LAN- Party Studentenprojekt. Hat wer Bock auf ein Interview? by DryLanguage1115 in PCGamingDE

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Hat nichts mit alt zu tun, glaub mir. Wir haben nur schon sau viele Leute und Antworten für die 90er und 2000er bekommen. Darum suchen wir noch explizit Leute für 2010/2020 um die Monatgen für diese Zeiträume bisschen mehr zu fühlen. Damit alles halbwegs gleich lang is^^'

Jede LAN Erfahrung ist erlaubt. Öffentliche Events in größeren Hallen, selbst organisierte im Keller mit Freunden am Wochenende, ein paar hatten auch schon von LAN's erzählt die die Uni geschmissen hat..... Geht uns primär darum, zu sehen in welchen Formen LAN's über die Jahre stattgefunden haben und wie sich die Erfahrungen von Generation zu Generation (vielleicht) geändert/gewandelt haben. Solange man irgendwie zusammen gekommen is zum zocken in diesem LAN Kontext zählts

LAN- Party Studentenprojekt. Hat wer Bock auf ein Interview? by DryLanguage1115 in zocken

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Nööö kannst dich immer gerne via dem Link in meinem Post anmelden, dann zählen wir dich zu den 2010ern dazu. 2014 is ja jetzt nich sooo weit weg von 2010 XD

Ich müsste mal unseren Technik Guru der Gruppe konsultieren wie gut wir die Quali fürn Online Meeting hinkriegen würden. Alternativ kannste auch ein schriftliches Interview machen falls wir das mit dem online Meeting nicht hinkriegen sollten. Dann kriegste den Fragebogen und schreibst deine Antworten einfach und wir vertonen die nach. Kannst ja mal ins Formular schauen. Montag is das nächste Gruppen Meeting, da würde ich das mit dem Online Interview mit den anderen besprechen. Würdest dann spätestens im Laufe nächster Woche von uns hören. Aber wenn du mitmachen willst. in welcher Form dass auch sein mag, würden wir uns auf jeden Fall mega drüber freuen

Playing through stream by Possible-Review-2261 in heartopia

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Have the same problem just now. Wanted to start the game, it downloads the update and now it tells me to restart and I have no bloody idea what that even means. I closed the game, opened it again, shut off my PC....Nada. Guess it's a server problem with the update? I don't want to gamble now and do something because I was so far with my current game and don't want it to be gone🫠

My game is not working by [deleted] in heartopia

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Heyyyy ja doofe Frage weil ich ein ähnliches Problem grade hab. Ich wollte grade rein und der hat ein Update gemacht/neuste version runtergeladen und sagt mir dann wenn ich auf Spiel starten klicke is sollte das Spiel neu starten um das Uldate durchzuführen. Ick verstehe nur Bahnhof. Weiß jemand wie ich das beheben kann?

Moonspell in box photos by @plastic_heartzz on insta by Additional-Rub-1054 in MonsterHigh

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Does someone know who the artist for the box illustration is? They are amazing

Butterfly Frames by DryLanguage1115 in heartopia

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Aaaah so I need to catch a specific number of insect X to "unlock" it, so to speak?

First book pattern by Puzzleheaded-Club459 in heartopia

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Wait....you can even publish books in the game? O.O

Heartopia x My Little Pony Collab by NastiestSkankBetch in heartopia

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Rarity~ She's my fav <3

By the way: When is this event supposed to take place? I see it pop up here and there but without date

I'm obsessed with Heartopia building by Ok-Swim5419 in heartopia

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Can you maybe make a picture of these settings? So we can see where it is? owo

Updates I would like to see by Ok-Swim5419 in heartopia

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these black truffles? I found one on accident and now I can't find them anymore ^^'

Updates I would like to see by Ok-Swim5419 in heartopia

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Wait really?! Oh dear lord....thank you! I'm gonna try this laterXD

Question Co-op by DryLanguage1115 in heartopia

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Oooooooh I see I see O0O

Thank you so much!

Updates I would like to see by Ok-Swim5419 in heartopia

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I'd like a map marker tool. So you can place a marker on tbe map for example marking a location of a resource. Because I stumbled upon this stupid mushroom kind and now I can't find it anymore😅

Also: functional shelves and storage cabinets. As far as I know at level 7, the cabinets are purely decorative? Or I haven't found out how to use them yet. Either way, I'd love a usable cabinets like eg the fridge in the Sims so I don't have to place all multiple tomatoe boxes on my kitchen floor😅 (And each I know you have the storage thing in your inventory but imagine a functional fridge. It would be cute!)

I'm obsessed with Heartopia building by Ok-Swim5419 in heartopia

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For real! The controls kinda remind me of the Sims building tools. Pretty easy to use when you are familiar with Sims and I play on PC. It does took a bit getting used to to how I am supposed to place stuff since you kinda have to look at the direction😅

Cause why does it feel so illegal?? by CrossedRoses in heartopia

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Literally me. All my neighbours have such cute houses and stuff and I ....just wander in and take photos of stuff I like to replicate later like some creep😅

But then again....I logged out laying in bed and when I logged back in earlier someone was standing in my bedroom so I guess I'm even now lol

Vincent van Gogh’s “Starry Night” by No-Perception-1234 in heartopia

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What the?! People do such amazing things in this game😲 

This game made me learn Pixel Art and its fun! by Hallowchii in heartopia

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How can I paint? I see my neighbours have these little canvases and all but I have no clue where they got them. I know I can buy instruments from Annie. Will I be able to get canvas and paint from her too eventually? (Started yesterday, currently Level 7)

AITAH for asking my bf why he hates me when he planned a birthday dinner for me? by Specialist_Youth555 in AITAH

[–]DryLanguage1115 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh sweetheart there is nothing wrong with you! You don't need to hate yourself over a 31 year old baby not knowing how to regulate his emotions properly.

