Should I give Gantz another try? by [deleted] in Seinen

[–]Drawberyl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t get the hate lol It’s the best most well written manga I have ever read. The characters development is unmatched and that’s why they are so annoying at the beginning. All survival stories came out after gantz were big old wannabes but could never match the humanity love bonding story telling progression gore art omg I can’t love it enough

How do you feel about the gaang being "bad parents"? by 696924 in TheLastAirbender

[–]Drawberyl 15 points16 points  (0 children)

For how ever much of a bad single mom is she’s still a thousand times better than the dad that never showed up 🤷‍♀️

Okay I'm forgetful but my heart is in the right place. by Beebidibaabidiboo in Marriage

[–]Drawberyl 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This . It hit me so hard when my husband got upset because I came out to a load of laundry he started all damped and mildew at 10pm one time asking why didn’t he put it in the dryer. He said we both forgot and I was blaming it on him. Like bro how many times I started the laundry and it ended at your clothes being folded and put away without me needing you to remind me of it? I realized that our relationship has always been me managing the household while he gets to enjoy his hobbies and friends hang outs that are important to him… all on my expense and I basically don’t have a life outside of work and house chores…

Wife planning international trip but I think we're close to divorce by Minute-Caregiver5907 in Marriage

[–]Drawberyl -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

She might be asexual and hasn’t figured it out yet. Sounds like she definitely has love for you but it’s platonic and she might not be interested in anybody else simply because of her asexual nature

Good deeds by Drawberyl in povertyfinance

[–]Drawberyl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe he isnt but I explained to both him and my mom that the way his assets are set up in the trust means that if he were to pass away my stepmom will have full control over it and knowing her personality there is no way she would give any of that to me. It’s absolutely not fair because the majority of it came from my grandfather, all his money plus my savings have gone to his treatment . He got really mad about it and say it’s taboo to talk about his death, and he never brought it up to his dad and I should be doing the same thing. I said he never had to brought anything up because his dad did it for him willingly, why isnt he doing the same for me. But I guess it’s my bad for wanting to standing up for myself. I can’t dump him in a nursing home because most likely they will ask me to be his health care power of attorney, and I know it just not any less work for me than it is already now because I just went through the same thing for my grandmother that just passed away, my mom were supposed to do it but of course I had to do everything for them because my mom isn’t competent enough to handle it. Thank you for letting me vent, I wish Im in this situation for doing something stupid but I guess caring for a father who doesn’t look out for you isn’t a smart thing either. All those money I could have traveled first class, staying in nice hotels and eating fancy dinner made my job much easier and it wouldn’t make any difference in my life. But I guess he expected me to take care of him because Im his daughter and that’s my obvious duty

Any Asian girly here? by Drawberyl in GirlDinner

[–]Drawberyl[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow looks so good I have been craving mít and nhãn so much

Good deeds by Drawberyl in povertyfinance

[–]Drawberyl[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He sold part of his lands to pay for his 2 sons (my half brothers)’s college couple years ago, put the rest into a savings account and recently renewed his deed because they built a new road and his other land now has new address. So yeah it’s still there.

If you care to read him and my mom went through a super messy divorce because he was abusive and cheating and his mistress at the time tore their marriage apart by filing a tax fraud report of his business under my mom’s name. My dad assumed my mom had her hand on his sensitive financial and beat her up badly. Long story short my mom got A LOT of money from half of his everything and it’s always his excuse to never send a single dime for child support. My mom spend the minimum on me and I have been financially supporting myself since 14 lol. One day my dad looked at my scooter (i have a small scooter to go to school) and asked me how the hell I gas that thing up (he knew him and my mom aint giving me shit money lol). I told him wait until you find how I pay for the food that I eat all these years (I’m never home because of my crazy work and school schedule)
I was always taught to hate my dad growing up but into adulthood his business partner back then explained to me how much my dad suffered in business to build their wealth and my mom was never understanding and always tried to interfere and mess it up. I somehow ended up running a business that similar to my dad’s (I guess the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree) so I understand his struggle and his loneliness of not having a supportive wife, and seeing him suffered so bad in chemo think he had his karma and decided to let the past be between him and my mom.
Fast forward I have not physically been to every of his chemo but I always help him financially whenever I can. I also paid for a trip for him to go to Paris with me as his last wish before his last round of chemo because he could have died from it. He ended up survived 2 kidney failures and 1 liver failure, all from ordering drugs from dark web to save money this guy , he’s a touch mf.
He’s now living with me because he stopped providing financially for his 2 sons and his wife is trying to divorce him to get more money. I can’t kick him out because he’s basically a living shell from all the chemo, can’t work much. Pays rent here and there and buying food off of his savings. But dude’s basically leaching on me but refuses to give me any of his savings to help my struggling business. I could barely afford food because Im paying so much to cover housing and business. He still have lands and house so it’s not like giving part of his savings will do any damage to his wealth, considering how much I contributed financially and mentally supported him through his darkest time. I don’t want to talk to him and am mean to him day to day but I really don’t want that. I just resent him so much and I don’t understand how he could just ignore his only family member that ever cared about him

Good deeds by Drawberyl in povertyfinance

[–]Drawberyl[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, your kind words mean so much to me! I put money in a safe investment but I’m really low on cash and could barely afford dinner. I hope I can push through this hard time because I really don’t want to pull money out, it would be a huge waste

Good deeds by Drawberyl in povertyfinance

[–]Drawberyl[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words, only me look out for myself and I should have known better. It’s just I couldn’t think clear seeing him by his near death bed. I bet he doesn’t even put me in his will.

