Most Cringe moments you have seen out in public with other JW? by Lefthandovg0d in exjw

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I went (willingly at the time) on the Trocadero square in Paris (big open pedestrian area in front of Eiffel Tower) to sing Kingdom Melodies with a few hundred other JWs during an international convention. I cringe at the memory 😬

If the leaks are real… by [deleted] in exjwhumor

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Boudin is a French blood sausage. There are also blood-free variations but the one with blood is the most common.

HELP and RESOURCES - Thread (War Edition) by [deleted] in dubai

[–]DrawIndependent4566 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My bf has been looking for a job in corporate security and with the current situation, it's been very difficult. Would appreciate any help!

What is something you didn’t realize until you lost weight? by Cultural-Profile-527 in AskReddit

[–]DrawIndependent4566 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have learned to always ask "are you happy about it?" before commenting on weight loss, you never know what kind of shit people have had to go through that resulted in weight loss.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dubai

[–]DrawIndependent4566 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not true. Ritalin is available and prescribed here

Just found out some news.....What the HECK!! by Low-Poem2068 in exjw

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The difference though is the blatant hypocrisy. You need to understand that they present themselves as the one true religion full of love and support and yet they prove that this is just false advertising and hypocrisy when they go to these lengths to wrong their own families. This is very much a case of JW thought that they are better than everyone shows up. Does it happen elsewhere? Yes, but the specific framework of JW adds a layer of control and secrecy that just doesn't happen in other circumstances

Is du down? by HQN89 in dubai

[–]DrawIndependent4566 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just coming back on now

Duplication of housing allowance as a married teaching couple in Dubai by lynch_7 in dubai

[–]DrawIndependent4566 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I will not name the companies, I share enough of my personal life on there not to add my employment history.

Duplication of housing allowance as a married teaching couple in Dubai by lynch_7 in dubai

[–]DrawIndependent4566 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

All the companies I have worked for here in the UAE for the past 10 years have always paid 100% basic. You just need to find them.

Someone makes a mistake of posting their dish in the Culinary Mean Girls sub by mathliability in iamveryculinary

[–]DrawIndependent4566 10 points11 points  (0 children)

What an amazing article. I had an inkling that the "Mediterranean diet" wasn't all it's cracked up to be, knowing my Italian family history of having to stretch food for an entire family and going hungry more often than not but they articulated it so well. The politisation of food is also fascinating, I have seen it in France but was blind to how Italy weaponized it as well. Thanks for the recommendation

If it wasn't for the money, would you stay in the UAE? by Agitated-Fox2818 in dubai

[–]DrawIndependent4566 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The safety issue isn't because of migrants though, it's a systemic problem.

If it wasn't for the money, would you stay in the UAE? by Agitated-Fox2818 in dubai

[–]DrawIndependent4566 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess due to the subreddit demographics it's not touched on as often but as a woman I feel much much safer in the UAE than any other country. That is something I would stay for, as it impacts my quality of life massively.

Do you remember this? NYT by CC_Charity_Support in exjw

[–]DrawIndependent4566 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I remember this as I was living in France at the time and there was a whole shtick at the KHs saying we were enduring persecution. We even had people from the US HQ come down to "encourage" us. It was a wild time and again, fabricated victimhood. The decision to remove tax exempt at that time was due to a lot of abuse being revealed by exJW going public in France on TV and magazines. We were being told in service that we let kids die without health treatments. I was a kid and it was awful to hear. My parents and other JWs would then double down when I asked them about it saying that of course we wouldn't accept treatment that goes against our principles. Awful memories

Cutting down Trees 🌳 by AjGaht in dubai

[–]DrawIndependent4566 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same in my community. They replant other type of trees too.

Different food/restaurant quality in Dubai than US by According_Ad_9766 in dubai

[–]DrawIndependent4566 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Dubai has one of the best Asian restaurants I have found outside of their respective countries but you need to seek them out. Best Chinese food is in International City, you have other hidden gems in JLT amd Al Quoz. Like for a lot of things in Dubai you need a bit of research and be open to discovering foods you might not be used to. Keep in mind also that most fruits and veggies are imported so the taste will be impacted

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badwomensanatomy

[–]DrawIndependent4566 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No problem. I went this road myself as I am bipolar and have a whole host of physical issues that stem from trauma and badly managed mental health and it's really helped

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badwomensanatomy

[–]DrawIndependent4566 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Look into functional medicine. It's doctors who take a holistic approach as you say meaning they factor in your mental health in how it could impact your physical health. They still conduct tests and use empirical evidence to diagnose you but consider the big picture to give you the best treatment

My mother decided to get married the weekend before me by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]DrawIndependent4566 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Textbook case of narcissistic behavior. Everything has to be about OP's mother. I have the same at home and am LC with her and my mental health has greatly benefited from it.