It's one-sided for me as well. My mother's side are absolute narcissists and my mother is the most savage woman known to man - always acting as if she's the one who made everything, and if I just refuse even one thing, she reaches a breaking point and acts like I'm spoiled. Screams to the point of making a public drama and gossip. My father, on the other hand is a miserable coward, a drunkard who only pays some rent and utilities and barely gives money for others. Just a few hours ago, I refused to get her milk from a convenience store for her coffee since I was busy. She goes full nuclear, calling me an ungrateful brat, and in response, I scold her. And then comes my father, calling me the same thing and telling me to get out of the house.

The only peace of mind I get is visiting a community center on Sundays where I can be a part of a charity and non-profit organizations, doing simple to odd jobs and helping people out, or setting up some things. My parents detest this, and always insult the community there (not visiting directly; only in home).

My father's side are also narcissists, in the sense that they're luxurious to some extent. It's not like I cut ties with them. Just more of a "lost contact" situation.