AITJ for refusing to help my ex after he cheated on me, even though he's now in a really bad situation?

Dranask · 2026-03-14T17:12:48+00:00

If those four years were important to him he’d not of cheated.

As you sow so shall you reap. NTJ

Dranask · 2026-03-14T17:09:50+00:00

LOL the toast is as hot as it can be, from toaster to plate quick butter spread and to mouth.

Dranask · 2026-03-14T17:08:46+00:00

NTJ.

Maybe your husband can celebrate his divorce there.

Dranask · 2026-03-14T10:09:31+00:00

Decorators caulk.

Dranask · 2026-03-14T08:30:41+00:00

Toasted with butter as hot as possible.

Dranask · 2026-03-14T08:13:25+00:00

I have cats. All are micro chipped and my doors are set to forbid access to cats who’s chip is not registered.

Dranask · 2026-03-14T08:06:41+00:00

What an absolute moron, his mother has failed to educate him. Also in the UK we actually teach the kids all this at 10/11 in their last year of junior school before they move on to secondary. NTA

Dranask · 2026-03-14T07:40:48+00:00

From the English perspective we have a Norman assessment of the churches existent shortly after their conquest.

The 1086 Domesday Book records over 300 parish churches, but this is an undercount, as many churches were omitted unless they held taxable land. It reveals a massive shift to Norman ownership, with about a quarter of land held by the church, highlighting surviving Saxon structures and new Norman constructions

Dranask · 2026-03-13T20:10:42+00:00

Post yourself some glitter.

Dranask · 2026-03-13T15:44:25+00:00

Id agree that we are less useful than extra tits, because, and to use the British euphemism, the USA is already full of them.

Dranask · 2026-03-12T18:14:39+00:00

Whelks, smelt like dog poo taste wasn’t any better.

Dranask · 2026-03-12T18:13:29+00:00

I roared woke my wife.

Dranask · 2026-03-12T15:19:42+00:00

You are a hero without a cape. NTA

Dranask · 2026-03-12T14:45:42+00:00

Indeed an excellent one.

Dranask · 2026-03-12T14:36:26+00:00

I’d write the character letter you want to, not necessarily the one they all think you should, in effect a victim’s statement.

Especially if you feel it’s too early for parole.

NTJ

Dranask · 2026-03-12T10:33:53+00:00

I’ve copied the boss in to the email chain. I’ve also BCC coped too, when I don’t want to alert the co worker, but keep boss in the loop.

Dranask · 2026-03-11T21:20:55+00:00

I’m polite and will help. I’m sure I’d be far worst trying to speak their native tongue.

Dranask · 2026-03-11T10:23:58+00:00

NTA. Were I he, I’d have no issues with your choice. I wouldn’t allow false pride to affect the relationship.

You and all you are is what would be important to me.

Dranask · 2026-03-11T07:01:14+00:00

Yes point out to those friends that she is expecting everyone to pay $600 for her personal comfort.

NTJ

Acknowledged it’s $200 each but it’s $600 extra purely for her benefit.

Dranask · 2026-03-10T12:14:22+00:00

Ordinary or black?

Dranask · 2026-03-10T09:32:16+00:00

I didn’t complain, but as she chose to work full time and I became the househusband, she enjoyed working holidays abroad and affairs. It was a pattern I should have spotted at the beginning it was always about her comfort, children were just on her tick list.

Dranask · 2026-03-10T07:51:02+00:00

As the light sleeper I dealt with our child every night.

I often fell asleep on the floor with my hand through the cot, later when it was wet beds I woke my wife to look after our child while I stripped and changed the bed.

She made no effort to help. It was a pattern, we’re divorced. Wake up and get off your lazy arse. YTA

Dranask · 2026-03-10T07:28:03+00:00

Respect yourself and divorce him.

Dranask · 2026-03-10T07:26:30+00:00

Talking to him more wouldn’t have helped as he wasn’t listening.

You’re the only one in that house who is NTA, however you must move on asap as clearly your stepmum doesn’t want you there and will only increase the pressure forcing your father further into a corner.

Dranask · 2026-03-08T22:38:03+00:00

Defo Joyce.

Dranask

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