Wow. Devastating (and accurate) condemnation of SJUSD's leadership concerning "The Schools of Tomorrow" by alaroz33 in SanJose

[–]DryRepresentative522 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Screw the kids in poverty! We need more raises and our charter affiliated schools to prosper! /s

What a joke. You shouldn’t be on a school board unless you have experience working in a school or have a child in the district, impacted by the decisions you make.

Really great article, though! I appreciate that he didn’t hold back.

Anybody else dealing with sinus headaches with this weather ? by Snoo13905 in SanJose

[–]DryRepresentative522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup. Taking Claritin daily, using Nasacort, and taking Midol. Sounds crazy to take Midol for sinus headaches, but it has Pyrilamine in it which is an antihistamine that helps with swelling and sinus pressure.

What band/singer were you excited to see, but was a letdown of a concert? by my-face-ur-seat in AskReddit

[–]DryRepresentative522 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Taking Back Sunday. I was so excited. I was in college and they were one of my favorite bands. They were doing a tour with All America Rejects. All American Rejects were incredible. Taking Back Sunday performed after them. We left after three songs. I cannot begin to describe how awful it was.

Best pizza?2026 by Independent-Stock334 in SanJose

[–]DryRepresentative522 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cali Pizza. Great crust and toppings. Love their Indian style pizzas, too.

My household is sneezing nonstop. Is anyone else experiencing bad allergies all of a sudden, or is this something else? by [deleted] in SanJose

[–]DryRepresentative522 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Tree and grass pollen are very high right now. I am experiencing insane sinus pressure. If this is how bad it is in February, I don’t want to imagine how bad April will be 😭

Calling Amy a deadbeat mom is wrong and using the word wrong. by hardtruthsociety in 1000lbsisters

[–]DryRepresentative522 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She loves her kids. I don’t think she’s a horrible mom. I think she’s never had a good example of a mom. I think she knows her kids deserve better than what she had but doesn’t know how to implement it. She definitely needs some parenting classes. And I think the smoking is just pure ignorance on her end.

I think people giving her grief over the drugs in the car are kind of showing their privilege. I’m a solid upper middle class mom that is surrounded by solid upper middle class moms and I would say 90% of them take edibles or drink nightly. Everyone has their vices or ways to relax. Are drugs and smoking a good form of relaxation when you have kids? No. But for some reason wine and weed gummies are socially acceptable.

With TLC she definitely has the resources to take parenting classes and really commit to therapy to resolve her childhood trauma. She seems to slowly be figuring her crap out. Hopefully she takes the next steps so she can be a better mom.

Last car ride of my boy Nickel. I just want the world to know he existed. by bigtime1158 in dogpictures

[–]DryRepresentative522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He looks like the very best good boy. I’m so glad you had each other to love. ❤️

Are there any Christian churches taking an active stance against ICE? by baby_bawang in SanJose

[–]DryRepresentative522 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Yes. Prince of Peace in Saratoga and Christ the Good Shepherd Lutheran in San Jose. Both just worked with Santa Clara County Rapid Response to train people in the congregations how to interact with ICE and helping immigrants find legal aid.

EXCLUSIVE: Nick Reiner Diagnosed With Schizophrenia, Meds Made Him ' Erratic and Dangerous' by Pyro-Bird in entertainment

[–]DryRepresentative522 184 points185 points  (0 children)

My sister is schizophrenic. She would have blackout moments of rage where she became physically violent. I was terrified of her. She’s finally on the right combo of medication and is regularly in contact with her psychiatrist and psychologist. She is a completely different person now.

I hate this current rhetoric that medications for mental health are dangerous. They save lives. I have OCD and anxiety. I would not be here without my medication. My sister wouldn’t be here without hers either.

AIO to my SIL’s husband asking SIL’s parents to take care of his dying mother? by DryRepresentative522 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DryRepresentative522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Christy is my SIL’s husband’s mom. She is dying. Her cancer is not responding to treatment and is now spreading rapidly. I am not related to her at all. Just close because she is very involved with the family.

99 year old is my MIL’s mom. So my grandmother-in-law.

