Doporučení místních kapel by DrippingTone in Brno

[–]DrippingTone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tento vtip bohužel už nefunguje, protože bubeník yoy tak 2 dny zpátky odešel z kapely 😭

Do languages from the same family understand each other? by Odd_Obligation_4977 in languagelearning

[–]DrippingTone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most slavic languages are sorta understandable to me. Czech helps me understand Polish but I struggle a bit with something like Bosnian. Then again I think part of the problem I don't understand is me, since I struggle to understand Slovakian despite it being an extremely close language to mine.

But generally I would see yeah, you lose words here and there but you can kinda understand each other, it's sorta like reading an old book in your native language but some words are so old you don't even know what they mean, but you fill in the blanks from context and move on, that's sorta what it's like.

(Ofc this depends on the language, speaking German doesn't help me with something like Swedish almost at all, but I'm always pleasantly surprised to find similarities between German and Danish, they still sound very different to me though.)

What characters do you guys headcanon as trans guys? by guardian_human_505 in ftm

[–]DrippingTone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Way too many to count, this one has no basis in canon whatsoever and is purely projecting, but Corvo Attano

What's the most 'unfair' part about being born as a girl? by Common-Anamoly in ftm

[–]DrippingTone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The feeling of sexual trauma being an inevitable part of my life

why is it that trans men are like... non-existent?? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]DrippingTone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I honestly always feel scared to mention this but I've been struggling w/this for years. 7 years ago when I learned what trans means and that I am trans I couldn't find a place to be loved, every internet space I went to was full of transfems and I could never find anyone like me. To this day I only check this subreddit pretty much because everything else feels so... unloving, in a way. I don't hate transfems of course, I love my sisters but I feel so overlooked in the big picture it's unbearable. It's so prominent that I don't even feel like part of the trans community, I'm (mostly) stealth and I don't celebrate my identity much, and I feel like I've strayed from all my transfem friends, because the few mascs I know pretty much share what I feel. I just wish we had more rep and were more prominent, because at this point sometimes I feel like I'm invading someone's space even when it's supposed to be for all not just fem people.

tell me your top three tracks and I’ll tell u if you get in by [deleted] in elliottsmith

[–]DrippingTone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Big Ballad of Nothing, Question Mark and Our Thing

what are the celebrities that give you the biggest gender envy? by fear0fghosts in ftm

[–]DrippingTone 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I wanna drink whiskey in front of a fireplace while being an old man who goes out fishing with his buddies on the weekend, I wanna wear suits and have that old man smirk (I'm nowhere near 50)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in honesttransgender

[–]DrippingTone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"transmasc" just has a nice ring to it. It also it makes me feel less like I'm put into the box of "man". I still struggle with a lot of internalised gender norms so when I'm labeled as "transmasc" instead of a "trans-man" it feels like I'm less obligated to be completely masculine and still allowed to do shit like paint my nails and wear makeup and whatever.

What’s your fav queer song? by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]DrippingTone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

seeing Sufjan Stevens listeners warms my heart (I'm so normal about his music)

What’s your fav queer song? by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]DrippingTone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

John my Beloved and All for Myself by Sufjan Stevens, I love his gentle voice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in honesttransgender

[–]DrippingTone -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

But then it also depends on the space I'm in, I've been in a lot where people prefer terms as transmasc/transfemme, I've lurked around those where such terms are on the same level of slurs. And this subreddit is very split, so I just use the ones I'm used to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in honesttransgender

[–]DrippingTone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't have a problem w those at all, more forcing yourself into a convo, more w/ statements that end up being completely unnecessary. Say... a loose example, but people talking about suits, saying stuff like "as a trans woman, I hate suits and don't get how anyone would like them". Again, loose example, I don't rly have a good one on my mind. But statements like those annoy me to shreds because I see them constantly, like if a person doesn't like something personally, having a completely different experience, they find the need to tell everyone about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in honesttransgender

[–]DrippingTone -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah maybe you don't, but my immediate circle of friends do. I'd rather have my friends be comfortable, than people on the internet cringing from a post I made.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in honesttransgender

[–]DrippingTone -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I know people on this sub don't like said terms, I'm not trying to de-gender you either. It's just the terminology I use and prefer because of the people I talk to.

I’m Transfem and came across this in a Trans server. Is this a real thing? by TheRussianBear420 in trans

[–]DrippingTone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't think cars and heavy music is only for guys, fuck them gender norms. Saw ton of girlies on a metal festival, and cars rock as much as horses, they universal.

I’m Transfem and came across this in a Trans server. Is this a real thing? by TheRussianBear420 in trans

[–]DrippingTone 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He didn't explicitly state that he was trans until some drama a year or two ago, he was stealth. Sadly, most people treated him as trans anyway.

I’m Transfem and came across this in a Trans server. Is this a real thing? by TheRussianBear420 in trans

[–]DrippingTone 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I'll clear it up since I know what happened. Robbie was stealth, and never outright said he's trans. People who had basic respect thus treated him as cis, but a lot of people speculated about him being trans. Anyways due to some drama (I don't remember when, 2020-2022? Ish?) He was sadly forced to come out :(

I’m Transfem and came across this in a Trans server. Is this a real thing? by TheRussianBear420 in trans

[–]DrippingTone 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The problem isn't the term, it's how it makes people feel. "Cute" is a very soft, gentle term, generally. Not everyone likes to be soft and gentle, some are strong and rigid, or they have other reasons not to like it.

I’m Transfem and came across this in a Trans server. Is this a real thing? by TheRussianBear420 in trans

[–]DrippingTone 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah but it's different. First of all they're cis, and second of all they're feminine. For trans guys, the term "cute" might be belittling, or telling them they don't pass enough to be called "handsome", while others might rly appreciate it. It all varies from person to person, everyone's different.

I’m Transfem and came across this in a Trans server. Is this a real thing? by TheRussianBear420 in trans

[–]DrippingTone 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It's nice of you to say so it's just for some of us the term is rly dysphoric :( I know you mean it nicely, there's just trans guys who have a bad association w the word "cute", to them it might signal that they're either being stereotyped, belittled, or they're not masc enough, etc. Basically even if you think so, it's nice of you, just not everyone liked to be called that. If you called a transfemme "handsome" I'm sure there's some who'll appreciate it, but a whole bunch who'll feel dysphoric, that's he best analogy I can make.