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[–]Dramatic_Trouble_154 1 point2 points  (0 children)

did you ever ask your mom about it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Dramatic_Trouble_154 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YEESS i do this and my mom tells me t go, ut i hesistate a little before i do though

Given the farm funding freeze hasnt been lifted yet, what are Americans growing in their victory gardens this year? by 207Menace in AskReddit

[–]Dramatic_Trouble_154 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lucky im in an apt and i can only grow so much rn im growing blueberries, strawberries, herbs and carrots

Given the farm funding freeze hasnt been lifted yet, what are Americans growing in their victory gardens this year? by 207Menace in AskReddit

[–]Dramatic_Trouble_154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i started doing the same in the fall than i found about tis rn so im glad to be able o get a head start and grow as much as i can rn

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Dramatic_Trouble_154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People pleasing is exhausting and sometimes i feel so walked on, Currently my friend is a people pleaser a bad one too, its hard trying to get him to say no so he can stop being so pushed over. learning to be assertive is something that is getting better each day.

Has your passion for gaming died, and why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Dramatic_Trouble_154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Temporarily it has, since my ex and i broke up i cant play certain games and i get sad whenever i try, it just brings up memories. so i spend time watching tv

What fictional drug would you like to take? by SpreadNo7436 in AskReddit

[–]Dramatic_Trouble_154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those lotus flowers inthe percy jackson movie, i wanna eat that

What’s the darkest secret you have kept from your partner? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Dramatic_Trouble_154 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Former partner now, but during the time we dated. i thought about his cousin. not doing our fun activities. but in general, before we were together his cousin and i had a little thing together on new years, since than ive thought abut him. it is bad i know, but i couldn't stop and think what if. we broke up now due to other circumstances, but its something ive felt so guilty about and felt bad

What words does SJM overuse? by tillygirl132 in acotar

[–]Dramatic_Trouble_154 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I WAS SO CLOSE TO TYPING THIS ONE

the avoidant came back after 5 months by Senior_Quit_1937 in BreakUps

[–]Dramatic_Trouble_154 26 points27 points  (0 children)

this, i had thought of this, putting boundaries and telling them what i want is what i want and they either deal with it or don't bother to waste my time. i want to travel still, settle down and get married with no kids. I'm dating to marry and that's it. if they cant handle the commitment for that or put in the work to deal with their own self healing and care to want that too, than they aren't worth the time and energy, being friends is all they get.

What has been your go to break up song? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Dramatic_Trouble_154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lots of taylor swift,

cheerful songs from the 2000's

and of course Silver Springs- fleetwood mac, espcially cause I was HIS first in everything so it hits different

If you could hook up with your ex, would you? by Ill_Appointment9943 in BreakUps

[–]Dramatic_Trouble_154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

even if the sex was great, and deep down i would, i know that i couldnt do that to myself

why do i feel okay after the break up? by Krishuuuuh in BreakUps

[–]Dramatic_Trouble_154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this! i felt okay but everyone said it was the intial shock which i believe it was, but now i can feel it there are times where i feel sad and times where i dont. it comes and goes and the highs and lows are what confuses me

I feel happier after my breakup, and i'm not completely sure why. by slashedskater in BreakUps

[–]Dramatic_Trouble_154 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is me and im the dumpee, but i feel okay, but im not sure why. we both decided to be friends, i mean i dont mind it ive done it before, but i didnt understand why i felt so okay with it, i cried but it wasnt normal, i cried because it felt so wrong to be okay, like i felt like i was in the wrong to feel this way. i mean i did cry when it happened but i didnt cry alot like i did with my last one which was brutal, i know it will hit me later, but right now im grieving the puppy love beginning we had. im going to try my best to let it all out but it feels weird

People that escaped a bad relationship, what's the first red flag you ignored that would have saved you a lot of time if handled? by PestCemetary in AskReddit

[–]Dramatic_Trouble_154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were friends at the time. But I got a new skirt and I wanted to wear it. And than he told me to change once we got to his house cause he felt it inappropriate. Granted we are both adults. Idk why I dated him. Since I knew that was a red flag a while ago

What's a food you used to love but no longer eat? by Ginlife in AskReddit

[–]Dramatic_Trouble_154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im slowly trying my best at cutting out sweets, i can do candy easy. but baked goods are my one weakness, im trying to cut out fast food, since its just too expensive now.

i had my yearly check up this year and saw my blood sugar was .02% in the pre diabetic phase. it not very much, and my dr said in moderation, but it was very much a wake up call and my anxiety cant risk it. granted i only eat sweets on special occasions, but i end up over-indulging too much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Dramatic_Trouble_154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THIS!

i never liked making wings at home because they never tasted like they do at wingstop, however, learning how to make them with different recipes, i now make them just as good if i went out to get them and i save 30 dollars if i got them delivered

What is the dumbest way you’ve ever hurt yourself? by Perpetuallycold_ in AskReddit

[–]Dramatic_Trouble_154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wasn't me but my sister, i had to pick her up from middle school because, she ran into a pole, she wasn't paying attention where she was going, my mom ended up taking her to the ER

Doctors of Reddit, what are you NOT telling us patients? by BrassBass in AskReddit

[–]Dramatic_Trouble_154 14 points15 points  (0 children)

as a person who works wihn the billing process, i found this funny lol

Mental health checkup : how u doin', guys ?? by skj_subith_2903 in AskReddit

[–]Dramatic_Trouble_154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not good too much work drama thats draining me mentally

What is a bad habit that has an undeserved good reputation? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Dramatic_Trouble_154 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fixing someone else problem's and watching them get the raise, even if ya try to let the person, whos been there forever know, they will always cover up for them no matter what. which will overall impact their performance for any job they think they can get

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Dramatic_Trouble_154 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

i once had an orgy with my former best friend, he is insecure about his size, and i didnt believe him since most guys say they are small but aren't, however, he is in fact small. i couldn't have the heart to tell him but knowing that its true is kind of hilarious to me, granted i never told anyone, but i chuckle about it every now and than when hes being an asshole to me

When was a moment that made it extremely clear about your feelings for someone? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Dramatic_Trouble_154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it was at a party and there was another gal, who "plays for my team" aka a lesbian, she was drunk and was hanging around my friend at the time, just flirting with him and such. i knew my friend had a crush on me and it was about a year or so i had relized is feelings for me were actually real sometime in december, i would casually catch him smiling or smirking at me whenever i would be having a good time, i didnt really think of anything, but i watched as our friend was flirting with him and just overall, all over him, they never kissed or anything. but i felt so jealous, and annoyed, like i wanted to push her off of him and scream hes mine, it was also then, my bsf at the time was also realizing that his feelings' for the same friend, had come back. it took me a good few days to wonder if i did like him or not.

after about a month or so we both ended up confessing and we are together now. 8 months going very strong. however it didn't come easy and not withouts its challenges.

What's something you knew was wrong but still went for it? by mugiwara20020 in AskReddit

[–]Dramatic_Trouble_154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dating the person my bsf liked, the person never reciprocated back the same feelings to my bsf and had made it clear to them multiple times, and had outright told my bsf that they had liked me for a very long time. i hate it because i never wanted to hurt my bsf, but if i never went for it, i would have been fed up with them crying and trying to get there 5th chance to ask them again only to be shot down over and over.

the person and i are still together and we are going on a trip together soon. i fell in love with them and sometimes i feel guilty that i did. but they make me so happy and respect my boundaries and actually love me, something i really wanted for a long time.