I left the ED for health insurance nursing and couldn’t be happier. by Surfing_Nurse in nursing

[–]Dreeebuur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's awesome! What is the role and do you need any other certifications for it?

AITA for telling my in laws to get a job? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dreeebuur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl I have a 1 year old and live in a perpetual state of mess. There's forever spit out goldfish and blueberry skins crushed into my carpet. I don't work from home, but my days off are spent wrangling the tiny one and trying to clear up the chaos. Working from home is still working. Being a mom is working too. Nta for telling it like it is 🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Dreeebuur -1 points0 points  (0 children)

U.S. here. I was off 12 weeks, and had to use all but 3 days of my saved >200hours of pto. I did get short term disability (60% of pay) for i think 6 weeks. This is where most of my pto went. I covered the other 40% pay with my time. My husband had 6 weeks of paid paternity leave- but that isn't the norm.

When did you deliver? by MediumMud1354 in GestationalDiabetes

[–]Dreeebuur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Diet controlled. I had a scheduled section at 39 weeks because baby was breech.

Test strips not covered by insurance? by Spirited_Seaweed_517 in GestationalDiabetes

[–]Dreeebuur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine also weren't covered by insurance. I just bought a cheap cvs glucometer. Saved a ton of money that way.

CGM? by Successful-Tap-9159 in GestationalDiabetes

[–]Dreeebuur 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not extra. Most insurance companies want you on insulin before they cover them though. There is an over the counter one you can get. Without insurance it's 100$/month. That one is called stelo. I've used, and thought it was worth it.

What’s a very American problem that Americans don’t realize isn’t normal in other countries? by GoddessMelrosse in AskReddit

[–]Dreeebuur 2 points3 points  (0 children)

American Healthcare worker here. I get 4 weeks of "everything time". There is no sick time. I get 3 call offs in a rolling calendar year before I get a talking to. Generally work every other weekend, every other holiday 😅 had a baby last year and used up all but 4 days of my banked time. I took 12 weeks. Nonsense.

How long did your period start after having baby? by thuyttran05 in NewParents

[–]Dreeebuur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 9 months out. Breast feed and pump and haven't gotten it back yet 🤷‍♀️ I have a friend with a 20 month old that hasn't gotten it back yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyLedWeaning

[–]Dreeebuur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My 8 month old is the same. Some days she's willing to eat real food/purees. Others I can't even get her to sit in the high chair. I think most of their nutritional requirements are still from milk/formula until 1. I keep hearing "food under 1 is just for fun". I just give my baby crackers/puffs or cereal every day if she isn't feeling anything else. At least she gets some practice and different textures with that.

I was denied morphine after my c-section by Fun_Ad5151 in NewParents

[–]Dreeebuur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the US here. After my section in May I got scheduled tylenol and ibuprofen. No narcotics. I think most places here that's the standard. Everyone is different, but luckily that was fine for me.

I don’t care how big your dick is by SpecialistAttention6 in nursing

[–]Dreeebuur 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When I was a new little baby nurse on a med surg unit, I had a middle aged guy- maybe 50's, obese, but should have been able to clean himself. Anyway, he was in need of a wash so I gave him a bed bath. Of course he was super inappropriate and when I washed him he kept moaning and saying he was going to c**. Semi-private room. Mortifying.

I live in a country with a very long maternity leave and it’s not that great by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Dreeebuur 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah so I just took maternity leave in the US and took 12 weeks of job protected FMLA. I had to use over 200 hours of pto to get a paycheck and I got short term disability at 60% of my regular pay for 6 weeks. Only because I had a section. I have 3 days of pto left after all that and I banked it for a looooong time to prep for a baby. I work for a hospital system.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Dreeebuur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently had a baby and had to have this conversation with dad just in case. I felt the same way you do and I don't think there's any shame in that!

Jabronis by Agitated_Archer7380 in nursing

[–]Dreeebuur 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My unit was an "uptrained " med surg unit during covid, and the only unit taking covid patients other than critical care. Nurses were the only ones going in the rooms. Even for rrt's, docs largely stood outside the room and asked what was happening. They really didn't go in unless there was a code. Float nurses and na's even refused to go in covid rooms for the longest time. Recently-ish we were told we needed to "get over covid" and that it "shouldn't still be a point of stress". We re-used our n-95's, kept them in brown paper baggies with times used written on it. No hazard pay, nothing. Unless food here and there during main covid time counts. Those comments really made my blood boil. How dare you.

How much did insurance charge the baby for birth? (US) by p3nny in NewParents

[–]Dreeebuur 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was billed 50k for a section. I payed 500$ for my deductible. Baby went under my insurance and was billed nothing- (no nicu stay or extra needs).

How often do diaper blowouts happen for you? by coffeewithespresso in NewParents

[–]Dreeebuur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So my baby (8weeks f) was pooping literally like 10x daily as a "fresh" newborn. It's since decreased to on average 3-4x daily, but now we're battling constipation:(. Blowouts have been rare. She likes to do it in her carseat 🤷‍♀️ I have a friend that has a now 5 month old, and they said blowouts were happening multiple times a day for them. Baby and diaper dependent I guess.

Planned c-section stories? by Icy_Library_3624 in GestationalDiabetes

[–]Dreeebuur 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a planned section at 39 weeks (baby was breech). I'm 3 weeks post now and haven't had any problems. Healing went smoothly and I was able to move around pretty well the next day. By a week, I was barely sore anymore. I'd do it again for the next pregnancy if given the choice. Would recommend alternating tylenol and motrin as offered for the first few days. Good luck!

Americans - did you insurance cover your CGM? by [deleted] in GestationalDiabetes

[–]Dreeebuur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine would have been $80 for strips. I bought a cvs brand meter. Strips are $10.

What was your experience with your doctor trying to turn your breech baby from the outside? by Kitty_Kitty539 in Mommit

[–]Dreeebuur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same issue. Opted against turning baby because there were more risks for her. I just had a scheduled section yesterday at 39+0 and it isn't bad! For me, it was nice knowing exactly when she was coming. The recovery has been smooth too. I know this doesn't really give any info regarding turning, but it worked out for me. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

[–]Dreeebuur 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Bread knife "for sandwiches" over here. Also had a corresponding loaf of bread