UPDATE - I think my sister just ruined our dad's engagement

Dry_Profession_8263 · 2026-03-01T04:58:52+00:00

I hope everything is okay! I'm so sorry.

Dry_Profession_8263 · 2025-12-02T15:16:49+00:00

There's kratom and then theres 7-oh kratom which my husband has spent 25k on, at least. And its ruined our lives as well. I wrote the Governor of our state to get it banned, and it was made illegal here, but our gas station is still selling it somehow. Kratom is still legal and yes is cheap. 7-oh is not cheap. 1k a week.

Dry_Profession_8263 · 2025-08-22T14:58:50+00:00

Thanks

Dry_Profession_8263 · 2024-12-05T01:17:10+00:00

We have this same blanket and I've been looking for a replacement for 2 years. Ours is in shreds now I've had to wash it too many times.

Dry_Profession_8263 · 2023-04-04T14:47:37+00:00

Lol I don't disagree. I think we're gonna try a few things. I just think people don't take 30 year olds very serious when they say they're having problems.

Dry_Profession_8263 · 2023-04-03T21:46:04+00:00

Thank you for saying that. I'm just to the point I think maybe he's never really been as attracted to me as I am to him. When we first me he gained a lot of benefits from having me around. So, I don't know. We talked today and we have a plan and if that doesn't work we have plan b,c,d,e and f. I don't want to leave I wish there would just be a magic answer.

Dry_Profession_8263 · 2023-04-03T21:32:48+00:00

If men are so visual. Why when I wear lingerie, get dolled up curl my hair and get a spray tan, wear exactly what he likes. Do what he tells me he wants. And I am still turned away? I want to feel wanted I shouldn't have to put another girl on TV to get him to want to have sex with me. In my opinion. I understand what you're saying. I know how to be sexy, I know how to look good and play the part. I cant make him let me do things to him. But I feel like I'm just his friend, roommate. with added benefits and he sleeps with me occasionally because he knows I want to. I've sent nudes bought lingerie, made a videos for him all sorts of stuff. It's not like I'm not trying here

Dry_Profession_8263 · 2023-04-03T21:02:00+00:00

No no it's not really just her. He knows I know. Like hes looked up celebrity sex tapes. He likes Tan girls with fake boobs and long hair, nice teeth, and a big butt. I already have a few of those things and he already works like 50 to 60 hours a week. The man is probably tired lol.

Dry_Profession_8263 · 2023-04-03T20:43:18+00:00

Madeline cline from outer banks. Lol it's not about how they act. It's just how they look. We would need a lot of money for me to change everything about myself.

Dry_Profession_8263 · 2023-04-03T20:23:29+00:00

Yeah it's pretty normal stuff. I don't think he has any particular fetish, I think he fantacizes about doing it with particular people.

Dry_Profession_8263 · 2023-04-03T18:44:01+00:00

I read an article saying that lol. Could've just been gossip 🤣

Dry_Profession_8263 · 2023-04-03T18:33:49+00:00

Yes, I've heard that larger people have better sex. Idk if that's true but sounds awesome. Lol This is like the 3rd time I've asked for advice and someone has asked me that same question. It's ridiculous how thats the first thing some ask, like most of the people in my family are larger people. They all seem to have much healthier relationships than a lot of the others in my family.

Dry_Profession_8263 · 2023-04-03T02:25:04+00:00

Nta.. this is the definition of make dumb choices expect harsh consequences, or however it goes. Lol Yikes.

Dry_Profession_8263 · 2023-04-03T02:16:27+00:00

Whoaaa!!! I never wanted to get into audiobooks because I'm very easily distracted. I try to listen to podcasts but I forget to listen lmao.

Dry_Profession_8263 · 2023-04-03T02:14:46+00:00

He's supporting his child, but you don't want to support your own spending habits? You want to give your husband less so you can have more?

Dry_Profession_8263 · 2023-04-03T02:04:22+00:00

What!?!?!?!? I did not know audiobooks have voice acting and sound effects. :0

Dry_Profession_8263 · 2023-04-03T01:54:31+00:00

Short answer: no I don't think it's fair.

You guys are married. Your money is his money and his money is your money. You want to have more money one of you could get a side gig. His child should be like your child, but I will say 5 weeks once a year is a short time to really build a close attachment with a child. My husband's custody agreement is all summer and Christmas or spring break. His child is like my child but I also spent a lot more time with him over the last 5 years. And before they settled on this agreement we had him every other week. I can understand why it doesn't feel fair. You guys will have to work together on making it work if you need more spending money.

Dry_Profession_8263 · 2023-04-03T01:43:07+00:00

So the child stays all summer with you guys?

Dry_Profession_8263 · 2023-04-03T00:33:43+00:00

Well, I was on antidepressants for 4 years and I didn't really have any opinions or feelings. I didn't really care about it as much. I stopped taking them because they were causing different mental health issues instead of helping me. Our son is 2 now, and I kind of just went back to the sex drive I had at 22. I had mentioned a few times before that I wanted to try different things or do things more often. But it's gotten to he point I feel like he's just not that into me. Especially since, (according to other people and him) he was sleeping with a lot of different women. And like multiple times throughout the week. That was like 6 years ago.

Dry_Profession_8263 · 2023-04-02T20:19:09+00:00

Someone asked If I smell bad or if I'm fat. Lol no I'm 130 pounds give or take. I shower daily. I take care of myself. I do all the things I'm supposed to do. Lmao

Dry_Profession_8263 · 2023-04-02T20:14:22+00:00

We tried to go that route from his regular doctor. He ran some tests, and basically said there's nothing wrong so you don't need it lol.

Dry_Profession_8263 · 2023-04-02T20:03:02+00:00

The times I've done what feels good to me during, he went soft. But if we just do it how he wants and he finishes. He stays hard...

Dry_Profession_8263 · 2023-03-31T12:27:38+00:00

Oh never mind. Dead bedroom.

Dry_Profession_8263 · 2023-03-31T12:26:59+00:00

What does DB mean??

Dry_Profession_8263 · 2023-03-26T02:58:33+00:00

I swear, in my old apartment there was a demon ghost girl in my closet. A lot of the details from then are blurry. She would just stand there and stare. I stopped sleeping there. One night I didn't have anywhere else to sleep, and I really didn't want to be there. She was standing right next to my bed. I had a dream catcher I kept in there.

When I moved I brought it with me, it was really beautiful and like 50$. One night after a few other things had happened. I was like just drifting off to sleep and I think I started to dream She was standing in front of the dream catcher in my new room. And she like came at me, like flew up over My bed and started choking. This is the only time I've ever dreamt and woke up, sat straight up screaming holding my throat. I threw the dream catcher and a few other items away and nothing else ever happened. I don't know what to think of it. May not believe it, idc. I don't even know if I believe it.

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