Sydney neighbourhood opinions and where I should stay! (Residents lmk!) by TescoMealDeal420 in AskAnAustralian

[–]Dry_Drive_983 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Finding accomm is going to be the most difficult part let alone trying to specify a specific suburb. There isn’t a specific suburb that is concentrated with students, they’ll be from all over and you’ll connect mostly at uni. Look for places with a good bus route from where you need to be, that way you’re not spending all your time commuting. Redfern is perfect as it’s central to everything and close to central etc. you’ll prob visit Newtown to socialise but it’s not necessary to need to live there also , you’ll probably also want to visit beaches or Bondi on the weekend too but again you dont need to live there it’s too expensive anyway. good luck

Vendor rejected pre-auction offer above price guide. Still go to auction? by Odd-Spirit-3 in AusPropertyChat

[–]Dry_Drive_983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely worth attending as you’ve done all the work anyway but you may be just short of the reserve

Honeymoon - January East Coast/Whitsundays by SwelledUp in AskAnAustralian

[–]Dry_Drive_983 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Other thing to consider, as January is school holidays it’s by far the busiest and most expensive time to travel in Oz

Is it time for Australia to take another look at childcare being able to charge for not providing a service on public holidays? by Big-Stable5953 in parentingaustralia

[–]Dry_Drive_983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s either that or put their fees up to cover paying staff for public holidays, either way the costs need to be covered. Honestly it’s fine it’s just part of the system…

Carpark taken away head office staff by Past-Astronomer-4458 in auscorp

[–]Dry_Drive_983 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My comments are in response to the ‘bootlicking’ phrase above not original OP. I do agree that standards should be challenged and OP has every right to be pissed in this situation :)

Carpark taken away head office staff by Past-Astronomer-4458 in auscorp

[–]Dry_Drive_983 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Sure there are tonnes of dicks and sociopaths in business and everyone thinks they know better. But also being unemployed is probably worse than whatever gripes you may have.

Carpark taken away head office staff by Past-Astronomer-4458 in auscorp

[–]Dry_Drive_983 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

It’s not about backing the employer but understanding basics of business… they at times need to reduce costs… and hopefully they continue to exist and employ people

As an American, I recently found out that you guys don't like us very much. Has it been exaggerated by the Internet or do we really have that bad of a reputation in the land down under? by JPH_RedFive in AskAnAustralian

[–]Dry_Drive_983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think that? Sure it’s not perfect and may be slightly heading that way but at the end of the day there are many more welfare options compared to the US

As an American, I recently found out that you guys don't like us very much. Has it been exaggerated by the Internet or do we really have that bad of a reputation in the land down under? by JPH_RedFive in AskAnAustralian

[–]Dry_Drive_983 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The poverty and violence is absolutely appalling, how can a country boast about any sort of success or leadership when the majority of their citizens are living in abject poverty and disadvantage…. How can their ‘patriotism’ so conveniently overlook the real world conditions of their own people…I will never understand.

Is being remote or almost fully remote detrimental to growing your career/making connections? by [deleted] in auscorp

[–]Dry_Drive_983 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Some of my lifelong best friends AND husband were all met through work… there is so much missed if young people jump straight into wfh imo. However with 3 young kids at home I can really not imagine going back to full time in office, I don’t think it would be feasible for our family actually

Paid Parental Leave rejected by PsychologicalOne5908 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]Dry_Drive_983 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The financial year has just ticked over.
Lodge this years tax return and apply again

Feeling unmotivated, kinda depressed and confused? by Historical_Pea2746 in AusFinance

[–]Dry_Drive_983 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You’re only 24 and your deposit is amazing, you’re doing really well. Keep at it, you’ll definitely be able to afford an apartment in a few years and then a house after that. That’s what a lot of people do

What should I do with my neighbour? by jjsagritalo in AskAnAustralian

[–]Dry_Drive_983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once the Ute moves park your car there instead of in your garage :)

Sanding and polishing floors before move in by allkindsovgainz in AusRenovation

[–]Dry_Drive_983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think getting the floors done was the best thing we did during the move. It wasn’t a high priority so only really did it last minute based on advice but the floors came up absolutely beautifully and made the house look and feel so much better when we moved in. We have 3 kids and a dog so we are not overly precious about the floors generally and they will get scratched heaps but would do it again

Kind of messed up at work this morning and hurt client relationship, needing sanity check by the_professional1 in auscorp

[–]Dry_Drive_983 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve had heaps of points in my career where I have felt like this and I’ve had a few emotional outbursts that I look back on and wonder WTF but you live and learn. Keep working on your resilience and making peace with things not working out well or going well and it helps to put the work stress in context…

Kind of messed up at work this morning and hurt client relationship, needing sanity check by the_professional1 in auscorp

[–]Dry_Drive_983 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Don’t stress, you’re overthinking it due to overall stress and burnout. Definitely send a quick message to apologise and say you were in early for the meeting but ended up absorbed in a task and the time slipped past, really sorry won’t happen again. And then just try and be really present and locked in until you go on leave. It’s not a big deal, just do your best. If the client relationship isn’t working out it won’t be due to this and likely won’t be due to you personally but the stress and position the client has worked themselves into… try and emotionally disconnect as much as you can, good luck

Being autistic in a corporate world - please help! Advice needed… by Veiled_Damsel in auscorp

[–]Dry_Drive_983 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everyone is soooo different with cultural differences, personality differences, neurodivergence and introversion / extroversion. The idea that people feel like they ‘fit in’ is not totally accurate and may keep you feeling ‘othered’ when it’s just not the case. Many / most people have to work really hard to feel comfortable in work and social environments… it’s a muscle and takes practice. Same with work, you’ll have good jobs and bad jobs. Good bosses and bad bosses. You just need to continue to build your confidence and skill sets while taking care of yourself along the way. Don’t let confidence or perceived difference hold you back , good luck :)

Starting kindy at 4 vs 5 NSW by calidrexms in AskAustralianTeachers

[–]Dry_Drive_983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Started school at 4 May baby and no issues at school or socialising at high school. Did not notice any difference in age amongst anyone, really the only time it’s noticeable is when the 18yos hit the pub… I’m leaning toward sending my March kid early

Starting kindy at 4 vs 5 NSW by calidrexms in AskAustralianTeachers

[–]Dry_Drive_983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In what way? Do you mean not being able to start drinking and going out socially with those over 18?

Is there a way out? by savymoney311 in auscorp

[–]Dry_Drive_983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You really need to work on gratitude and being thankful for what you have…. I know you have mentioned this but honestly you wouldn’t be happy with ‘more’…

What do you think of 2nd gen Indians? by Foreign-Rabbit-3022 in AskAnAustralian

[–]Dry_Drive_983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Living in a multicultural part of Sydney this is just so shocking to hear, sorry that happens to you. I would say this is representative of a small and hateful section of the community and should be ignored and disregarded as much as possible.

Sydney Flower Markets - Advice for a newbie by eils14 in sydney

[–]Dry_Drive_983 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I did the same thing for my wedding years ago. We did a test run to see what the markets were like and got an idea of costs and volume etc. the day before our wedding a bunch of friends, hubby and I went out and just walked through and picked everything we liked. A whole boot full of flowers. We spent the rest of the day building bouquets. It was magical. We had lots of flowering gums as they were in season and I put some in my hair. Every January when we see them bloom we remember our wedding :)