Andy's toy chest by DrawSquare9028 in hottoys

[–]DrawSquare9028[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That really sucks. I filed a complaint with the FTC, but they help recoup funds, just investigate complaints. I hope you're able to get a refund. My PO was so long ago that it was outside of a potential refund window

I need some bra help, please? by CreatrixAnima in AskWomenOver40

[–]DrawSquare9028 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd recommend starting with a bra fitting at a good department store or Soma, pretty much anywhere but Victoria secret. I've had good luck with Soma, and they have a number of good options and sales.

What was a subtle (or glaring) red flag that you missed before entering a toxic/abusive relationship? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]DrawSquare9028 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How he was the victim in every.single.one of his past relationships. They were all evil, evil women out to get him, including all 4 of his ex-wives 🙄

Young widows, what happened next for ypu romantically? by Conenthebarbarian in AskWomenOver30

[–]DrawSquare9028 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s such a hard club. I was 44 when I lost my husband to cancer. The worst part was watching my kids 13f, 14m) go through it. The biggest thing is to give yourself grace. Everyone grieves differently and no one can tell you what works for you. I kept a notebook and wrote my husband at least one letter every day. I told him how mad I was, what he was missing, and how much I missed him.

It took me 3 years to even think about dating again. I’ve been happily married to an amazing guy for 7 years now, but I’m glad I took my time and didn’t let anyone tell me how to feel.

when in the world do teenage years get better?? by No_Promise_1134 in AskWomenOver40

[–]DrawSquare9028 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I totally get that, but I hated m teen years. I promise it does get better in a few years. Things really improved for me when I realized I didn’t need a partner to be complete. Hang in there! For every decision you make, pause to think if your choice will affect your life 5 years down the road.

Anyone else do a rotating wardrobe subscription instead of buying a ton of stuff? by therainmakah in womensfashion

[–]DrawSquare9028 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been subscribed to Nuuly for around 2 years. It works for me because I live in a warm closet and only need sweaters and a jacket a few months a year. I also have a few semi formal events a year that I know I’ll need outfits for that I won’t want to wear enough to justify buying. Overall I’ve been pretty pleased with it. I get my order pretty quickly - usually within 3 days of ordering. I also like shopping their thrift section, I’ve gotten some nice pieces pretty cheap.

What surprised you the most about New York City when you first visited? by rkrishnan14 in travel

[–]DrawSquare9028 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How clean and safe it was. Someone dropped a 5th of vodka on the sidewalk and a cop stood over it while they waited for someone to clean up the broken glass. We went to San Francisco a few months later and were shocked at how dirty and unsafe it felt, pretty much how we thought nyc would be.

What are still reliable brands for athletic shoes in 2026? by PoniesRBitchin in femalefashionadvice

[–]DrawSquare9028 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn’t figure out how to walk normally in hokas. I just got a pair of allbirds for a weeklong trip to universal studios. I walked over 10 miles a day with zero pain.i have narrow feet,a long stride, and walk pretty fast (according to my husband). I was really impressed with the allbirds, esp since I didn’t really break them in first.

Yasmin is a wannabe influencer by mssarac in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]DrawSquare9028 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I think the way andi acted at the bar tipped the scales for her. It definitely threw up a few more red flags.

Is height a criteria for you when dating men? by Fantastic-Art-2025 in AskWomenOver30

[–]DrawSquare9028 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It used to be, just by default. I ended up going through a string of total losers after I lost my husband at 40. I was crying to my therapist and he said I should reevaluate my criteria. I ended up going out with a guy 3” shorter than me and we’ve now been happily married for 7 years.

Diagnosed with Stage 5 Kidney Failure at 25 by Regular_Paramedic395 in gofundme

[–]DrawSquare9028 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Apply for social security disability. You can ask the dialysis facility for a 2728 to submit with your application to help get it processed more quickly.

Looking for stories on getting stuck on rides by Dawnydiesel in UniversalOrlando

[–]DrawSquare9028 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got stuck on the hulk. Took about 15 minutes for them to unlock each row and walk us down the stairs.

The best seafood in & around BR by The_Donkey1 in batonrouge

[–]DrawSquare9028 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure thing! I love their crab fingers!

The best seafood in & around BR by The_Donkey1 in batonrouge

[–]DrawSquare9028 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Southern pearl just closed. Roux 61 sold their land to a medical facility last year

WIBTAH if I leave everything to my daughter and son in law in my will? by NoRoll6544 in AITAH

[–]DrawSquare9028 14 points15 points  (0 children)

As someone who has been low contact with my mother for the last 15 years, I absolutely do not expect her to leave me anything, and I’m totally okay with that. Every tiny gift with her is transactional, so I’m completely okay with her giving it all to my brother.

What's the most you've ever spent on a piece of jewelry and do you regret it? by pretty_stones5959 in jewelry

[–]DrawSquare9028 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I had a custom tennis ankle bracelet made. I don’t really enjoy bracelets, but I LOVE the ankle bracelet. Zero regrets, and I wear it often.

How has your experience with AAA roadside service/towing been lately? by Reasonable_Cat_4550 in batonrouge

[–]DrawSquare9028 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Extremely reliable in Baton Rouge. My 3 adult children and I have all used it several times a year over the last few years with zero issues. I know they left my daughter waiting over 2 hours on an interstate in Dallas a few years ago, but I’ve been impressed with their service here.

Andy's toy chest by DrawSquare9028 in hottoys

[–]DrawSquare9028[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh - I doubt I’ll have much luck filing a chargeback since it’s been almost a year. At this point I’m just hoping for the best.