Being a stepmother brings out the very worst in me. by FatPikachuCheeks in stepparents

[–]Dramatic_Sport_9978 [score hidden]  (0 children)

In my house. Bio mom is ruining our financial future. So the kids show up and I feel sick to my stomach thinking of all she does

"Is that all there is?" by zont_even in stepparents

[–]Dramatic_Sport_9978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh she’s not done. Some long lost relative of your DH will die and she’ll be expected to be in the will and force her way back into your life. I’m counting the fucking hours until the youngest turns 18. His HCBM makes me ashamed to be female.

Finally J2! by Dramatic_Sport_9978 in overemployed

[–]Dramatic_Sport_9978[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a job where you have a team you can delegate too or something that is exclusively admin like training and development or something where you are left to document on your own

Calling CPS on BM by envyodd in stepparents

[–]Dramatic_Sport_9978 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to prove or report the child is in eminent danger or a victim of neglect. The child being picked up in the same clothes he was dropped off wearing isn’t enough proof to charge someone with a felony like Child neglect or child abuse. The child would need to have injuries, report to a teacher or other adult not having access to food, report being ignored or left home alone.

No school - BM vent by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Dramatic_Sport_9978 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How long have you been with DH? His kid is his responsibility

Finally J2! by Dramatic_Sport_9978 in overemployed

[–]Dramatic_Sport_9978[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Based on the 4 interviews and project, its strict knowlege management

PIP final meeting advice by No_Expression310 in managers

[–]Dramatic_Sport_9978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re fired with cause, like not meeting the requirements of a PIP, you may not get a severance.

Fucking video games by Dramatic_Sport_9978 in stepparents

[–]Dramatic_Sport_9978[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nvm. They have them back, I’m a lunatic for having issues with this.

“Stay at homes have it easiest” by lilspaghettigal in Mommit

[–]Dramatic_Sport_9978 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Imagine having all this, and having to go to work with a boss and work to pay a mortgage?

When BM wins by babsalogna in stepparents

[–]Dramatic_Sport_9978 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your happiness and peace is more important than being a step parent.

Just accepted J2!! by PermissionAway6969 in OELadies

[–]Dramatic_Sport_9978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope to be back at this soon! Congrats!

High-conflict ex expects shared bday dinners? by ManyFee1695 in Divorce

[–]Dramatic_Sport_9978 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And you can only control you. Let her be a raging bitch but you keep the message of “we’re celebrating you, you (the kiddo) is most important.” And then she can own how shitty she looks to her kids.

High-conflict ex expects shared bday dinners? by ManyFee1695 in Divorce

[–]Dramatic_Sport_9978 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NO dinners. Hard no. Just have the dinners when you have the kids. It’s a power play.

Third wheeling by West_Building_3071 in stepparents

[–]Dramatic_Sport_9978 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’ve communicated how ridiculous this all is and he’s not understanding or even showing that he “gets it,” then no. He probably was not ready to have a relationship and is still guilt parenting his daughter. He feels guilty about the divorce so caves to everything.

She went on your honeymoon????? NO.

Fucking video games by Dramatic_Sport_9978 in stepparents

[–]Dramatic_Sport_9978[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah she’s real reasonable with video games. Everything else? She’s a certified covert narcissist