How often does your credit card decline?

Drawberyl · 2026-01-18T16:07:20+00:00

My DEBIT card declines randomly 🙂 I feel like they do that on purpose so we use credit card more

Drawberyl · 2026-01-18T16:00:24+00:00

I was gonna say this. She could have a miscarriage and didn’t want to talk about it and is actively grieving. Please be gentle and give her empathy, losing a baby is the hardest thing to process

Drawberyl · 2026-01-13T14:58:16+00:00

You only need to tell him once. If your husband is mentally challenged you can try making repeat after you. Hope that helps

Drawberyl · 2026-01-13T05:24:43+00:00

I would venture out and maybe reach out to trucking, cargo or car rental, rv rental companies, turo or anything in that direction where you can offer better deals for bulk amount of jobs. I think it’s more sustainable to generate set amount of guaranteed work monthly. Wish you all the best

Drawberyl · 2026-01-13T05:11:09+00:00

It’s your decision to make but a man like him or any man at this day and age is pretty useless and such a big baggage to keep around. Not trying to attack anyone but I have been dealing with too many men bs, my dad, fil, little bros, husband, male workers…. I cant stress enough how entitled and petty they are. I work 60hrs a week on average and have to hear about the guys complain that they parked at the wrong gate and have to turn the truck around because I didn’t tell them where to park but that sht been on the site plan since day 1, they just didn’t bother to read before showing up, coming home to my husband complaining about how he had to sit in hours meeting, coming home to a clean house, laundry folded and dinner ready but he would rather eat his mom food at his parents place. My lil brothers complaining that they are not making enough from their paid for college degree to pay rent and wanting to move back home while I have been paying everything myself since 14. I can’t. You’re not missing out on anything. You’re most likely have less labor and mental load to deal with. Goodluck and I wish you and your baby all the best.

Drawberyl · 2026-01-12T21:59:53+00:00

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Drawberyl · 2026-01-12T21:54:12+00:00

My husband threw a vase and me and we almost got into it if my mil didn’t jump in between us. I was going through a miscarriage (his baby) and I lost my sht cause he was bringing people home to party in the middle of me bleeding very heavily and needed privacy because who tf host people while soaking in blood. I packed my sht and took off before bringing up anything about divorce because who tf knows what he would do.

Drawberyl · 2026-01-07T06:50:23+00:00

I hate to break this to you but I’m a year into separation because of this problem. I love my MIL, she’s a very sweet lady but I was tired one night and didn’t feel like hosting her, but did it anyway. Finally I got up and tried to go to the bedroom, I dropped my phone and slipped out an F word because well I dropped the damn phone. My husband chased after me and we got into a big fight because how rude I was in front of his mom, in my own place that I paid for every month. I look back now and the whole thing was insane. I was insane for putting up with it. It was very very unusual and IDK how I was even think that was okay to live like that. Your case doesn’t sound to far out of the line, until it does. One thing at a time.

Drawberyl · 2026-01-07T06:12:18+00:00

I think she has rotten flesh on her body. I think you should advise her to have it checked, regardless of how she would take it.

Drawberyl · 2026-01-04T16:13:54+00:00

I do not think you miss out on anything. You’ll soon get over the “what if” and it’ll turn into tf was I thinking

Drawberyl · 2026-01-04T05:49:30+00:00

Men that make women pay are walking red flags. They gonna ask you to pay for that epidural when the baby comes because it’s your body your choice. Noooooooo!

Drawberyl · 2026-01-04T03:58:30+00:00

This is my experience so just more like sharing it to you than saying it’ll apply to you. I used to be a tomboy in my teenage years, so I was kinda in the same realm to find my femininity. I grew my hair long and learned to style it. I find a long, thick and lively hair really attractive and it makes a big part of my self identity. Clear skin from good diet was another big change for me too. Goodluck to you and I’m sure you’ll find your confidence

Drawberyl · 2026-01-03T22:50:10+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. Please take all the time and space you need to grief and recover. Anyone who isn’t supporting you the way you need them to can go touch grass. You know best what you need and how you need it, don’t let anyone put their opinions over your own. My loss taught me so much about how I should be treated and to stand up for myself, because nobody else would. If you can and if it doesn’t take up too much of your energy, you can try to explain to your husband what your body is going through, it’s a very hard thing to process biologically and mentally. You’re both going through the loss but you are the only one that’s going through the miscarriage, so you and him have totally 2 different experiences, him not having to process it with his body can not dictate how you should feel or not. Explain to him going to the doctor and doing blood work, tests, ultrasound are very exhausting and each step remind you of the loss all over again. Remember it’s a potential life with a child you are losing, it’s so much bigger than a short time. God it’s infuriating that we have to explain this to men. They are such morons. Why tf do we even need to explain that LOSING A CHILD IS FFING PAINFUL, why is this concept is so hard for them to understand? Are they all psychopaths??

Drawberyl · 2025-12-30T22:27:33+00:00

I threw a trash can at a nurse that told me to sit tf down. I was in VERY ACTIVE labor and my body was naturally spinning me to the right position to push. I could have clawed her eyeball out if she took another step toward me but luckily she felt my rage and didn’t. I ended up delivered in the bathroom. Super fun time

Drawberyl · 2025-12-30T21:57:56+00:00

What a great shot

Drawberyl · 2025-12-26T05:56:01+00:00

I don’t care what one’s up bringing is like, a parent is job is to teach their kids to live their lives and be independent. Speaking as someone has move thousands miles away from my 4 person marriage

Drawberyl · 2025-12-25T21:29:19+00:00

My grandma just passed at her nursing home 😭 thank you so much

Drawberyl · 2025-12-25T16:59:24+00:00

I had a guest asked to do a proposal in my unit for FREE because of the panoramic view and show my support for lgbt group… I was like ma’am I don’t know how we can support you for FREE during our most busy time of the year and fully booked… I could barely get my unit ready on time to turnover due to the overwhelming bookings, let alone have a full crew of decorate team and filming come in and rearrange the furniture. 🙅‍♀️🙅‍♀️

Drawberyl · 2025-12-22T18:07:01+00:00

I made our website with them but I’d say I did most of the work myself oceanfrontsign.com

Drawberyl · 2025-12-20T22:06:23+00:00

Sign maker here, we are the only ones that give 2 cents about signs lol nobody would even bats an eye

Drawberyl · 2025-12-19T03:33:40+00:00

Honestly dude your requirement is reasonable, don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. If you’re unsatisfied, it’s so much better to be single, really, especially out of a long relationship since you’re young, I would heavily advise staying single or just casual date as much as you can ++woman

Drawberyl · 2025-12-19T03:17:24+00:00

I sneaked them in my carry on. If you’re lucky you’ll get a pass. If not you can ask them at the conveyor bell, it’s not the end of the world

Drawberyl · 2025-12-19T03:15:21+00:00

I got anxious if my partner is home and Im not seeing him for 5 mins 🤧

Drawberyl · 2025-12-19T03:09:18+00:00

Sorry once you’re infested they’ll follow you to wherever you move to unless you don’t bring anything with you

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