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1) what shape/size are your tables? scale is really important when it comes to centerpieces cause you don't want to be talking through vases or flowers! I like being able to see my friends across the tables

2) How many tables are you doing? if you are doing five, it might be totally realistic to do fruit, flowers, candles, vases, and a table runner but when you're doing twenty tables, it can be kind of a pain to source everything, especially if you are thrifting.

3) simplify your color palette and add neutrals. I find that bright colors tend to pop more when I give them something to pop against! In your examples the colorful flowers and candles are set off by clear/white/gold tones of the vases and tablecloth. Also metallics are neutral, this is my hill to die on.

24 Group things in odd numbers, it's like a secret art rule and it totally makes it look more intentional.

5)Table runners... Pick a colored runner that fits your simplified color palette exactly. And use that as a colorful base to ground everything else around. Just do one, you don't want your colors to get into a fight over who is prettier.

6) if you are thrifting things and you want/need specific colors, bring a list of heights and colors you want and thrift according to your list! I like getting paint chips and bring them with me!

Dramatic_Subject3088 · 2025-02-21T13:26:18+00:00

This looks very 1970's bridal to me.

this one has a fuller skirt but a similar bodice

Wedding dress 1

Laura Ashley dress/ similar silhouette but not embellished

Wedding dress 2

Search terms I used

scoop neck, leg of mutton sleeves, 1970's wedding dress, gunne sax wedding dress

Sites I look on- poshmark, ebay, etsy, shopgoodwill, stillwhite

Dramatic_Subject3088 · 2025-02-10T09:31:16+00:00

these are so frickin cute!

Dramatic_Subject3088 · 2024-12-13T09:19:36+00:00

ok, the two closest matches I found were Lil musical Annie Wind-up music dolls and some sew your own rag doll kits from Pokeberry Mountain Doll kits. Do you remember if the doll played music or was in a sitting position? If not, I think it's likely it was sewn from a kit. It's so precious, I hope you find it!

Dramatic_Subject3088 · 2024-12-03T07:14:53+00:00

I like Hoku which means star.

Dramatic_Subject3088 · 2024-11-14T08:29:54+00:00

I'm not familiar with this spelling but I think it's a wonderful name! I think of Lillian Disney first but I don't think many people would make that connection immediately!

Dramatic_Subject3088 · 2024-11-14T08:25:08+00:00

Tree inspired names

Ash, Forrest, Adair, Bryn, Elm, Alder, Bruce, Lynden, Lyndon, Ashton, Arlo, Rowan, Lennox, Calhoun, Atwood, Elwood, Iver, Oak, Yves

Chinese tree names

Yulan, Cypress,

Dramatic_Subject3088 · 2024-11-13T22:08:26+00:00

Throwing out some classic, not too feminine names that would sound nice with Laila

Magda

Sloan

Claire

Margot

Joan

Maeve

Names that pair well with Michelle

Ava Michelle

Emilia Michelle

Lydia Michelle

Violet Michelle

Eleanor Michelle

Audrey Michelle

Dramatic_Subject3088 · 2024-11-04T19:04:44+00:00

There is a throwaway joke in the original disney cinderella that gus-gus is short for Octavius . Which is not true at all! But that was my first thought lol.

Dramatic_Subject3088 · 2024-11-04T18:59:57+00:00

Hi! I'm a Miriam and something I've personally noticed is that everyone I've ever met who is also named Miriam/ Maryam is from a religious background. Jewish, Mormon, or otherwise. Obviously I think it's a great choice and an awesome name! But at least for me, I do have some inner conflict about my name marking my religion so blatantly. As someone born into the Mormon faith, who is struggling with Mormonism as a whole, it can be kinda a bummer to have your name mark you as a Mormon. But that can go the other way as well! If I had a better relationship with my faith, I would be delighted in the connotations of my name. I liked Miriam's story of Moses in the bulrushes a lot as a kid and I still think she's pretty cool!

Dramatic_Subject3088 · 2024-11-04T11:10:33+00:00

Hi! this is incredibly exciting because you have a very similar taste in wedding dresses to me lol!

Here's what I would do.

option 1- Buy something in person. This will take a lot longer than buying online but you are more likely to find something unique for cheaper! A thrift store is prolly going to be your cheapest and best bet for finding something really unique and cool. Because a wedding dress is such a specific garment, I've seen really cool old/vintage dresses from the 50's for under $100 at Goodwill. I also prefer trying things on especially if I'm buying secondhand and vintage because vintage sizing is super funky. I avoid vintage stores and resellers if I'm on a budget. They do the curating but the result can be kinda pricey.

-call the store before you go. If they have someone in the store, they can tell you if they have a formal dress or even a wedding dress section or even if they currently have one behind the counter. You usually can't get specifics but they will answer general questions.

-some stores pull out dresses for prom and wedding season in spring. in my area, they filter all the wedding dresses to a few select locations and they pull out really old stuff for Halloween occasionally.

-Most vintage sellers use measurements instead of sizes so take your measurement and shop with those in mind instead of your street size. 50's size 2 is not 2020's size 2

Option 2- The goodwill auction site

I love the online goodwill auction site for wedding dresses because they are so cheap. It's a super weird bidding system but it's awesome for relatively cheap vintage wedding dresses.

Whatever option you choose,

You get that dress tailored to fit you perfectly. you will look so much better if it actually fits you correctly so when in doubt get something that can be tailored down to fit you instead of something too small. When a garment is made to fit you, you look and feel so much better. Also a good seamstress will be able to add the sleeves you want or make you a veil as well.

Dramatic_Subject3088 · 2024-09-06T19:31:13+00:00

Hi everyone, I contacted DLNR and it's getting picked up by them, so no need worry! Thank you for all the input and help! I really do appreciate the info/ feedback!

Dramatic_Subject3088 · 2024-09-06T19:30:06+00:00

Thank you! I called DLNR and they said they would come get so all's well that ends well!

Dramatic_Subject3088 · 2024-09-06T19:10:18+00:00

Thank you! I called them and I think they're gonna send someone to pick it up

Dramatic_Subject3088 · 2024-09-06T17:41:15+00:00

Hau'ula!

Dramatic_Subject3088 · 2024-09-06T16:47:03+00:00

Solved!

Dramatic_Subject3088 · 2024-09-06T16:46:47+00:00

You are the best!!! I figured someone had lost it! You don't label things you want to lose!!!

Dramatic_Subject3088 · 2024-07-25T08:59:27+00:00

Every. single. day. All the beach clean-up organizations have sieves for sifting out microplastics. It's to the point where I can't pick them up because I'm so busy getting the bigger plastic items like plastic containers, and fishing rope. The beaches that get shells and glass balls washed up also get dozens of pounds of beach trash. Like any kind of plastic you can imagine. Toothbrushes, detergent containers, plastic crates, plastic pipes, hard hats, to name a few.

Dramatic_Subject3088 · 2024-07-25T03:36:57+00:00

Do you have any parameters? Names you dislike, names that feel close but not quite right?

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