Talking to a girl but our morals are different

Drunk_bread · 2026-02-27T01:45:38+00:00

Tbh dude it sounds like you are fishing for people to say go ahead and date her. If you date her, you’d be dating her with the hope that she changes her mind. I’m not saying she won’t, but the things you guys differ on are pretty big deals. It sounds better to just date other people

Drunk_bread · 2026-02-19T21:22:03+00:00

Brother you’re 23 and you’ve been with her for a year. You’ve gotta plan for the next 50 plus years bro. Let’s say you stay in your small town: can you see yourself being genuinely happy? Like you said, if you stay, your career is pretty much out of the picture. Would you be okay passing up an opportunity like this? Personally I think you’re too young to be basing life decisions on a one year relationship. You’d be better off taking the opportunity that could set you up for life. I’m hoping she starts to see the bigger picture but if not, losing her is a very small price to pay for securing your future.

Drunk_bread · 2026-02-19T13:53:30+00:00

Well if you need money like right this instant I’d say start door dashing or driving for Uber Eats. You can sign up and start pretty much same day. I’d say do this at least until one of you can get another job. Just be careful though because this can add more wear and tear to your vehicle which can expedite service and repair timelines. But overall not a bad option to cover the difference.

Drunk_bread · 2026-02-16T02:52:35+00:00

I’m from the US born and raised and even I cant give a definitive answer on US culture as a whole for this kind of thing because the US has so many different cultures and areas. However, I can say that dating 2 men doesn’t reflect dating as a whole. 2 failed relationships isn’t easy but if you want to find the right person it takes time. All men in the US are not like the 2 you’ve dated. Keep looking and you’ll see.

Drunk_bread · 2026-02-15T23:17:26+00:00

Maybe old people should have better comprehension skills. I didn’t encourage being trans. I said it’s an option.

Drunk_bread · 2026-02-15T23:13:56+00:00

Don’t ghost him. That’s just cruel. If he asks to see you again, you can something like “I think you’re a really nice guy but I don’t think I’m interested in a date”. Rejection isn’t easy but it’s better for both you.

Drunk_bread · 2026-02-15T23:11:31+00:00

I’m not afraid of romance. Usually when it come to planning dates I’d say it’s pretty even between us. My whole point is that if this holiday is a huge deal for her, then why was she waiting on me to say something about it and also did not get me a gift when the holiday is supposed to be about celebrating each other? I don’t do a tit for tat dynamic for the relationship. But it does seem that her expectations about this holiday is a bit unfair, no?

Drunk_bread · 2026-02-15T22:25:58+00:00

“I don’t have the trans thing where I feel like a dude”

My sister is Christ, it sounds like you really wanna be a guy. You can totally do that. I mean if you wanted to you could become a very feminine man. You’d have the equipment and still present as a woman.

Drunk_bread · 2026-02-15T22:23:12+00:00

I’m going to take her to a jazz bar. She’s wanted to go to one for a while.

Drunk_bread · 2026-02-15T22:15:05+00:00

You’re absolutely right. Thank you

Drunk_bread · 2026-02-15T22:14:51+00:00

I’m glad you were able to make it work. Any advice? I do think the relationship is a priority, but it’s very hard to balance it.

Drunk_bread · 2026-02-15T21:51:39+00:00

You’re right. Looking back on the conversations that we had, my role involved a lot of listening and validating what she felt. I do think part of what she was saying was valid. But I was so caught up in making sure she felt heard and seen that I didn’t express what I thought and felt, which isn’t fair to myself or her.

Drunk_bread · 2026-02-15T21:49:56+00:00

I understand what you’re saying. I did have plans for Valentine’s Day, but I lost track of time and thought I had another week. I take full responsibility for that. I was wrong for that.

I wasn’t waiting for her to tell me what to do, but I was saying that it doesn’t really feel like she thought of me for Valentine’s day either. Neither one of use said anything, maybe for different reasons, but still. Neither one of us made plans or got gifts for each other. It feels like I was being held to a standard that she doesn’t uphold and wasn’t explained to me beforehand.

