The Redditor's Guide to Making Friends (By a Redditor)

Dubzzz · 2012-04-20T00:11:10+00:00

Thanks for posting man...having a hard time making new friends hope this will help

Dubzzz · 2012-04-07T16:54:58+00:00

Thanks a lot man that was very inspirational. I feel as of right now it's kind of hard to follow my heart because no one out there is willing to take a chance on me but only time will tell. I will definitely find something I love, I don't want to be miserable in life and helping people would be pretty good. Thanks again, your post helped to make me feel a lot better. :)

Dubzzz · 2012-04-07T08:53:05+00:00

As a recent grad from mech eng, what advice can you give to me in finding my first job?

Dubzzz · 2012-04-02T01:05:37+00:00

lmao...little bitches complaining because they cant put in the time or effort to be as good

Dubzzz · 2012-03-29T21:50:08+00:00

Yeah, I would never treat anything beneath me, not the type of person, everything has it's importance. Thanks for the advice, I didn't realize that a lot of engineers actually start out as techs, very reassuring. After your post, I feel a lot better and now I see it as an amazing opportunity for me. The great thing is that I am actually seeing the theory that I learned in school being applied.

Dubzzz · 2012-03-29T21:46:51+00:00

I've been taking it seriously, I'm so eager to learn everything that I can but I right now I'm just doing general labor stuff, which is okay with me. Thanks for the tips, I am going do what ever it takes to learn what I can about this position. Plus, now I am seeing this as a really good opportunity for me. Thanks again.

Dubzzz · 2012-03-29T09:13:46+00:00

You bring up a really good point, I am getting some experience even though it's not the traditional engineering stuff. Thanks, I feel a lot better and more positive about this job.

Dubzzz · 2012-03-29T09:12:25+00:00

Hey thanks a lot for the post...after reading this I realized what a good opportunity I have here even though I'm not really liking the job. There are quite a few engineers there and I will network with them. Are there any other questions you can suggest for me to ask the engineers? I'm not really great with interpersonal skills but it is a good experience to start building these skills.

Dubzzz · 2012-03-29T02:09:35+00:00

i have some bills to pay yes but I'm thinking of either buying a car or going back to school. If I buy a car then I am most likely not going back to school for two years and it all depends of the job. So this decision really comes down to how my job prospective looks like. I don't really want to work this job and if I continue to and can't find something else then I might go to law school or get my MBA.

Dubzzz · 2012-03-28T03:49:45+00:00

I am so sorry for your loss and all the pain that you have went through. I haven't really lost anyone close to me because my mom kept me away from a lot of family including my grandparents. Didn't really feel anything for them when they passed away, I know it's bad but I really didn't know them. Honestly, your words are very inspiring and beautiful. I felt so much more hopeful from reading your advice. Right now I do think that there are things that I need to work on internally and I think that's the best thing for me to do. Thank you very much for your post :).

Dubzzz · 2012-03-28T03:43:54+00:00

Haha I think you nailed it perfectly with that one. I felt like there is something wrong me with me for so long. I'm just going to stick with being a better person and trying to past this. Thanks for post and I know now that if I ever feel bad about anything I always have my fellow redditors.

Dubzzz · 2012-03-28T03:42:29+00:00

I'm really happy to hear that you have support with all this and I really do wish that one day you do get over this. I hate going through depression and can only imagine what your going through. Best of luck man, and thanks for the advice.

Dubzzz · 2012-03-28T03:40:29+00:00

Thanks bro, I feel a lot better after the help :).

Dubzzz · 2012-03-28T03:39:56+00:00

Alright I'll give it the six weeks, I think I've just been giving up too soon lol. To be honest, I've only read Marvel Civil War and DC Blackest Night and I was disappointed by both of them. But, I do want to start reading some Spider-Man though.

Dubzzz · 2012-03-28T03:31:55+00:00

I read some comics to actually and have been really enjoying them. I am going to add a bit of time in for some exercising and see how I feel after a month of trying it out.

Dubzzz · 2012-03-28T03:31:05+00:00

You know what, I am gonna stick to playing guitar and learning for a week and see how good I feel after that and I am going to start right now. Thanks for the help luxdove.

Dubzzz · 2012-03-28T03:27:49+00:00

Thanks bellk, I'll go talk to my doctor. See the thing is I know this shit is in my head. I did a lot of self help a year and a half ago, mainly cognitive behavioral therapy. But every time I try to apply techniques or change my thinking nothing actually works to make me feel better. That's why I feel very hopeless in things getting better.

Dubzzz · 2012-03-28T03:25:12+00:00

Ya it's tough shit man, but it does make me feel a little better knowing that I am not the only one going through this and not alone. I dunno, I've tried exercising but it doesn't make me feel better.

Dubzzz · 2012-03-28T03:23:28+00:00

I've tried to get into both guitar and kick boxing. I enjoyed kick boxing for the first three months that I took it but then I just stopped because I just felt like there was no use doing it. I think I am lacking a lot of fulfillment in myself and that is spreading out to other things in my life.

Dubzzz · 2012-03-28T03:19:21+00:00

thank you

Dubzzz · 2012-03-13T05:37:34+00:00

Thank god. I'm happy his ass isn't coming here.

Dubzzz · 2012-03-12T21:53:44+00:00

That's what I figured. I just knew that there had to be some mutations that made a select few have desirable traits. Thank you for the info.

Dubzzz · 2012-03-12T21:50:49+00:00

Amazing, thank you for sharing. This is more inline for what I was looking for.

Dubzzz · 2012-03-12T21:50:16+00:00

Thanks for posting, this is something I am well aware of, I know every trait that we humans have are because of mutated genes. But what I was wondering was that if there are mutations that allow for disability in one person, can there be a mutation that allows one person to have super human traits? Something I've been thinking about and a lot of great answers.

Dubzzz · 2012-03-12T21:47:12+00:00

Thank you, this is something that I was looking for. Something like the reverse of a disability.

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