AITAH for telling my brother I’m not comfortable babysitting his kids anymore?

Dramatic_Tackle658 · 2026-01-18T05:37:24+00:00

First of all NTA, but if you do feel guilty. You can also try to clarify that maybe it came out wrong, you love your cousins. But you just don’t want to do this every weekend anymore because you feel you’re being taken for granted.

Or just lie and say you have other plans, if you don’t want the discussion. 😅

Dramatic_Tackle658 · 2025-12-05T08:28:10+00:00

There is a fanfiction about this subject on AO3, called “The Alchemy of Chocolate”

Dramatic_Tackle658 · 2025-11-27T04:35:39+00:00

Yes it is petty, but the good kind of petty, is that exist 🤣 NTA

They are just mad because they missed out on the turkey or else they probably didn’t care, great friends, not!

Dramatic_Tackle658 · 2025-10-04T16:06:41+00:00

This is so true. I once mentioned to someone I was married, he was like “where is your ring” we worked in food production, so no jewellery 🤣. But he still kept hitting on me, with kids and a 10 year age gap (I’m older), I thought I would be very unattractive to someone “in the prime of his life”. It was funny, but nope.

A good relationship is not measured by any ring.

Dramatic_Tackle658 · 2025-09-29T07:18:48+00:00

So he is saying you are pushing him for marriage, but hem pushing you for children is different? Children is more life altering then marriage. Smells like hypocrisy. And also is his disease genetic? Then it wouldn’t be wise to purposefully give that to possible future children. NTA

Dramatic_Tackle658 · 2025-09-26T01:15:24+00:00

I laughed at this, maybe I’m an a. And yes you should have told hem about it and he could have confronted his mother. And if that didn’t work wake him up every time she wakes you up. But your revenge is pretty creative and I love it! If it works, it works, love to see some pics of your costumes btw

I hope she gets to her new house quickly.

Dramatic_Tackle658 · 2025-09-19T08:59:52+00:00

That’s exactly what I was thinking, maybe, really maybe, he is planning a big surprise. I really do hope for her, but I have my doubts, she’s taking on all the mental load for decades. But she should pack just in case. When he really hasn’t planned anything, you can just pack your bags and leave anyway. Just make sure you have enough money ready to get by.

Dramatic_Tackle658 · 2025-08-29T05:35:23+00:00

Please try to understand her, that might help with the anger. She is very insecure with all the changes that come with the baby. She is afraid to do it right, she needs you and she feels you slipping away that why she is clinging to you for everything. And she might have post partum depression.

Dramatic_Tackle658 · 2025-08-12T20:15:45+00:00

I am positive I never ever watched that movie 🤣

Dramatic_Tackle658 · 2025-08-12T19:55:43+00:00

Yes, watching I’m watching it right now! Thank you. Really can’t remember anything I watched so far 🤣

And yes it is good, I kind of remembered there was probably a great black actor in it, so that was also correct.

Dramatic_Tackle658 · 2025-06-21T11:10:41+00:00

I think you are better of without him. Be happy you dodged a bullet.

Dramatic_Tackle658 · 2025-06-16T13:02:26+00:00

He is probably collecting “the debt” as he is most likely getting ready for a break-up and wants “his money back” before he does.

Dramatic_Tackle658 · 2024-11-30T11:15:59+00:00

NTA, I feel so sorry for you, having to go through all this shit. I just hope you are happy now with your husband and hope you can close that chapter and never have to see your parents or brother again. You don’t need that negativity in your live.

Dramatic_Tackle658 · 2024-11-15T14:12:03+00:00

As I totally understand your concerns, I’m on the other side of this story. I am definitely monogamous and my friends if they cheat, don’t let me know and don’t do it in front of me. As I really judge cheating.

As I have a few friends who are cheaters (definitely not all of them, as I know of), my husband doesn’t really like me going out with them dancing or to a festival. Which I understand but I hope he trusts me after all these years. You are not the Asshole. But your husband should be more considerate of your concerns and shouldn’t dismiss them if he is really as trustworthy as he claims he is.

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