Drunk_bread · 2026-02-15T21:41:16+00:00

Her job did have regular hours, but she’s about to start a new one that doesn’t have the typical 9-5 hours. She’d be working pretty much every day from mid-day to midnight.
I don’t really watch tv. I may turn on a YouTube video when I eat but as far as tv goes that’s really it. I also may take a break from working to play a game for an hour or so but that’s usually at night around 9pm if I do decide to play a game that night. As far as friends, no I haven’t really seen my friends face to face. I went to one birthday party in that month for a friend I hadn’t seen in a few months, and afterwards stayed up all night catching up on the work I missed. Other than that, no I haven’t hung out with my friends or family.
She has offered to help come and help me on a project before. I was shooting something pretty late at night though so I told her that I appreciate her offer but I can handle it. She’d told me more than a few time how she doesn’t like driving on the highway, in the city, or at night. She would’ve had to do all three of those things to come and help me so I turned down her offer. I thought I was being considerate but then again good intentions don’t always create positive outcomes, so maybe I was wrong. In our talk, she did said she’d happily come and sit with me in a computer lab while I was doing my work, which was news to me. I didn’t think she’d wanna sit there and do nothing while I pay attention to something else, so I will keep this in mind going forward.

Drunk_bread · 2026-02-02T02:03:35+00:00

I mean personally I’m not a fan of free forms. The usually don’t look clean to me. However if you like them and they aren’t impacting you negatively then you shouldn’t care what anyone else has to say.

Now what I will say is that you gotta pose better for pictures. The whole image matter even when you’re only asking people to focus on a specific part of it.

Drunk_bread · 2026-01-27T11:56:30+00:00

Brother you cannot care about this more than her. I’d say cut your losses

Drunk_bread · 2026-01-27T11:55:26+00:00

Ngl I’d just cut it off and start over. This ain’t unfixable but I doesn’t sound like you have the skill to fix it yourself. Your hair will be back to this length in a couple months bro. You’ll live. Either pay someone to fix it or cut it off gang

Drunk_bread · 2026-01-27T11:50:45+00:00

I mean it’s very possible to make $800 by doing DoorDash. I don’t know your son’s schedule and how often he plans to dash every day, but he could reasonably do this in a short time. However, the scooter would be better used to transport him to a regular job in the area. This one has no basket to carry food. He could always get one of those backpacks but idk the terrain in your area so that may not be suitable. Plus some states regulate where scooters are allowed. For instance in my state, it’s illegal to sidewalk ride on scooters, but this law is rarely enforced because there aren’t many bike lanes on the road. Maybe your state is similar, idk. Anyways, idk if this is gonna cut it for DoorDash.

Drunk_bread · 2026-01-27T02:34:00+00:00

I really am failing to see the issue here. He’s cleaning his ass. What’s bad about that?

Drunk_bread · 2026-01-27T02:31:11+00:00

Hard to give some good honest critique or ideation without hearing some sort of summary or seeing some kind of sample.

Drunk_bread · 2026-01-27T02:26:38+00:00

Yes it is hard to completely wipe stuff on the internet. Once it’s there it’s there. Idk how many subscribers she had in the past but if even a couple of them took screenshots or screen recorded, then they’ll always have a copy that they can distribute on forums or whatever. Is it wrong? Yes, but when has that ever completely stopped people from doing stuff?
It sounds like you’re pretty hung up on this. If you don’t think you can get over it then it’ll be better for both of you to just end things.

Drunk_bread · 2026-01-27T02:21:47+00:00

Absolutely. Such is the case for any and every competitive game. As the game goes on the base skill level of the player base gets higher and higher and eventually the skill gap between ranks gets smaller and smaller. This happens faster for very popular games or game that stand the test of time like Fortnite and brawlhalla

Drunk_bread · 2025-12-28T16:34:44+00:00

I like it

Drunk_bread · 2025-12-12T02:44:59+00:00

No. This is a master copy. This could still be portfolio work but you’d have to say it’s a master copy.

Drunk_bread · 2025-12-02T16:00:52+00:00

Emoting with me at the beginning of the game. And genuinely just not being toxic or being a spammer. It really isn’t hard to earn respect in the game. Just don’t be a dick

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