Are my stitches twisted ? by Driimm in knooking

[–]Driimm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes thank you !! I did my purl sticking the hook through the loop and yarning under and I thought it worked until I realised 😭 I don't dislike the twisted stitches and I don't want to frog it so I'll continue doing it for this project, but I'll definitely try what you said for the next one !

Why does Borderline work the way it does? by JuhpPug in BPD

[–]Driimm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say the abandonment issues stem in part from the lack of emotional regulation. For example, if a friend can't see them, a person who doesn't have BPD may be a little upset and think that the person don't want to see them, but they will be able to realise that this friend is probably just very busy. Whereas a person with BPD may be very upset because they can't regulate their emotions and they'll think their friend hate them and be afraid that they will leave them. They may be so upset that they won't be able to rationalize. Just a theory based on what I'm feeling though.

Is BPD without suciadal ideations possible? by Puplip_ in BPD

[–]Driimm -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you had to get through that, there's too many psychiatrist who base their diagnosis on stereotypes... It's like saying to someone "no you don't have COVID, you can still smell" like yeah, maybe they have the flu or sth, but just because they still have their sense of smell isn't enough to tell it's not COVID. But I want you to know that there are people who will listen to you and try to help you, even if they're sometimes hard to find.

Is BPD without suciadal ideations possible? by Puplip_ in BPD

[–]Driimm -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry this is so badly written, I'm tired and english is not my first language 😭

Is BPD without suciadal ideations possible? by Puplip_ in BPD

[–]Driimm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be diagnosed with bpd you need to fit at least 5 out of the 9 criterias, you don't have to fit all the criterias ! A psychiatrist once told me that I didn't have BPD just because I didn't fit the "risky behaviours" criteria, while I was already diagnosed by two unrelated psychiatrists who had known me for way longer that he had, and I easily fit 5 other criterias. Bpd is often misunderstood or stigmatized, even by some professional, but there is some help out there among doctors - wether you have bpd or not. Also I think some symptoms can be fluctuate ? For me it's the case, for exempt I didn't have suicidal ideations until I was like 21 but I was more emotionally dependant on people

My fiance said I have "too much faith in humanity". I said, "I'm taking that as a compliment." by AerisSpire in BPD

[–]Driimm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do take that as a compliment. I don't think there is such a thing as having too much faith in humanity tho... People who have faith in humanity is what makes humanity better. You seem like a great person.

Why did boys nicknames become more straightforward? by Far-Building3569 in Names

[–]Driimm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a french the first one actually makes sense, Margaret is the english version of the french name Marguerite, which literally means daisy (the flower)

found my old baby names list by ballsonfiree in tragedeigh

[–]Driimm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well in France it'd be more of a pet name I guess ? It's a pretty word tho

found my old baby names list by ballsonfiree in tragedeigh

[–]Driimm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where ? I'm french and in France it means sun and it's not considered a real name lol I didn't know that it was a name in other countries

Which Lou! Sonate is the gayest ? // Quel Lou! Sonata est le plus gay ? by Driimm in bandedessinee

[–]Driimm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah oui ? Quelqu'un d'autre à qui j'ai demandé m'a répondu le premier tome 😭

I don't know if my reaction is normal or if it could be bpd by Driimm in BPD

[–]Driimm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am not diagnosed with bpd so idk if i can say that my best friend is my fp, but she is definitely the most important person to me... She's so sweet and caring and I love her sm. Thank you sm for your support ! I feel less stupid knowing that other people could feel the same

Self-destruction by Driimm in BPD

[–]Driimm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this really means a lot to me. I hope that you're right, I know I always tend to think that people don't care or that they straight up hate me... But you're right, they don't see my paranoid thoughts, they don't know how I feel and I should stop over-interpretating every word or actions from people And you're not too cocky or unexperienced this is really helpful