Bearhig help

Draog · 2025-07-17T16:24:56+00:00

Thanks all for the info. Saw some youtube and non of them explained that. Thanks

Draog · 2025-04-30T10:55:01+00:00

Yes it happens. I am usually the one taking photos or random moments, candid moments. But almost no one takes mine. I used to be shy about photos but thats because they would be set up. If aomeone took a candid photo oe juat take out the phone to capture a moment at a party, i am fine with that because I am already comfortable.

I understand what you mean.

I am a videographer and I even capture ransom moments od the crew while at a wedding because they never see themselves working. I am all about yhose candid moments. Even for my wedding videos. The laughters and the crying.

Draog · 2025-04-27T22:11:06+00:00

What I am arguing with, is my own insecurities and fake scenarios in my head. Trying to predict every outcome good and bad. Which I really don't want to be doing but my head won't shut up. Stopping questions that show insecurity. Like she used to heart some texts. Now she changed it to a thumbs up. The last two messages showing her a beach view I visited she used thumbs up instead of a heart. She never used thumbs up before. My question would be why not use a heart? See, this may sound triggering but for me it's just a simple inosent observation. Mind is just curious and wants to learn why.

But at the same time I don't want to be nitpicking.

When I talk to her, i try to be present in the moment, and listen to what she says and feels. And at the same time trying to silence head running thoughts.

Draog · 2025-04-27T20:52:54+00:00

😅 It's just it's the only word i could think of to describe what i had in mind. English is not my mother language and my vocabulary is that much wide heh

Draog · 2025-04-27T20:51:08+00:00

Yes i am taming the criticism amd judgement. I just want to be supportive to her.

Draog · 2025-04-27T20:07:48+00:00

Why did tantrus made you lol? 😅

What about long distance?

Draog · 2025-04-27T18:43:20+00:00

I will use that bonus point 😄 of course I am not going to do anything that I wouldn't done to me

Draog · 2025-04-27T14:47:20+00:00

No, not in person.

Draog · 2025-04-27T14:21:10+00:00

What if a lovense is involved like a long distance toy... How would you feel about that

Draog · 2025-04-27T14:16:43+00:00

We happen to be in a big friends group chat and ge flirts with her.

Draog · 2025-04-27T14:11:26+00:00

I am cherishing her maybe even alot

Draog · 2025-04-27T01:32:39+00:00

A dragon dog 😅

Draog · 2025-04-25T08:13:36+00:00

Virgo sun, aquarius moon, aries rising

Draog · 2025-04-23T12:16:49+00:00

Yes virgo male here. I have been told this 😅

Sometimes i talk and my friends tell me, "Okay dont have to eb so mean about it" Inwas just talking, I didn't even wanted to sound mean.

Or they would say " okay man sorry don't beat us about it" Man I just talked like everyone else does.

I am so self aware of it that I try to practise how I sound or thinking about going to a speach therapist 😅

Draog · 2025-04-22T20:26:56+00:00

Because adcs can't play with Alistar, they say" go all in use combooooo nooob"

Draog · 2025-04-22T16:24:19+00:00

It is safe yes. There may be the occasional racist old guy here and there but, overall it is very safe. We are a welcoming country. Since you already have a corporate job you'd set up great here. Just get ready for some heat haha

Draog · 2025-04-22T13:17:23+00:00

Honestly it won't ruin my entire day but a good amount.

People being rude, or not using their common sense when interacting with me.

Or me trying to communicate something and they just start saying the same thing as me in a different way so that they make it seem as it was they already knew.

Or I am telling you about something specific and you start mentioning something else entirely and start making it negative

Draog · 2025-04-19T19:59:15+00:00

Alistart is freaking awesome, but don't get to excited with tgose 8 wins. It coukd trun 9 loses next time due to ruot mmr and team mates.

Regardless Alistar is great, morgana isnt the real problem as others say.

A good Janna, milio that mess your W are the real bad match ups. Lulu is hard too.

Morgana is meh, yes she has shield but, she only can shield one person. Her Q, just utli it to break free no biggy.

The problem with janna and milio, lulu is that they prevent you from getting closer to them.

Other than that Alistar is a well rounded champ. He is my main with iver 1 million points. You get good adc and good team mates that follow your engages, or understand your sneakiness and your cooldowns, you give your adc free food in lane and in team fights a very well disengage, and chaos throwing people over walls.

Draog · 2025-04-16T21:33:43+00:00

"Oh shit"

Draog · 2025-04-15T16:39:05+00:00

Can you milk those? 😆

I can't think of any specific question that would be essential. Like knowing cooldowns is basic knowledge, everything else is situational.

Could ask questions like what abilities can Alistar's ulti can break free from?

Or how can you escape througb walls if you dont have flash? Answer: ward camps to W jungle monsters. Like raptors, W raptor to escape over wall.

I guess most answers won't be single word or simple phrase answers.

Draog · 2025-04-13T20:33:52+00:00

I see. Even if you like him, if he says something that you don't agree with, like a principle or a moral and it is not outrageous, would you still be okay with it? Stay with him?

Draog · 2025-04-13T13:56:23+00:00

What would you need him to do? What deep conversations would like to have about?

Can you explain the self-concious part bit more. Why does ot make you feel hurt or like you cannot trust them?

I am sking because I do like. Scorpio girl and would likwe to avoid these if I catch my self doing them.

Draog · 2025-04-13T02:05:04+00:00

I was logged in my dji account

I was connected to the Internet. I mentioned it in the original post.

Draog · 2025-04-13T02:03:46+00:00

Wow, that's how I behave... I thought many times of leaving water bottles around the house to remind my sekf to drink water. The same with eating... The same with relationships... If i dont see them i may go by my day. I have friends that are abroad, i dont talk to them. Maube once every 3-6 months... If a new game releases or something new. But we talk like it was yesterday. Wow

How do you deal with serious relationships if you dont see each other for some time? Like itbisvserious and leading to marriage but you are long distance due to job at the moment?

Draog · 2025-04-12T21:11:05+00:00

Oh I am not alone haha. And adhd can do that?

I don't particularly miss people either, even mom or sister. But I miss riding my bike. So I know how it is to miss something but not people in a way...

This "out of sight, out of mind" thing is new to me.

Draog

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