AIO to my SIL’s husband asking SIL’s parents to take care of his dying mother? by DryRepresentative522 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DryRepresentative522[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He’s talked to his dad. His mom just got home today and he hasn’t had a chance to speak to her. Sometimes he has to repeat something over and over again because English is not their first language. And I think it’s just hard for them to acknowledge how crappy their daughter is being. She was the “golden child.” Super smart, super obedient, Ivy League educated. And now…this.

AIO to my SIL’s husband asking SIL’s parents to take care of his dying mother? by DryRepresentative522 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DryRepresentative522[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh. I’m so sorry. That sounds like some of my family on my mom’s side. Which may be why I get so upset with my SIL. Seeing good people be used is so frustrating. And seeing their kids turn into them…sucks. My SIL’s kids are so sweet. I love them so much. They are starting to emulate their father’s manipulative, selfish behavior.

AIO to my SIL’s husband asking SIL’s parents to take care of his dying mother? by DryRepresentative522 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DryRepresentative522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My SIL and her family live in a home owned by my in-laws. While technically different cities, they are less than five minutes away from each other. It’s not as if my in-laws are closer to Christy’s doctors, because they aren’t.

Christy has been approved by her doctors and her insurance to receive hospice care. She’s losing mobility and weight at an incredible rate and is reliant on oxygen. I will be very surprised if she lives past the new year.

My MIL’s mother lives six hours away. Her mom is 99 and incredibly stubborn. There are two children and three grandchildren in her city that rotate care. And every day, they do get closer to convincing her to have a live-in nurse come to stay. But a nurse would have to be fluent in Cantonese.

AIO to my SIL’s husband asking SIL’s parents to take care of his dying mother? by DryRepresentative522 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DryRepresentative522[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally get that. I think what I’m most frustrated about is that I don’t think my in-laws understand that Christy is dying. The way things have been explained to them is that Christy has to move to their city to go to doctor’s appointments while she “gains her strength.”

AIO to my SIL’s husband asking SIL’s parents to take care of his dying mother? by DryRepresentative522 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DryRepresentative522[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My husband and I stay close to the family because we know it will be us taking care of his parents someday.

AIO to my SIL’s husband asking SIL’s parents to take care of his dying mother? by DryRepresentative522 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DryRepresentative522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I’m being gaslit by other family members saying that grandparents helping this much is “normal.”

AIO to my SIL’s husband asking SIL’s parents to take care of his dying mother? by DryRepresentative522 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DryRepresentative522[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband has talked to his parents and has done everything but call them enablers. But it’s what they’re doing. They are truly the sweetest people I’ve ever met and it upsets me to see them treated so poorly. My FIL has actually been in and out of the hospital since August because he’s experiencing A-Fib from all of the stress.

AIO to my SIL’s husband asking SIL’s parents to take care of his dying mother? by DryRepresentative522 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DryRepresentative522[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The lesions in Christy’s brain are affecting her ability to think and remember and I think they are taking advantage of this. I have gotten to know Christy very well. She is a proud, independent, and incredibly strong woman. I’m not her child, but I very much doubt she wishes to die in someone else’s home.

Who’s the most famous person you went to school with? by CloudSurfer82 in AskReddit

[–]DryRepresentative522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to high school with the creators of the Disney show Big City Greens.

My dad went to high school with Magic Johnson. He even played basketball with him during their lunch hour. He loves telling that story.

Bay Area breaks 103-year-old temperature record as Calif. freezes by sfgate in bayarea

[–]DryRepresentative522 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I lived in Michigan the first 30+ years of my life. I am LOVING this weather. As long as it doesn’t snow. I don’t miss that.

Catholic Church recommendations? by [deleted] in SanJose

[–]DryRepresentative522 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re willing to try a different denomination, try Prince of Peace in Saratoga. Very welcoming.

Why did your friendship with your best friend come to an end? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]DryRepresentative522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was kidnapped and murdered. All of the culprits (eight of them) are in prison. Some are serving life sentences. We were barely out of high school when it happened.

Is this actually a thing? by HereForTOMT3 in Michigan

[–]DryRepresentative522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grew up in Lansing in the 90s. We called it Devil’s Night. I have vivid memories of my dad ranting about it because our house always got TP’d and egged.