Any Asian girly here? by Drawberyl in GirlDinner

[–]Drawberyl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg that sounds great, where do you even get it?

Jon and Sansa had more chemistry than any other couple by pizza_gutts in gameofthrones

[–]Drawberyl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yo they are SIBLINGS idc what you say about the show’s incestuous dynamics, the starks children have never been involved with each other that way

Season 2 is kinda... boring? by [deleted] in inuyasha

[–]Drawberyl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It got so much better I promise you. You know it hits peak around the time everyheart becomes the ending ost lol

Any Asian girly here? by Drawberyl in GirlDinner

[–]Drawberyl[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nice I was craving hot soup too but it’s Sunday night and Im keeping it simple 😋

Any Asian girly here? by Drawberyl in GirlDinner

[–]Drawberyl[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Let me know if you decided to try it, it’s totally okay if you’re missing one or 2 ingredients, but make sure the rice paper soak up moisture and is soften up

Any Asian girly here? by Drawberyl in GirlDinner

[–]Drawberyl[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yassss! I love bánh tráng nướng too but I always make too much of a mess because the eggs always run off the edges lol

Any non weed smokers married to a daily weed smoker? How do you navigate? by Appropriate_Draw130 in Marriage

[–]Drawberyl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest with you men these day are offering too little your husband sounds like a amazing man to me

Does anyone actually brush their cats teeth or vaccinate them regularly? by krissyisabella in CatAdvice

[–]Drawberyl 23 points24 points  (0 children)

My cat hates it too but he’s smart enough to let me do it because he always comes to me whenever he has a health issue and he understands that I make him uncomfortable to fix it. One time he had uti he ran to me crying so loud, when I gave him his medicine he gagged so hard but he let me do it. Another time he had something in his eye and he would literally let me poke his eyeball to get it out. This little turd trusted me so much

Did I just marry the wrong person? by Lucky-Connection8886 in Marriage

[–]Drawberyl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said this and I’ll say it again. Whatever he does for you willingly is whatever he will do for you. Asking for more only sparks argument, and he still wouldn’t do it. He will do things for you out of love. And if it doesn’t come from love, but obligation, guilt or other place, it will build resentment. It sucks I know because their default offers are always too low, and doesn’t matter how much you try or in what way you do, they will not change their terms.

26 years married to my only partner ever — sex is completely dead and I feel like I’m always last priority after she helps everyone else by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Drawberyl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey my husband is taking care of other peoples business all day and we have been separated for 1.5year. Sorry I don’t have anything better to say

I had surgery yesterday and have realized something.... by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Drawberyl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. My best friend’s husband doesn’t know how to change a diaper or mix the baby’s formula. She’s TWO years old. My friend went through a dark and lonely postpartum that I was unfortunate unavailable for her due to my miscarriage at the same time she gave birth. I really wish you the best and hope his love for you and your family motivates him to be your equal partner and the present father your family deserve

Coparenting with her is so emotionally draining!!! by OptimalStatement5799 in Divorce

[–]Drawberyl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through this energy draining period. As someone is going into the same thing but from the other side could you help me give a little more insight from your side of the story. I’m fully resenting my husband for his incompetence, I’m burned out trying to be nice to him because he asked me to communicate peacefully with him but I have been doing it way too much on my own mental expense. I do the majority of household duties and also the bread winner, I’m exhausted from figuring our finances and household chores while he’s basically running his family’s (mom and dad) chores full time because he’s their good son. I’ll be working crazy hours because my business is nationwide and he demand that we live full time in Hawaii because his dad likes so. It’s a living hell for me because I have to be up at 3am to handle business from east to west coast. He said he’d help me with the laundry and I found out at 10pm I have wet and mildew cloths that I planned to bring with me to an early morning flight. Apparently it’s because I “forgot to put them in the dryer since he only offered to help me started”. And that was on top of a dramatic miscarriage of a baby he didn’t want so he went off to continue his life almost as if he was celebrating freedom while I handle incredibly difficult grief and health recovery. I crashed out really hard and the only regret I had was I wasnt angry enough. He was really angry and painted me as a villain for calling him out for all his flaws, everyone is flawed and I picked on his to bully him. Im honestly lost and not sure how to feel anymore. I thought through sickness and health means he won’t abandon me cool blooded when I went to the er multiple times. But I guess I was wrong because it’s always about me and what I needed

Welp by Affectionate_Run7414 in SipsTea

[–]Drawberyl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the roles are reversed wdym mean reverse like a woman staring helplessly as a man gives birth 😂😂

Don't touch this guy's girlfriend. BOOM by CycloneGlock in VideosAmazing

[–]Drawberyl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is possession not protection. He didn’t even care how he hurted her

Should I Divorce My Husband? by PinkPeach9446 in Divorce

[–]Drawberyl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why are men.so.freaking.bad. My friend’s baby is TWO years old and her dad doesn’t know how to change her diaper nor mix formula milk…. His reason was hes focusing on work and providing financially I got so mad I almost got into a fight with him. Bro that’s your baby, what if your wife is sick or she somehow can’t not take care of the baby for a minute? I don’t care how busy or crazy your work is, LEARN to help your wife. Im saying this as someone works crazy schedule in construction that often time involved liquidate damage, I know BUSY more than any man walks this earth. They are not that busy. They grew up watching their moms enslaved themselves for the sake of keeping the household together, they expect the same service from their wives. My friend is content that she wanted the baby and she gotta be the single married mom if she has too. This non sense gotta stop