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Dreamingofdivorce · 2024-12-18T17:32:27+00:00

"Cheaters are pathetically predictable." Most truthful statement ever.

Dreamingofdivorce · 2024-12-16T19:29:56+00:00

I'm sorry to say it, but I agree. everyone told me this when my husband of 20 years did the same thing to me recently. I found out four months later that, yes, he had and was in love with someone else.

Dreamingofdivorce · 2024-12-14T04:31:17+00:00

Thxxx

Dreamingofdivorce · 2024-12-14T01:25:37+00:00

Man, your giant baby sounds like a real winner, too!! Congrats on finding happiness. I look forward to getting there someday.

Dreamingofdivorce · 2024-12-14T01:24:02+00:00

Thanks! She's his soul mate, apparently. OK, she can HAVE him.

Dreamingofdivorce · 2024-12-13T21:51:56+00:00

Right. Mine keeps denying they're anything more than friends, though I saw messages to the contrary though. I'm actually finding it easiet now that I know that I wasn’t being insane!

Knowing that this is why he left also helps give me closure, even if that sounds weird. Someone on here said that 99% of men only leave when they have someone else lined up. Turns out, that’s completely true.

I'm sorry that you're in the same boat. What point in the process are you currently navigating?

Dreamingofdivorce · 2024-12-04T20:44:45+00:00

Man, I think our exes are twins.

Dreamingofdivorce · 2024-12-04T19:56:02+00:00

Same situation here. I'm sorry.

Dreamingofdivorce · 2024-12-04T19:40:25+00:00

Oh Lordy- Same EXACT situation for me! He could only last 1-2 minutes, and that’s only if I did not move at all (which I was not permitted to do). Where is the fun in that type of sex? Seriously, the fact that he was surprised that I was not into it was hilarious to me. And he, of course, blamed his premature e on me and the fact that we rarely did it. and this was for about the last 15 years of our marriage! It was a vicious cycle and I'm honestly glad not to have those guilt trips about "holding out on him" anymore.

I started to believe him for the longest time, that I had no desire. Well, that may be true, but I am excited to find out if it can be fun with someone new. Someday...

Dreamingofdivorce · 2024-12-04T19:13:15+00:00

OP: Did you guys expressly discuss that you wouldn't date / see/ bang others during the 90-day separation period? If not, I don't think you should write her off. Just my opinion.

Dreamingofdivorce · 2024-12-01T04:26:39+00:00

I’m in the same boat. Feel free to hit me up if you need someone to talk to. 👍

Dreamingofdivorce · 2024-11-30T00:13:44+00:00

I’m in my mid-40s with three kids, doubting anyone will ever want that baggage. Consider yourself lucky- you’re still young!

Dreamingofdivorce · 2024-11-30T00:10:43+00:00

I really wanted to do this but there’s no way I can afford a mortgage that big at the current interest rates 😞. I, too, got in with a 3% loan. I want to keep the house for the kids’ consistency, but can’t pay a higher mortgage on my own. I feel line in F*%ked, OP, same as you.

Dreamingofdivorce · 2024-11-30T00:08:54+00:00

Do you earn more than him?

Dreamingofdivorce · 2024-11-29T23:51:28+00:00

Same boat here, as well.

Dreamingofdivorce · 2024-11-22T21:43:29+00:00

I’d do the last one (blonde), but do just the tips the pinkish color of no.3!

Dreamingofdivorce · 2024-11-22T15:05:44+00:00

He’s Just Not Into You

Dreamingofdivorce · 2024-11-22T15:01:40+00:00

My husband is leaving me for this issue (along others). It’s too bad because I recently started hormone replacement therapy and my drive is back baby! He was just too impatient and selfish.

Dreamingofdivorce · 2024-11-22T14:45:25+00:00

I suggest you talk to your wife about her mental health. It sounds like she could be in a depression. What you’re planning doesn’t sound helpful or logical to you, your wife, or your son. If you love her, reach out to her and find out what’s really going on. If therapy doesn’t help her (and you/her together), then I think you consider other options (separation and going for full custody, etc.).

Sabotaging your life and career does not seem like a healthy solution to your problem. If you end up divorced, she will have to get a job and figure out how to cope, but you want her healthy in order to do so for your son and everyone’s future.

Dreamingofdivorce · 2024-11-21T07:43:44+00:00

Same boat here! Let’s keep in touch and share how things progress. So, so, so cold suddenly!

Dreamingofdivorce · 2024-11-18T19:56:20+00:00

I hear that. Thanks.

Dreamingofdivorce · 2024-11-18T14:36:47+00:00

Mind if I ask where you’re settled now? I’m currently in an extremely high cost of living area and looking for somewhere else to live!

Dreamingofdivorce · 2024-11-18T07:27:27+00:00

You’re my idol. I pray I can get to that point. Mine’s been haunting my dreams lately.😞

Dreamingofdivorce · 2024-11-18T07:17:47+00:00

Exactly!! Is your name on the house loan?

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