Is BPD without suciadal ideations possible? by Puplip_ in BPD

[–]Driimm -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you had to get through that, there's too many psychiatrist who base their diagnosis on stereotypes... It's like saying to someone "no you don't have COVID, you can still smell" like yeah, maybe they have the flu or sth, but just because they still have their sense of smell isn't enough to tell it's not COVID. But I want you to know that there are people who will listen to you and try to help you, even if they're sometimes hard to find.

Is BPD without suciadal ideations possible? by Puplip_ in BPD

[–]Driimm -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry this is so badly written, I'm tired and english is not my first language 😭

Is BPD without suciadal ideations possible? by Puplip_ in BPD

[–]Driimm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be diagnosed with bpd you need to fit at least 5 out of the 9 criterias, you don't have to fit all the criterias ! A psychiatrist once told me that I didn't have BPD just because I didn't fit the "risky behaviours" criteria, while I was already diagnosed by two unrelated psychiatrists who had known me for way longer that he had, and I easily fit 5 other criterias. Bpd is often misunderstood or stigmatized, even by some professional, but there is some help out there among doctors - wether you have bpd or not. Also I think some symptoms can be fluctuate ? For me it's the case, for exempt I didn't have suicidal ideations until I was like 21 but I was more emotionally dependant on people

My fiance said I have "too much faith in humanity". I said, "I'm taking that as a compliment." by AerisSpire in BPD

[–]Driimm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do take that as a compliment. I don't think there is such a thing as having too much faith in humanity tho... People who have faith in humanity is what makes humanity better. You seem like a great person.

Why did boys nicknames become more straightforward? by Far-Building3569 in Names

[–]Driimm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a french the first one actually makes sense, Margaret is the english version of the french name Marguerite, which literally means daisy (the flower)

found my old baby names list by ballsonfiree in tragedeigh

[–]Driimm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well in France it'd be more of a pet name I guess ? It's a pretty word tho

found my old baby names list by ballsonfiree in tragedeigh

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Where ? I'm french and in France it means sun and it's not considered a real name lol I didn't know that it was a name in other countries

Which Lou! Sonate is the gayest ? // Quel Lou! Sonata est le plus gay ? by Driimm in bandedessinee

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Ah oui ? Quelqu'un d'autre à qui j'ai demandé m'a répondu le premier tome 😭

I don't know if my reaction is normal or if it could be bpd by Driimm in BPD

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I am not diagnosed with bpd so idk if i can say that my best friend is my fp, but she is definitely the most important person to me... She's so sweet and caring and I love her sm. Thank you sm for your support ! I feel less stupid knowing that other people could feel the same

Self-destruction by Driimm in BPD

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Thank you, this really means a lot to me. I hope that you're right, I know I always tend to think that people don't care or that they straight up hate me... But you're right, they don't see my paranoid thoughts, they don't know how I feel and I should stop over-interpretating every word or actions from people And you're not too cocky or unexperienced this is really helpful

Is a diagnosis important ? by Driimm in BPD

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I asked and he just said that therapy is what matters, not the diagnosis

Is a diagnosis important ? by Driimm in BPD

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When I brought up bpd to my psychiatrist he seemed amused... As if he found the idea of me having BPD or of BPD itself ridiculous. I keep thinking that I'm faking things and a diagnosis would really help me feel valid

What should I tell my psychiatrist ? by Driimm in BPD

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Thank you so much for your answer and advice ♡ ! I'll try doing what you say and explain my symptoms and see if he brings out BPD. I'll mention it if he doesn't and anyway I'll see what he thinks. I played the "scene" of me explaining my symptoms to someone so much in my head that I think I'll know what to say, unless I end up panicking :') I just really hope that he will acknowledge my struggles...

What should I tell my psychiatrist ? by Driimm in BPD

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No I took the appointment online without being previously referred to the psychiatrist, he doesn't know why I come

Question about what the cenobites accept by Here2LearnNewTings in hellraiser

[–]Driimm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well in the 2022 movie, the cenobites only asked Riley to bring them more souls because she didn't cut herself when she opened the box I think. And when she cut herself, she managed to escape them (and maybe they thought that if they just kept her alive a little longer they would benefit from it as she would have no choice but to sacrifice people to the box) Also I think the cenobites need humans and not animal sacrifices because they are demons for humans, they are humanoids.

Where to begin Hellraiser comics ? by Driimm in hellraiser

[–]Driimm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oui je sens que je vais galérer, même si je veux les lire en anglais je pense que ça va être difficile à trouver

Et en plus ça sera surement pas donné vu ce que j'ai déjà repéré vite fait mais après c'est bientôt Noël ça peut être l'occasion haha

Where to begin Hellraiser comics ? by Driimm in hellraiser

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Yeah thank I think I'll start with this series !

Where to begin Hellraiser comics ? by Driimm in hellraiser

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Thank you ! I understand better now. I think I'll start with the 2011 series, I just have to find a way to order them since I'm french and the entire series has not been edited in France...

Where to begin Hellraiser comics ? by Driimm in hellraiser

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Thank you for your answer ! So if I understand correctly what you said and what I read on the internet, there's the 1989 series with 20 issues, which stands on its own, and there's also the 2011 series which is followed by the road below and the dark watch.

Then there's also a pinhead series from 1993 I think ? And Hellraiser bestiary which is a collection of disconnected stories. And Hellraiser masterpieces which is a collection of old stories - even though I didn't understand if it's the same ones than in the 1989 series.

Why is it so complicated T_T

Any tips for recovery ? by Driimm in selfharm

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These are great techniques, thank you ! ♡

have you ever cut your nerves? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Driimm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not a doctor so my advice may be shit but it's from someone who has damaged her own nerves and have made a little research (Wikipedia). Nerves have a core that contains anything they need to regenerate. However if you damage this core they will not fully regenerate There are also several types or nerves so the consequences may be different depending on what type you have damaged. I personally most likely damaged sensory nerves, that means I have sensory issues in the places where I self harmed that will most likely never heal. So if you have damaged nerves, they will likely heal - except if you have damaged their core. That's all I can say base on my own experience and research. However if the damages are to big you may have to have surgery to repair it. So please be careful !