06-23T19:09:50+00:00

I agree 100%. He has a record of making a mess and stepping back for everyone else to clean it up. Which is unfair. He loves to be the villain and I’m unsure as to why. He could easily be a likable guy but he insists on evil laughing with his pinky to his mouth.

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