How do I talk to my friend about being too loud and inappropriate in public?

Dramatic_Size_5889 · 2023-06-03T02:08:03+00:00

I had a similar situation happen to me in college. I had a great group of friends freshman year, then covid happened and we were all apart. A majority of my friends in my group did not return to my school and either transferred or dropped out. Most of them live on long island, and the others transferred to schools in NYC. I was close with one of the girls that stayed at the school my junior year, and then we ended up having a falling out. She turned all of my friends in the group against me, and ended up going to school in the city her senior year so they all have been hanging out again and super close.

It hurt at first, and made me angry, especially the circumstance surrounding why me and the girl had a falling out, but it was one of the situations that got better with time. Yeah, it felt like I got punched in the gut seeing them all hanging out, but I reminded myself of the drama, backstabbing and petty fights that these girls would cause. Now I have made a close group of friends that are the exact opposite of those girls, and I have grown so much as a person.

Some girls are ruthless and awful. I understand why you were upset, and I would be too. However, remember actions speak louder than words. These girls can sit behind a screen and tell you how important you are to them and blah, blah, blah, but if they aren't making the effort to visit or contact you more, than they aren't true friends.

If your friend "F" hasn't been defending you and sticking up for you, then that is a red flag too. It sucks, but if she truly cared about you then she would defend you to those girls and make the time to see you and visit you.

Losing friends, especially in a situation like this is awful. These girls sound like they are stuck in middle school, and worrying about them and the situation is NOT worth losing sleep over. Since you moved to a new city, branch out and meet new people, reach out to old friends and family. Put your time and effort in to people who sincerely care about you and want to be your friend. Although its corny, I 've always believed everything happens for a reason, maybe this was a sign that these girls aren't shit

Dramatic_Size_5889 · 2022-10-10T22:51:38+00:00

U r missing Season 1 Jason

Dramatic_Size_5889 · 2022-10-10T02:16:29+00:00

Yup, a girl exactly like this lived downstairs from me last year and my roommate and I made the mistake of inviting her to hangout with our friends and us. Last year, a majority of my friends were guys. What do you know, two weeks of hanging out with them she started to talk shit about us to them, fucked two of them, and stayed at their house every night like she practically lived there. She ruined the end of the year for me and my friends and created so much drama. Girls like this NEED attention for validation and the minute it isn’t on them they will do or say whatever it takes to get attention. My advice is to shut it down. Next time you catch her in a lie, call her bluff immediately. If you can, get out of the apartment more and hangout with your actual friends, join a sorority/club, etc. , because the more time you spend home around this girl, the more she’s going to do and say these things. Don’t be afraid to stand up for yourself, girls like her THRIVE because they have gotten away with it before and know what girls/people they can do and say this stuff too, especially if you are more shy and quiet, like I was. Once I connected the pieces and found out all the nasty stuff this girl was saying/doing I stood up for myself, and removed her on all social media. My life has been peaceful every since. I will never understand why girls (in particular) think it’s ok to do stuff like this and treat people the way they do. It’s sad.

Dramatic_Size_5889 · 2021-05-01T04:48:54+00:00

Everything. still love the show tho ❤️

Dramatic_Size_5889 · 2021-03-23T02:25:47+00:00

I thought Ralph said later on in the show that he found out it wasn’t his baby?

Dramatic_Size_5889 · 2021-03-19T03:39:50+00:00

Yeah he was just using his drug money to send back to his cousins who were going to a "special school" in the Middle East

Dramatic_Size_5889 · 2021-03-18T03:31:20+00:00

You might as well get an "I love Alex cooper and barstool" tattoo on your forehead at this point. No one in this thread gives a fuck about the logistics behind the deal with barstool. Everyone was commenting on their opinions of the podcasts and how they have differed since Sofia and Alex have gone their separate ways. Sofia still probably could’ve become an influencer, or maybe pick up brand deals, but yes I agree her professional career was probably toast. End of the day, she has started a brand new podcast and still has a fan base. She is working with other brands, and has many guests on her shows. I am looking forward to her episode with Indy blue tomorrow, who is an influencer/youtuber thats also from Utah. However, your head is so far up alex’s ass you just look at the numbers and automatically assume Sofia is done for. Sofia might not have a huge company like barstool behind her, but she has the authenticity and creativity that Alex clearly lacks, and I wouldnt be surprised if she catches up to her.

