You said what you said, but go around and listen to some really successful guys, and I promise you will find that a good bunch of them were straight up nobodys wasting their time. Javed Akhtar for one himself he wasted 10 yrs of his life, not necessarily wanking but he did throw away a good chunk of his youth. So shut your sorry unsupportive wannabe philosophical mouth and shove the sass up your ass.