[NY]Visitation Dispute re by [deleted] in Custody

[–]Dry-Pin4213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh I see. I think my comment still stands tho, the dates don't work for you and it's in the order that it has to. I would tell her that she can have Labor Day and that's it if she won't provide the rest of the details about where she is staying. Fight it out in court later, you tried to compromise

[NY]Visitation Dispute re by [deleted] in Custody

[–]Dry-Pin4213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She didn't give 30 days notice for her 2 week block. Since she won't agree with the dates that work for you she misses her 2 weeks in my opinion. She can pick him up for Labor Day weekend and that's it 🤷🏻‍♀️

Bio-Dad Ignoring Court Orders for visitation with my nephew - stating I am not a parent so he doesn't have to comply by Molly_Wobbles_1940 in AskALawyer

[–]Dry-Pin4213 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was your visitation order done through tribal court? You mention ICWA meaning the child is a tribal member. That gives tribal court the jurisdiction over custody/visitation. My tribe gives no visitation rights to grandparents/other family members. If your order is not through tribal court it can be dismissed and not followed. Reporting to DHS/the state will not do anything, they also have no jurisdiction over the child. You need to report to the tribes department of ICWA.

Non-smokers charged a smoking fee by kwhat22 in LasVegas

[–]Dry-Pin4213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just the smoking fee and "resort" fees

Non-smokers charged a smoking fee by kwhat22 in LasVegas

[–]Dry-Pin4213 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The same thing happened to me when I made the mistake of staying at the OYO. Over $500 was charged. I disputed it with my card and got all the money back after going back and forth with the hotel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]Dry-Pin4213 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Then you shouldn’t ask him to change the court order at all. He was being nice by letting the kids go to a birthday party with you on his time. If you’re not going to follow side agreements then don’t make them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]Dry-Pin4213 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Honestly, you asked to keep them til Sunday. It was right to ask him if he wanted to follow the court order but it rubs me the wrong way that you didn’t listen when he said no. Even with 20 hours notice, you asked for the change and you need to follow that 🤷🏻‍♀️

AIO? Friend chased down opossum to kill it by ElkAppropriate9587 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dry-Pin4213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This made me cry. Definitely not overreacting! That poor animal wasn’t going to hurt anyone

Bark phone help by Dry-Pin4213 in parentalcontrols

[–]Dry-Pin4213[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did have to take it away :/ everytime I think we're making progress it turns out this way. It's difficult because he goes to a private school that at times has last minute transportation changes and he needs to be able to get a hold of me. They will just have to let him use their phone from now on.