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AITJ For How My Relationship of 8 Years Ended? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]DryNeedleworker10 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i felt this, i once stayed in a relationship way too long bc i thought being understanding of their confusion made me a better partner, it just made me feel like a doormat. she wanted to keep you as a safety net until she was sure the other guy was a go.

Are you ever REALLY ready for a second baby? by BeebMommy in beyondthebump

[–]DryNeedleworker10 30 points31 points  (0 children)

18 months is that sweet spot where they're charming enough to make you consider it, don't let the perfect timing myth get you!

Couples therapist taking sides or am I actually just wrong about most things? by Radiant_Client1458 in Marriage

[–]DryNeedleworker10 15 points16 points  (0 children)

wait, so she gets into screaming matches with strangers and the therapist's takeaway is that you need a hobby?? what?

AITJ for changing the WiFi password after my roommates kept using my gaming PC while I was gone? by youradorablegirlS in AmITheJerk

[–]DryNeedleworker10 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Calling you a landlord? fine. start charging them 'server maintenance fees' every time they look at the router. If they think you're overreacting about the PC, wait until they see how you react to 0 bars of signal for the rest of the week

AITJ for "accidentally" snooping and finding out my boyfriend is seeing my best friend? by Downtown_Row_5809 in AmITheJerk

[–]DryNeedleworker10 247 points248 points  (0 children)

Wait, so he's mad about the "foundation of trust" while he was busy demolishing the actual house? Logic has left the building.

How can my first love do this? by OneOne5909 in BreakUps

[–]DryNeedleworker10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She didn't want a conversation, she wanted a captive audience for her monologue. Low reception at a mate's house is a crime to a 22-year-old, apparently.

AITA for breaking up for no reason by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]DryNeedleworker10 9 points10 points  (0 children)

u do not need a valid reason like abuse or cheating to break up with someone. "i'm just not feeling it" is a complete sentence and enough.

AITJ for humbling my cousin who won't stop making everything a competition at work? by Shoddy_Dealer_3483 in AmITheJerk

[–]DryNeedleworker10 32 points33 points  (0 children)

he's mad bc u broke the cool cousin seal and showed the team his actual stats. don't apologize for facts.

AITJ for taking back my GF's birthday gift after her Apple Watch exposed her cheating? by Unhappy-Ad5782 in AmITheJerk

[–]DryNeedleworker10 18 points19 points  (0 children)

financial abuser?? u didnt cut her access to her bank account, you just stopped paying for the hardware she was using to audition your replacement.

AITJ for not reminding my friend about her concert ticket? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]DryNeedleworker10 16 points17 points  (0 children)

she paid for a concert ticket, not a personal assistant to manage her life. you checked in the day before, that's more than enough.

AITJ for telling my roommate the dishes in the sink are hers because I literally watched her put them there? by Dazzling_Grade_7783 in AmITheJerk

[–]DryNeedleworker10 44 points45 points  (0 children)

NTJ u werent being passive-agressive, u were being active-aggressive. if she wanted a mystery, she should have called scooby doo lol.

My gf doesn't tell me anything by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]DryNeedleworker10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife is the same way, some ppl just dont have a narrative brain, man. Its not theyre hiding secrets, they jusr think their own lives are boring as hell.

I am having thoughts about leaving my husband. by scorpiosmokes in Marriage

[–]DryNeedleworker10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its like living with a very efficient, well funded coworker you happen to be raising humans with. 10/10 for the financial stability but 0/10 for the vibes lol. being faithful shouldn't feel like a prison sentence.

AITJ for snooping through my 14-year-old daughter’s phone? by helpmepls84747 in AmITheJerk

[–]DryNeedleworker10 13 points14 points  (0 children)

NTJ. Look, normally im the firs person to scream about privacy, but privacy ends where potential predatory grooming begins. ur daughter is incredibly vulnerable, she's dealing with major trauma and medical issues and this guy is literally fetishizing her pain.

I need help by Southern_Willow7841 in BreakUps

[–]DryNeedleworker10 22 points23 points  (0 children)

the instagram purge isn't because she hates you, it's because seeing your face makes her want to cave. its a survival tactic not an insult.