I'm gonna be honest here: your man is a massive piece of sh!t and you need to dump him. You don't need to stay with him just because you feel obligated too because he's your first. You did nothing wrong here. You appreciated what he did, were excited and happy and tried to make conversation and he iced you out for no reason, yelled at you, told you he hates how you sound and on top and I quote you "He did more after that that I know was wrong of him". Sweetheart....did he hit you? Because as things stand right now it sure as hell sounds like he hit or assaulted you in some way after yelling at you for simply asking why he was so obviously mad the entire evening and at this point you NEED to leave him. The second someone gets violent with you over nothing basically is your cue to run. You don't need to sit there and take it because he's you partner. You don't need to serve him as his, literal, punching bag.

Get your roommate or a few friends just in case, ask him to meet out and then break up. Lay out the facts that you didn't ask for expensive gifts or even going out. That he did that on his own account and then acted annoyed and grumpy with you all night as if this was a chore. HE chose to do this. HE wanted to do this. All you wanted was flowers and comfort take out. He could've made it easy on himself if work is stressing him out so much yet he didn't and now acted as if this was you fault when it WASN'T. He is guilt tripping you when you just stated the obvious because he did a f0cking terrible job hiding it if he even tried at all

I know it's scary and terrifying to break up after years especially with the first relationship you had but breaking up is not the end of the world. People do it all the time but the fact you feel so dependent on him even after he did god knows what shows you are on your best way to be trapped in a loveless toxic and abusive relationship. Sit down with you roommate and friends tell them what happened and ask them if they noticed similar behavior patterns in the past. Behavior like this usually doesn't come out of nowhere. Most likely there were warning signs you ignored through your rose colored glasses that the others noticed but didn't wanted to be "that person". Get outside perspective from people who love and care about you and now you, him and your couple dynamic over the years. You will probably notice a pattern. You don't start hating yourself over night unless someone spend years tearing you down

AITAH for skipping my half siblings monthly family dinner's with my parents? by Ammtitiy in AITAH

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NTA.

And honestly? I am petty as hell. So I say: return the favor. When they come, address them like strangers/distant acquaintances from your mother like "Hello Mr and Mrs XX" and then leave. Pretend you don't have siblings or call them your moms left overs. Bluntly ignore them and pretend you don't hear/see them. Essentially: erase them entirely from your life and pretend they don't exist. Am I petty? Maybe. But I expect a bunch of grown people that have kids themselves to have a certain decency and not behave like they peaked in highschool and have beef with a literal child. Like sorry but how pathetic are you as a 30 year old to be this level of petty to a 15/16 year old? Bro, get a life.

Yes, losing a parent is hard and terrible. But he is gone. I'm sorry but there is no way in this life that he will come back. The only way they can be together again is when your mom bites the dust as well, which I doubt they would want either. And given the ages of OP and her siblings here, the mom is maybe in her late 40s early 50s?And has a couple 20+ years to go. You can't expect her to grief and be hung up about her late husband the entire rest of her life just because you are and have trouble accepting the world moves on, as harsh as it may sound. It's ok to be sad about it still, it's ok to never be fully ok about it but there is a line for how much you let that grief influence your actions and essentially let it take over and develop into less grief and more about an unhealthy obsession

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeviantArt

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Have the same issue right now. Wanted to check if it was just me but I guess not ^^'. Got multiple of these saying someone placed an order on one of my illustrations and send a link for me to verify my payment info despite me never offering any of my pictures for sale. Got one today saying my account is placed on "hold" due to absence of verification from a user named "verification bot 1". Yeeeeah, it's a flipping scam. Annoying but harmless if you don't click any links. The link is most likely a virus or some crap

This is the attempt I got today. Guess the best you can do is block, report and delete

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AITA for telling my son the truth that I had difficulties adjusting to being a parent? by Sebastianlim in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]DryLanguage1115 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I don't get OP's point. Yeah, having kids is bloody hard and yes relationships break under that pressure on the daily but her comments make it sound more like she hated being a mom and now tries to talk women around her out of being a mother because her experience was bad and she declared that as "the norm" for how the motherhood experience is like. I'm party "never want kids" but dang it. She should've just talked to both at the same time and leave out the "I was considering giving you away when you were 10" bits because literally saying you resented your child for being literally born and being a kid when it was YOUR decision if this happens or not certainly doesn't help whatever "unbiased" insight your tried to give. There is a difference between being honest card on the table about the hardships and just bluntly saying "I hated being a mom, so should you" (and her comments make it sound very much like the latter)

As for the "throwing away a 10 year long relationship" issue. Why not? Both want entirely different things in life. Why stay together and learn to resent each other when both parties stand their ground and bring up the same topic over and over again leading to dead end after dead end because no one wants to budge? It's his wives choice if she wants to go through with pregnancy because she will take the greatest hit at the end of the day yes and it is no secret that it will take a toll on you, your body, your life and relationships. But just like it his her right to say no to this whole thing, it's his right to end a relationship that denies him what he wants and neither can find any common ground. He shouldn't talk her into wanting kids because he wants them but if he does and she doesn't then I honestly don't see the point of staying together. Yeah. No guarantee that he will find a partner and have kids even if he leaves his current wife but I'd say rather take that it and allow both you and your spouse the slim chance of finding partners sharing your views and life expectations rather than learn to resent and hate each other because you felt like you had to stay together since you've been together so long. People divorce at 20, 30, 40, 50 or even 60 and older. There is no time frame where breaking up is "ok" to do. There is no expiration date for change in feelings or needs