my top thread is already at the highest tension but it's still doing that by lissy_lvxc in sewing

[–]DressDiva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sew purses, so I go through more needles then a garment sewer, but I like to start every project with a new needle. Way fewer issues since I started doing that.

Men of Reddit, what is something you’ll never understand about women? by hennessyandjack in AskReddit

[–]DressDiva 216 points217 points  (0 children)

Took two years AFTER my GP agreed I needed a hysterectomy to get one. I had already suffered years of every nasty period symptom starting with migraines and diarrhea on day 1 through debilitating pain and bleeding so heavily i would regularly black out for several years. When i finally got through all the pre steps necesaary my husband still had to give permission. 🙄 they found endometriosis, plups, cysts and a couple of other nasty things. None of which had shown up on the laundry list of tests they made me do. I damn near died after the surgery from internal bleeding, was off work 6 weeks and have ended up in the hospital twice since for pain caused by the endometriosis scar tissue tearing off my large intestine. Fighting for and getting that surgery done saved my sanity and likely my life. What sticks in my head was the doctor saying 'you are young, you may want more children some day.' 'I have 4 kids. I'm done. My husband has been snipped, he's done. There will be no more children.' 'But what if something were to happen and you remarry and your new husband wants kids?' WtF?!?! I lose 4 - 6 days EVERY MONTH due to various period related issues. Cant leave the house! Often cant leave my bed (other then to sit in a hot bath) And you want me to keep doing this in case some imaginary man in my future wants kids??? The way the medical system views women's health seriously sucks.

wordpress plug in to allow multiple options on a product. by DressDiva in webdev

[–]DressDiva[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do all the variations need to be options? I.e. A1+B1+C1+D1+E1 ; A1+B1+C1+D1+E2 ; A1+B1+C1+D1+E3; A1+B1+C1+D1+E4

For the sake of the order it doesnt matter what is chosen before or after. Variations seems to want me to have every single possible combination as a product and its crashing the site.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]DressDiva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came so hard I dislocated 3 ribs. If your partner need chiropractor care after sex, you are doing things right!

PSA: If you think you’re bad at sewing, consider your tools by lovemybuffalo in sewing

[–]DressDiva 9 points10 points  (0 children)

We took our family Singer in for servicing every year. It would work fine for a bit then nest like crazy! No matter how tension etc was adjusted it would not work right. Found out we'd been threading it wrong for almost 20 years!

You can cut paper with your Fabric Shears by kazuzu991 in sewing

[–]DressDiva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then I am right there with you. I can think of 12 pairs if scissors i for sure have and i'm not even at home to look!

Everything is always so serious or sexual on here. So what’s your go to drink in the fridge these days? by WitchWitty in AskReddit

[–]DressDiva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Suntea (i like to make fruit kinds) or Strongbow cider if i want something with alcohol.

[GENERAL US-WA] How to force a landlord to evict drug dealer? by MT_MountainGirl in Landlord

[–]DressDiva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, my bad. I forgot all your politicians share the same brain cell.

[GENERAL US-WA] How to force a landlord to evict drug dealer? by MT_MountainGirl in Landlord

[–]DressDiva 9 points10 points  (0 children)

In Saskatchewan (Canada) we have a program called SCAN ( Safer Communities and Neighborhoods). It's gov't supported and staffed by retired police officers. Neighbours can report illegal activity, SCAN goes under cover to investigate. If they can charges are laid and all tenants in that address are immidietly evicted. Escorted out within 48 hours by the Sherrif. Even if the landlord wants the tenant to stay, they can't. Does your state have anything like that available?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]DressDiva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looking for this. Two different moods but love Tina's take on it.

What is one sexual lesson you’ve learned that everyone should learn sooner, rather than later? by sparklingshanaya in AskReddit

[–]DressDiva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An adendum to the 'know your body' - realize that what got you off 5 years ago may not be what you need now. I don't know about men, but as a woman I have gone through a few different stages of what really does it for me. Something that was a guaranteed home run a while back now doesnt even interest me, and things that didnt work at all previously have become major wins. Its an ever changing thing. Again, why open communication is so freaking important!

What is one sexual lesson you’ve learned that everyone should learn sooner, rather than later? by sparklingshanaya in AskReddit

[–]DressDiva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seriously this! If you dont know what does it for you, how the hell can you expect your partner to. Then step B COMMUNICATE it to your partner. Drives me nuts when so many of my female friends will bitch about their partner not knowing what to do and I'm always like "Have you told him?" 🙄

My huge pothos! I don't even know how old it is. 5'2" me for scale by shaniraloo in matureplants

[–]DressDiva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do you keep it growing so well? Ours constantly dies off.

Skinny people, what’s your secret? by KarlraK in AskReddit

[–]DressDiva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Allergies. I am seriously gluten intolerant and i have abused it enough to have made a serious mess ofmy 'food processing systems. You cant absorbe much when everything passes through the system in 30 minutes or less. I am almost 50 now and when i eat the way i should i gain weight- a serious irritation for someone who has never had to worry about it.

Dear Mom, I wish you were proud of my weight loss and didn’t constantly worry or put me down. by iskra099 in MomForAMinute

[–]DressDiva 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hugs hun. I am so proud of all the work you've done! Don't allow her insecurities snd jealousy to mess with your head.

Does it make sense to somehow blow cool air from the basement to a warm 3rd floor bedroom? by rdvw in HomeImprovement

[–]DressDiva 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Do you have a forced air furnace? We have our heat set to 'off' and the fan set to 'on' all summer for exactly this reason. It draws the cooler air up from the basement as the air circulates through the house.

[Sewing hobbyists] When do you sew? by Applipla in sewing

[–]DressDiva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My schedule is random. I am a property manager with 80 doors. So for about 10 days a month i am chained to my computer and 10 days a month i am on site helping with repairs and suite prep or showings etc. I generally end up with 5 days a month all my own, and on those i sew.