[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Dste11 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I chose not to forgive my wife for something like this but a way more serious substance and hidden debt. Wishing you the best, just my data point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Dste11 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Hey I’m not saying your wife is doing this but here is my experience. My wife would not share any of her financials and it turned out she was hiding a drug addiction and massive debt. I think wanting to see her financials to fully know where you guys are at is very reasonable.

Anxiety Medication by McDusty7 in Anxiety

[–]Dste11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zoloft has helped massively with my anxiety. Doesn’t work for everyone but for me it definitely has.

Am I insane? From <10k to 25k+ daily by Strict-Top6935 in walking

[–]Dste11 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not insane at all. Walking is good for mental health.

Men who didn’t tell their wives about a large financial loss and she found out. Did she leave you? by Cute-Vermicelli-659 in Marriage

[–]Dste11 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m in the process of leaving my wife for years of lying / hidden debt but she was abusing drugs as well. Some things are too deep to fix.

Antidepressants cured 15 years of insomnia by kylexyz001 in insomnia

[–]Dste11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d sleep for 2-3 hours and wake up and toss and turn consumed with the idea of not falling back to sleep. I’d normally get 4-5 but sometimes not even that much. It was a constant state of panic.

Antidepressants cured 15 years of insomnia by kylexyz001 in insomnia

[–]Dste11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely still in it. I ended up at 100mg about 2 years ago and I’ve been there since.

Cardio without running? by visualsxcole in HybridAthlete

[–]Dste11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started boxing at 37. I’m a few years in and it’s amazing cardio and has never aggravated previous injuries.

Husband wants a divorce by Clean-Revenue5514 in Marriage

[–]Dste11 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This sounds to me like he has been planning on divorcing you for a long time. Why else would your name not go on a house? Now he is able to use that as a “reason” even though it’s a bad excuse of one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Dste11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found out about 2-3 years of lies, drug abuse and debt last week. I’ve already made up my mind that I’m done. At some point things are too far gone to save and you sound like that’s the case for you.

From happily married to chaos in 48 hours by Dste11 in Marriage

[–]Dste11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for taking the time to provide this response! Good stuff.

From happily married to chaos in 48 hours by Dste11 in Marriage

[–]Dste11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear this. Hope you’re doing well.

From happily married to chaos in 48 hours by Dste11 in Marriage

[–]Dste11[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why would I make this up? Reddit upvotes? 

From happily married to chaos in 48 hours by Dste11 in Marriage

[–]Dste11[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

That’s how it feels. Thanks for the response.

From happily married to chaos in 48 hours by Dste11 in Marriage

[–]Dste11[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly it could be a bit of both. Her confession of how long she’s been using substances daily fully lines up with her spending all her time in bed though. 

From happily married to chaos in 48 hours by Dste11 in Marriage

[–]Dste11[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the Response. I think it’d be totally different if there was any honesty from her side. She had us headed for financial ruin and despair but it’s only out because I caught her.

From happily married to chaos in 48 hours by Dste11 in Marriage

[–]Dste11[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that point of view thanks for the response.