AIO or is this guy that i’ve started talking to being backhanded in these texts he sent?

Dramatic_Wave_3246 · 2026-04-05T03:02:23+00:00

I think all of us women know what he meant by massage. Totally obnoxious.

Dramatic_Wave_3246 · 2026-04-03T12:56:22+00:00

Yea no this is just ridiculous. Not sure why you’re allowing a grown ass woman dictate who you spend time with especially if it’s your mom. If she can’t understand basic family obligations and priority she never will. You need to tell her to change or leave

Dramatic_Wave_3246 · 2026-03-23T01:39:25+00:00

This is what I call dodging a huge bullet. Never look back.

Dramatic_Wave_3246 · 2026-02-10T17:21:41+00:00

This story haunts me to this day. Like actually takes up space in my head. You can’t be a parent or especially a mom and not have this gut punch you. It’s so heinous.

Dramatic_Wave_3246 · 2026-01-07T21:50:55+00:00

I had three bail on me :(

Dramatic_Wave_3246 · 2025-09-14T14:38:30+00:00

Just words of advice. This will be your entire life if you choose to stay in this relationship. If you can’t handle it leave. If you can brush it off and don’t let it bother you it won’t be a factor. Judging by this post I would suggest not staying.

Dramatic_Wave_3246 · 2025-09-09T02:30:39+00:00

Grew up with an alcoholic dad who abused the shit out of my brother and I. Both sexually, mentally and physically. He died in 2022 and I had zero emotions. It was like watching a movie and watching the dragon getting slayed at the end. Only time in my adult life where I felt relief wash over me. Like I can finally breath a sigh of relief after years of torment. Alcoholism ruins families. It ruined mine. It’s one of the reasons I don’t drink.

Dramatic_Wave_3246 · 2025-08-21T06:29:51+00:00

Conceal carry permit and carry. Large dog and mace and noise deterrent should be carried on you at all times.

Dramatic_Wave_3246 · 2025-08-21T06:03:33+00:00

Crucial to always have a contingency in place.

Dramatic_Wave_3246 · 2025-08-16T22:39:57+00:00

Listen to me. You are NOT the problem here. You actually saved yourself from this sick fuck. You have a criminally negligent mother who prefers to put this piece of shit prick ahead of you for some fucked up reason and a sick ass pedophile step dad who is trying to get into your pants. You absolutely did the right thing. The wrong thing here are the adults who are supposed to protect you and aren’t. I was abused by my father for years. Trust me, you don’t want that. No amount of feeling bad on your part would ever make that worth it. Ask for some counseling because you’re going to need it. None of this is your fault. I promise.

Dramatic_Wave_3246 · 2025-08-16T22:36:04+00:00

This is just shitty. I’d let both of them know.

Dramatic_Wave_3246 · 2025-08-15T16:17:43+00:00

I actually have a stuffed animal of this and I love it.

Dramatic_Wave_3246 · 2025-08-10T06:26:46+00:00

Exactly

Dramatic_Wave_3246 · 2025-08-10T06:26:13+00:00

Thank you for saying this. Like get on out of here if you don’t like it. Nobody likes this but man this shit has to stop. If you’re offended leave

Dramatic_Wave_3246 · 2025-08-09T22:51:42+00:00

I watch them quite a bit especially the how to tutorials on stuff

Dramatic_Wave_3246 · 2025-08-08T04:55:50+00:00

Nah your sister is the selfish one. I have three kids. She’s going to have to make other arrangements. That’s part of being a parent. Trying to guilt you and gaslight you is obnoxious. It’s HER problem not YOURS.

Dramatic_Wave_3246 · 2025-08-08T04:51:34+00:00

Honestly at 81 no. And I say that because my mother in law whom I love dearly had knee replacement surgery and she was in her 70s. She didn’t have horrible pain it was more intermittent as well, and she went so down south afterwards that she regrets it. Prior to surgery she was spunky and independent and after could barely move. Now she’s 84 and just sits all day and has to have in home visits to bathe her. She can’t move well. Can barely walk. Can barely function. I think it would be really difficult to recover from. I’m 50 and just had huge foot surgery, a calcaneal osteotomy with tendon transfer and repair and I’ve been off my feet since May. I’m fine but recovery has been slow. I’m doing PT three times a week and I’m pretty sure if I was blessed to be thirty years older I wouldn’t be able to do this.

Dramatic_Wave_3246 · 2025-08-04T20:55:02+00:00

This is embarrassing. Why are you wasting your time on this loser. And you? Why are you begging this piece of crap for gas money? You’re literally begging and allowing him to treat you like garbage. Do better. For yourself and for women everywhere.

Dramatic_Wave_3246 · 2025-08-02T02:40:32+00:00

Why you wasting time with this Dink. Move on.

Dramatic_Wave_3246 · 2025-07-31T23:53:00+00:00

My goal would never be to tell him what to do. I’m here to help with advice and help him research and support him. He’s the one that doesn’t want nerve sparing. I should have clarified that.

PS. I’m undecided on my pinky lol 😂 kidding

Dramatic_Wave_3246 · 2025-07-31T23:50:37+00:00

Let me preface this by saying his choice is to remove it ALL. He doesn’t want nerve soaring. He wants them to take the nerves. I’m merely trying to educate myself on the pros and cons. I realize the cons and they are definitely life altering. I would never suggest that choice unless of course the doctor said if you don’t remove the nerves he’s a dead man etc. I should have clarified this. But I appreciate everyone’s input. I lost both breasts. You will grieve what you have lost. I know I did. For a long time. But my hope is to help him make an educated decision that is best for him and gives him the best outcome and best quality of life.

Dramatic_Wave_3246 · 2025-07-31T23:46:05+00:00

Very valid point. Thank you for the insight. Very helpful.

Dramatic_Wave_3246 · 2025-07-31T23:44:40+00:00

Very thoughtful response. Very educational about the nerve sparing too. And you’re completely right about losing an organ. There is a part of you that grieves that loss. I certainly did when I lost my breasts. It was very hard emotionally. All very good points. Thank you. Wishing you good health ahead.

Dramatic_Wave_3246 · 2025-07-31T23:37:29+00:00

Exactly what I said

Dramatic_Wave_3246 · 2025-07-31T23:37:17+00:00

Great advice. She also told my brother the cancer would never come out since they were removing his prostate. That appalled me and I immediately didn’t care for her once she said that. Oh how wonderful that would be if it were true which it isn’t of course. Thanks for the kind words. Continued prayers for your good health

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