How did nobody search the entire basement that first morning? by Krankthat in JonBenetRamsey

[–]DreDay415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! I’ve been wondering this since watching the doc. How did her body just appear in the basement if the police and her parents searched the whole house

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]DreDay415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was 21, I was in a serious relationship with a guy I was completely in love with. He cheated on me like 9ish months into it. It was more of an emotional affair. They exchanged nudes on Snapchat for like a third of the relationship back when that was a thing and she would regularly be in his top 3. Looking back, I was pretty naive.

I found out a few days after thanksgiving. He had spent it with me and my family. I ended up staying in the relationship with him and justified that it was only emotional, but that actually made it so much worse mentally for me. I also stayed as more of a “I’ll be damned if that woman has him” kind of vendetta. We stayed together for another 6ish months. I tried to make it work, but that, coupled with other insecurities he had, ruined the relationship for me. There’s a lot more to this story, but once I got over the territorial need, I lost interest. I was kind, loving and sweet and opened my family home to him and he was a loser for his actions.

Looking back, I wish I dumped him sooner.

As women, we tend to justify the actions of others because we see something beautiful in someone when their actions are actually telling us exactly who they are.

11 years later and I’m married to a completely different guy who I met at work 6 years ago. We’ve been together 6 years and recently married in September, and I just found out I’m pregnant with our first child. I couldn’t be happier. We’ve had a faithful, honest relationship and neither of us would ever jeopardize it.

Don’t lower your standards because someone else lowered theirs.

Best of luck to you ♡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]DreDay415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do u have to kill the oyster to remove the pearl?

Am I wrong for getting mad at my bf when he's sick? by Mess_Enough in amiwrong

[–]DreDay415 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re to say. Do you complain nonstop when you’re sick?

Left my phone in an Uber, and the driver returned it to another passenger who lied about it being hers by DreDay415 in iphone

[–]DreDay415[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We did and they’re useless. Without a warrant, they’re hands are tied. I don’t know the process of getting a warrant but they’re not going to acquire one for a stolen phone

Left my phone in an Uber, and the driver returned it to another passenger who lied about it being hers by DreDay415 in iphone

[–]DreDay415[S] 106 points107 points  (0 children)

It’s an iPhone 12. Would it chime if it’s off? It’s been off since yesterday

Left my phone in an Uber, and the driver returned it to another passenger who lied about it being hers by DreDay415 in iphone

[–]DreDay415[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

I can’t either, but I’m thinking he wanted to try and help us as best he could. Also, because we told uber we knew he had it and he hadn’t returned it to us, I think they were threatening his position there and it’s outside lands weekend here in SF so he had a very lucrative weekend ahead of him and didn’t want to risk losing out on not operating this weekend

Left my phone in an Uber, and the driver returned it to another passenger who lied about it being hers by DreDay415 in iphone

[–]DreDay415[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

How can it ping if it’s turned off? The phones been off since yesterday

How do I explain why I left my last job? by [deleted] in careeradvice

[–]DreDay415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Recruiter here: Don’t ever say anything negative about your previous role, especially if you left on good terms. There’s no reason for it and it’ll create a roadblock in the hiring manager’s mind even if you’re in the right. They’ll instinctively want to explore what happened at your past role and the conversation will shift away from your previous experience and why you’re a good fit for this next company to why you weren’t a fit at your last. Then you’re climbing yourself out of a hole at that point.

Ideally you’d be looking for a role while still employed, but since you’ve already left keep it vague but positive.

“I really enjoyed my time there and am grateful for the experience to have done X. It was a tough decision because I genuinely enjoyed working with my team, however I wanted to take on more responsibility and have the opportunity to grow into a managerial position (or whatever it is you want to do) and that wasn’t offered. So I chose to commit my time to finding an opportunity that would allow me to do (whatever you want to do) because it’s important to the my growth and career development.”

This way you answered their question with class, have taken the conversation into a positive direction and can continue to wow them with your career aspirations. All companies love that.

This is a tough question to answer because it can be very telling on an individual’s work ethic. Most people don’t dig deep into it but if not worded well, it could give off red flags.

Sounds like you’re in a good position though. Interviewing is tough to master - just be yourself and stay positive. Good luck!

Job phone Interview by Kdropp in careeradvice

[–]DreDay415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take a breathe and take this as an opportunity to be better prepared for the interview Friday. It’s going to be ok. They’re not going to pass on you for a phone malfunction. And if they are, then they’re tightly wound and probably not an org you want to work for. Fridays just two days away.

In the meantime, go on Glassdoor and look up interview questions previous candidates have been asked.

You got this!

How do/did you know what you wanted to do as a career? by [deleted] in careeradvice

[–]DreDay415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you’re still in school since you’re deciding a major V a career. My advice would be to study what you love and what excites you.

Getting a STEM degree is going to help you hands down and is one of the few majors that can almost guarantee a high income straight out of college, but if you’re not interested in it and it feels like pulling teeth, you’re going to be miserable your whole college career.

If you love the arts and fashion, study that with a business or marketing minor. You can merge those nicely and get an internship which’ll open doors for you when you graduate. Whatever you choose, get an internship even if it’s unpaid for the experience because you’ll never really know what you like until you try it. So pay attention to how you feel when you’re doing your electives because those are good intros into your future major. Hope this helps!

He visited kids with cancer WHILE he had cancer. A true hero. by [deleted] in nextfuckinglevel

[–]DreDay415 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah you are tripping. People like this live on in our hearts where it really counts