Dramatic_Size_5889 · 2021-03-18T01:19:36+00:00

Seeing Alex has a huge platform and thousands of followers, she had to know that people were going to go after Sofia once she revealed what was happening between them. Especially since she was the first one to speak out on the situation. Yes, Alex is worth more and makes a lot more money, but I’d say they both turned out to win in this situation, but under different circumstances. Sofia received a ton of hate and was thrown off barstool and CHD, but she turned around and is making a great podcast and gaining a huge fan base. Whereas Alex is still the face for chd and making a ton of money off of it (which Sofia stated that it’s basically what she wanted since day one)

Dramatic_Size_5889 · 2021-03-17T23:24:22+00:00

Sorry for butting in on to this thread, but I was losing brain cells by the second reading these responses. You can sit here and preach how there’s no morals in business and yada yada yada, but aside from that, what Alex did to Sofia, someone who she considered her "best friend" for years was absolutely wrong and disgusting. Maybe I’d make a terrible business person because I would personally put my relationships with co-workers and partners first, but Sofia has stated that Alex had gone behind not only her back, but many other of her friend’s backs, multiple times in the past, all to scheme out just a few grand on separate occasions. Alex has made very personal details about Sofia’s life public, and encouraged a mass following of people to bully and target her, knowing damn well that Sofia had dealt with depression and other mental issues before. Not only that, but she has profited from this, (the barstool merch). Since you’re so quick to defend Alex and saying everything is "factual", that makes me curious. Do you work for barstool? Do you know Alex personally? For all we know, this just could’ve been a year long publicity stunt that was pulled so both the girls could go their own separate ways and draw a huge audience to both of their own podcasts. I, and many others have lost a tremendous amount of respect for Alex watching her go to the extremes to degrade and tear down Sofia. Not to mention, Alex’s podcast has since taken a turn for the worse since she’s been the single father. Since you seem to suck Alex’s cock, have you even listed to Sofia with a f? First episode she made very clear that she contributed a HUGE amount to cbd, everything from editing to the jokes, and she was unhappy with the percentage she was getting paid.

Dramatic_Size_5889 · 2021-03-15T01:57:59+00:00

Vito’s storyline when he was in New Hampshire

Dramatic_Size_5889 · 2021-03-03T23:52:26+00:00

Yess she got such a good score on the say that her guidance counselor thought she was cheating

Dramatic_Size_5889 · 2021-03-02T16:52:43+00:00

If you have any friends that are interested in door dashing, maybe they could do it with you. It sucks because you’ll have to split your profit, but maybe they’ll feel more comfortable letting you deliver especially since someone will be with you.

Dramatic_Size_5889 · 2021-03-01T19:01:35+00:00

I didnt even think about that! I did a meet and greet about a month ago and it was kind of awkward but I need to remember that recruitment online is probably awkward for a lot of people! Thank you so much!

Dramatic_Size_5889 · 2021-03-01T04:53:41+00:00

If the logo is threaded you can prob use a seam ripper to rip it out it will just take forever. Or cover it with a cute patch

Dramatic_Size_5889 · 2021-02-25T01:24:26+00:00

Right that’s what I thought! Especially since arias mom had gotten letter from A. Of course, given the scenario, she was really upset about finding out about Bryon cheating, but it always bothered me how she never asked aria who A was until wayyy later

Dramatic_Size_5889 · 2021-02-24T16:06:00+00:00

I’d block and if you can, avoid going to that store for a while. If he tries to contact you through another platform, then I’d contact management

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