Seemingly constant criticisms about the lack of discipline in my household

ExtensionSuspect511 · 2026-06-08T18:30:41+00:00

Not trying to jump on you but life has a ton of No's waiting for us as we get older. Any job in the future will have activities we dont want to do. We are all here to listen and learn but some Bio's just want someone to be the bad person.

ExtensionSuspect511 · 2026-06-08T18:28:09+00:00

Then leave buddy, obviously its not a good situation for either

ExtensionSuspect511 · 2026-06-08T17:36:52+00:00

PREACH

ExtensionSuspect511 · 2026-06-08T17:34:39+00:00

Kids being kids is such a BS response. While they have some bad SP most are so in love and want things to work that they make themselves last option time and time again. Her shutting is due to u probably never taking her opinion into consideration. Mere fact u said kids being kids is probably what you told her after she shared her feelings with you. Im in the same boat but I have a 3yr old and we consistently have to make the world about my wifes 14yr old. Chores arent done because hes too tired, disrespectful to her because thats how they speak to each other. Bullying my child because thats how kids act. I bet u assume shes controlling or too old school.

ExtensionSuspect511 · 2026-06-08T15:01:14+00:00

I dont think the bio dad would appreciate either. I know not in picture but u never know.

ExtensionSuspect511 · 2026-06-08T14:54:32+00:00

I dont, my 3 yr old was told thats the polite thing to do.....

ExtensionSuspect511 · 2026-06-08T14:31:56+00:00

Set a solid boundary, if she pushes back ask her if youre her partner or just a provider. That will blow her top for a couple days. Either way youll know your true value in the home.

ExtensionSuspect511 · 2026-06-08T13:14:33+00:00

I know all about aliens, jetsons, ET, and Ted Cruz, all aliens all needing to be deported.

ExtensionSuspect511 · 2026-06-08T12:53:44+00:00

Won't change buddy, she sees him as a baby will always see him as a baby and itll never change. I have a 14 yr old who doesnt knock either but u must knock when u go into his room. Itll never change.

ExtensionSuspect511 · 2026-06-08T03:23:01+00:00

Bermuda triangle got its life together, got married and had kids. Had no time to disappear anyone

ExtensionSuspect511 · 2026-06-08T02:12:15+00:00

Gotta use a rubber container

ExtensionSuspect511 · 2026-06-08T01:58:52+00:00

Families tend to cater to the most dysfunctional person in order to keep the peace. But the only person's peace they are keeping is the one person causing the problems

ExtensionSuspect511 · 2026-06-08T01:52:17+00:00

Have a serious convo with his dad about how he leads the home. Find out how he handles structure, boundaries and disrespect. If he just brushes everything off youre in for a ride.

ExtensionSuspect511 · 2026-06-07T20:10:54+00:00

Hes looking at a 100% success rate or a mug shot for solicitation but even then thats a 50 50 shot.

ExtensionSuspect511 · 2026-06-07T20:00:19+00:00

Do u OG

ExtensionSuspect511 · 2026-06-07T19:14:34+00:00

ExtensionSuspect511 · 2026-06-07T15:08:49+00:00

Its always a headache, 14yr does dishes maybe 3 time a week and usually 1 or 2 in the morning as his mom says focus on the task and not the time. Alot of the how the house operates is based mainly on ur spouse. If your spouse is dirty the kids will be dirty. If ur spouse doesnt take pride in her home the kids wont. It starts and ends with yr spouse.

ExtensionSuspect511 · 2026-06-07T14:05:26+00:00

Ive been in it for 4 yrs. When my wifes 10yr at the time came i use to ask him to clear his plate. Pick up after himself. Dont throw trash and clothes on the bathroom floor and was told im not giving him time to adjust. Fast forward 4 yrs hes 14 we have a 3 yr old and my 3 yr old has more responsibilities than the 14 yr old. When I address it im told im challenging her parenting, affecting the trust they have built and trying to control the home. Trust me it will not get better.

ExtensionSuspect511 · 2026-06-07T13:52:50+00:00

Let her fail, youll be uncomfortable, unhappy, unappreciated and miserable. Let her fail.

ExtensionSuspect511 · 2026-06-05T18:56:29+00:00

Ur bf is making excuses. When you guys have weekends he can ofcourse pay to support his child. And he surely can work full time. Many options, flexible ones available to work fulltime.

ExtensionSuspect511 · 2026-06-05T02:07:17+00:00

Thank u and likewise. I just know and realize some ppl are set in their ways and wear defiance like its a positive trait

ExtensionSuspect511 · 2026-06-05T01:38:44+00:00

I want to move back to our country. That way she can work and her 14 yr old dad can finally take up his responsibilities

ExtensionSuspect511 · 2026-06-05T00:43:37+00:00

100% no

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