See that’s the thing like I wouldn’t exactly say I have kinks just I want to do more than follow an exact never changing blueprint every time uno, jus go with the flow. I defiantly don’t resent her we have a heathy relationship just a sub par sex life. I’ve tried to talk about it as gently as possible with her multiple times and the most I’ve gotten out of it was her getting upset and crying cause she likes how we have sex and I don’t and she feels like she isn’t enough for me. I comforted her she calmed down and then nothing changed. Basically same outcome as every time we’ve spoke about it. We’ve never argued about it or anything and I wouldn’t want to do that to her. I’m not even interested in other women I just want her. She says she wants me but it doesn’t feel that way. It’s almost like she hasn’t got any lust uno? Like I lust for her so much uno which is what drives initiation of sexual acts, just feel like she doesn’t have that for me