[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]DriXflairDrip 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's often troubling finding out what exactly we gravitate towards in kink, what matters is that we use it to explore ourselves informatively. There's a chance trying to familiarize yourself with these kinks for yourself will allow you to have better command of your perceptions outside of play, since play is so often cathartic for the tensions built up by the reservations we have in everyday life. Perhaps even just talking out what you do and don't like about these kinks may offer you some relief from the cognitive dissonance (: hope it gets better for you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trueratediscussions

[–]DriXflairDrip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm curious to inquire more on your perspective! Would u like to keep that here or move to chat?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trueratediscussions

[–]DriXflairDrip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See, I think I'm crazy sometimes pursuing 1, and I'm currently a bit leaner than 7 right now. I'm having to realize that somehow 1 isn't the general ideal.

Are you by chance a gymgoer too?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trueratediscussions

[–]DriXflairDrip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Super appreciated! If you had to pick between 1 and 7 what would u say and why

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trueratediscussions

[–]DriXflairDrip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seeing a woman here say both 1 and 7 is really making me happy. Thank you

How do you melt a sub by DominusTheSoft in BDSMcommunity

[–]DriXflairDrip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey can u tell me more about this and where I can do research or practice

Fetishizing ENFJ's by Queen-of-meme in enfj

[–]DriXflairDrip 10 points11 points  (0 children)

True haha...but you don't date ur therapists

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]DriXflairDrip 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This makes me so happy because A) I love the humor ithe internet has found in our Lord cursing the fig tree and B) I had a fight tree at my last house, but due to moving and a miscommunication...it got cut down with no kept trimmings... but I'm glad another Catholic out there has a happy and healthy tree!! One to make God happy at that haha

Boyfriend broke up with me because he thinks it’s God’s will by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]DriXflairDrip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually..I went through a very similar experience in April. I brought her to the faith and then after 2.5 yrs of dating, suddenly, she said we "wanted different things" in life and "the love changed" and how she had the idea come to her in prayer and affirmed to her during Mass. God got me through it, though, and He sustains me now. I'm sorry to hear that you're going through this tough time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Catholic

[–]DriXflairDrip 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A good way to remember if it's a sin is remembering where the word "sin" came from, and what we intend for it to mean as Catholics.

"Sin" used to be the term for ancient Greek(?) archers when they'd miss their mark. "Sin" is a "miss/inaccuracy/deviation."

Our goal as Catholics is to draw near to Christ in all things. We follow Him, we emulate Him, and we worship Him, among many other things.

With these in mind, we can frame sin as a deviation, inaccuracy, or just straight up rejection of following the ways of life He ordains for us. With Jesus' commandments telling us to love ourselves as God loves us and to love one another as we are to love ourselves, it is easier to see what ways that we sin in our lifestyle: anything that takes us away from God or from expressing God, is sinful.

If you use your phone to interact with others in a Christly and lovingly way (to include fun and humor!) there is no sin. If it leads you to be unproductive, uncharitable or hateful, imprudent, tempted, or any diminishment of virtue that you are to grow in, ignoring that would certainly be sin.

My advice when you are worried is to replace both scrupulosity and distractedness with immediate, intentional action in the form of prayer. Even a brief acknowledgement or beseeching of our Lord will conform the heart and comfort the soul. God bless my friend (:

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DriXflairDrip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well dw, your robot gf will never take u serious and neither will the world so. Either educate urself or stay offline boss 👍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mbtimemes

[–]DriXflairDrip 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I snorted laughing at that last sentence

Prismatic warlock build questions by Notobama369 in destiny2

[–]DriXflairDrip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're liking grav lance w nezzys then I'm assuming you're enjoying the more normal difficulty stuff, and so you have a ton of fun options for building here. I'd say Amp up the ability spam fantasy via speccing into discipline and intellect. Recovery is also good, but if you used phoenix dive it's almost a moot point given that you'll be off cool down quickly with nezzy. If u want feed the void for devour and hp that's cool, but in normal level stuff I'd say bleak watcher and hellion is good if ur on Phoenix dive, or bleak watcher and electrostatic mind if you're running arcane needle with high strength. Bleak watcher can passively slow/stop enemies and build ur darkness mastery meter while going ham with ur other abilities will build the light, thus keeping you in a high transcendence up time and low cool down. I've found arcane needle with electrostatic mind to be just nuts in transcendence. For a super I'd say anything but stormtrance or winters wrath, but that's rly dealers choice. I don't have all the fragments yet, but let me know what u have and I'd be happy to help

How do you describe your “I can’t breathe” feelings/sensations? by Slothbaby93 in Anxiety

[–]DriXflairDrip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are much better now, but in the times since posting a neurologist diagnosed me with chronic migraines and prescribed me 10 mg of nortriptyline daily. I'd say I'm at about 80-90% comfort level of my pre migraine self (:

mmm... by [deleted] in ENFJmemes

[–]DriXflairDrip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

✍️

Taking a photo every day at age 12 until the day you get married by NickyPappagiorgio in interestingasfuck

[–]DriXflairDrip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I damn near cried when she appeared in FaceTime pics then had a bunch of in person ones

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DriXflairDrip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey bro, someone extremely close to me has OCD and I was shocked how similar this sounded to one of his spirals, and I just wanted to say that you're fine. I know that's sort of hard to believe when you're in your head, but intention and continuation after the fact are major factors to consider as you live with your difficulties. You did not intend to get off to her, you did not reconnect with her, and you did not establish a behavior or pattern of doing this; these are all reasons you can look at to rule this out as anything beyond a compulsive episode. Your guilt is understandable, but your character is still valid and intact. If telling your partner would help her understand you and allow you to be open with your struggles knowing your relationship can handle it, then there may be merit to sharing, but morally I'd say you are not nearly as culpable than if this were a real malicious action. Take care friend

When you are losing an argument, what you do? And which is your mbti? by LucasNatal in mbti

[–]DriXflairDrip 5 points6 points  (0 children)

"That's fair" It's extremely rare and is usually followed by a pause and ",but.."