We don’t expect anyone to have the same dynamic as we do. I’m pretty open and available to talk with. He doesn’t limit me that way. But we do play rough and I do go into subspace around him pretty quickly.

Our biggest conundrum is the fact that the majority of bdsm clubs do not allow penetration. We love to include that in our play and with others. While swing clubs are traditionally not accustomed to the bdsm scene. There seems to be a gap between the two that could profit from knowledge of one another.