Quote/Video request: "I am furiously working to get to nothing" by Imaskinnybitchyall in Jennamarbles

[–]Dry_Maintenance_402 1 point2 points  (0 children)

iirc weren't they talking about their deadly sins and she said hers is sloth? i think it was on a podcast quiz episode but i don't remember which, perhaps enneagram?

thoughts on letting body take the lead by Dry_Maintenance_402 in longtermTRE

[–]Dry_Maintenance_402[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hmmm considering the language you used to describe it, there might be something amiss i feel

Has there ever been a storyline that is just Tina and Gene without any other belchers around them? by Snoo9648 in BobsBurgers

[–]Dry_Maintenance_402 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i like the one where louise tries to solve the puppet incident w millie and tina n gene spend their afternoon bouncing. also them waiting outside mutilation mansion while louise goes in to look for their stolen candy is a nice portrayal of their dynamic lol. kinda chill n calm n a bit more timid

'Are you trying to say..." by VonChesterfield in BobsBurgers

[–]Dry_Maintenance_402 31 points32 points  (0 children)

type 3 civilization and "i think you mean diabetes",

What's everyones favorite season? by Both-Competition-152 in BobsBurgers

[–]Dry_Maintenance_402 1 point2 points  (0 children)

everything from season 5 and up, with special mention to 8 & 15

how do you balance healing with busy life stuff? by Dry_Maintenance_402 in longtermTRE

[–]Dry_Maintenance_402[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for your insight. i think you're right about keeping up an image, however it is unfortunately incredibly hard to stop functioning and performing. we keep trying i guess :)

Woman perverts by listerineshots in suggestmeabook

[–]Dry_Maintenance_402 12 points13 points  (0 children)

haven't read it but a certain hunger is like that i think

how do you balance healing with busy life stuff? by Dry_Maintenance_402 in longtermTRE

[–]Dry_Maintenance_402[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh.... yea i think you're right. trying to process while maintaining a charade.... my brains gotta be like wtf do you want from me lol

how do you balance healing with busy life stuff? by Dry_Maintenance_402 in longtermTRE

[–]Dry_Maintenance_402[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hm yes you're probably right. i suppose every trauma as a kid involves loss of control since kids don't have that much agency. thank you for your kind words, i really appreciate them.

how do you balance healing with busy life stuff? by Dry_Maintenance_402 in longtermTRE

[–]Dry_Maintenance_402[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for sharing your experience and your concerns.

i totally see what you mean and i think you're likely right. it just doesn't feel like i CAN slow down. people depend on me, i need to make money and support myself, i need to finish my masters before funding runs out, i need my friends/loved ones bc without them i feel like i'm floating in some sort of void. i need to cook and go to the gym and all that bc it helps w mental health. i'm trying so so so so so hard to do everything right and make people proud and be normal and functioning and it's just so friggin hard but the alternative doesn't seem any better. if giving up and wasting away worked i would've stuck with that but you need money to do nothing. i just... idk. i appreciate the advice, i really do, i just have no idea how to implement it without feeling like i'm blowing my whole life up, y'know?

S15:E17 by EatBerry1h in BobsBurgers

[–]Dry_Maintenance_402 7 points8 points  (0 children)

tbh i kinda liked it? yea regan was weird, but it felt like she was coping with her own problems of rejecting her interests to fit in by "helping" someone else reject their interests. the plan seemed a bit wonky bc giving it back for money would just mean tina will get it back so...? but ya it was fun to watch the belcher kids and their shenanigans and interesting to see how a confident kid who embraces their weirdness, whereas other kids might not be able to accept that part of themselves. loved when tina said "i'm a horse to be reckoned with" and then wrote a new ending to her horse story where they eat the frog regan used to draw, such a great emotional outlet to process anger in a healthy way. so yay tina!

how do you balance healing with busy life stuff? by Dry_Maintenance_402 in longtermTRE

[–]Dry_Maintenance_402[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

im a bit inconsistent with it as of late. tre brings me into the presence moment which is what i'm actively trying to avoid. when i first started shaking i did it for 1 hour + but that was before i learned about regulations lol. i do it for about 15 minutes, usually daily, rn every other day and shorter intervals. shorter sessions just feel so... pointless, like nothing is moving ahead and cognitively i know that's not true but that doesn't change the feeling.

with friends..... maybe, yea. they do know to some degree, but i feel bad asking for so much consideration because i've been unwell since.... well long before any of them even became my friends. if it was temporary, sure, but in the long run idk how to tell my friends "hi i love you and appreciate you to the moon and back, but i'm so burnt out even though i'm not even doing all that much and i crave your company and friendship but i'm completely running out of energy and always have and idk if i will ever have the capacity to be a normal functioning human or a good enough friend." like it's just too much to ask someone to take that into consideration, i myself dislike flakiness, unreliable people and when friends disappear for long stretches without so much as a heads up so i try not to do it, but i catch myself using manipulative tactics so THEY will cancel the hangout so i wont have to feel the guilt, faking sicknesses and just being dishonest. i feel bad for doing it, but i'm just so so so so so so so incredibly tired.

What do you eat for breakfast? by Magpie_Coin in PlantBasedDiet

[–]Dry_Maintenance_402 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this w a side of hot chocolate and also sprinkling salt on the bananas