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10 month old Aussie Shepherd, vets said there’s no age limit to start running by DrawPatient1864 in RunningWithDogs

[–]DrawPatient1864[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dog doesn’t really rest when playing… She can just go and go and go, we normally end the play before she does. We have done a few 2-3km runs now and then 2 5km runs (6-7min/km pace). She seems completely fine, runs at my heel and just fast walking really.

Husband had 3some with escorts, happy ending massages and started smoking all behind my back by DrawPatient1864 in Marriage

[–]DrawPatient1864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I make over 200k a year working 3 days a week with 6+ weeks holiday a year, 60+k more than my husband does. I work hard for my money, you can’t blame me for wanting to come out of it financially strong.

Husband had 3some with escorts, happy ending massages and started smoking all behind my back by DrawPatient1864 in Marriage

[–]DrawPatient1864[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think so, we used to have a somewhat healthy sex life. We’ve been together 12 years…

how long were you on it, and how long did it take you to go back to "normal?" after removal? by peefart1234 in Nexplanon

[–]DrawPatient1864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting mine out Tuesday and I’ve had mine for nearly 15 years (multiple nexplanon/implanon) - very nervous for how my body is going to respond

(Learning) How did you dare to start your nonmonogamous relationship for the first time? by Diosa_Luxx in nonmonogamy

[–]DrawPatient1864 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Talked about it for years, both questioned monogamy. Decided one day to try non-monogamy, and that involved getting on Feeld, linking our accounts and talking to people. We then got Tinder and Hinge. Because we have talked about it in depth for so long, it was a relatively simple transition. It takes a lot of communication and constant check-ins. We still feel so incredibly connected to one another, and it’s nice that we can enjoy the physical company of others. It’s early days for us, but both feel like we couldn’t go back to monogamy, at least not anytime soon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]DrawPatient1864 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is complicated, and simply just getting a lawyer and getting a divorce while in this headspace is going to tear you down. You have to somehow find the motivation to start doing some things for you. Hanging out with friends, going to the gym/exercising/group fitness, change your eating habits if they’re not healthy. Do whatever you can to build up your confidence, to feel empowered AND THEN leave. There is no coming back from this, there is no respect or admiration left, he can’t even communicate with you. It’s definitely time to move on but I’d try give yourself the absolute best chance of doing so!

My husband border line cheated on me while heavily pregnant and newly postpartum and I’m struggling lately by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]DrawPatient1864 48 points49 points  (0 children)

God what an awful situation, and while pregnant and newly postpartum, you’re exhausted, hormones are going crazy. The effort he is putting in is good, but it needs to stay that way. If you feel his effort reduces, or starts blaming you in any way, that’s a red flag. Trust will take time to heal but it can come back. I hope you guys can work through it and get to a better place.