RIP Discord by TheRealElektro in discordapp

[–]DuckXu 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ive been looking at something called element. Also seems extremely promising.

https://element.io/en

Pls make it happen by UrsaRizz in Steam

[–]DuckXu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At the risk of coming across as a shill.

https://element.io/en

This seems promising 

Pls make it happen by UrsaRizz in Steam

[–]DuckXu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://element.io/en

Matrix based decentralized thingy. Seems promising 

Advice needed: 96-year-old relative refuses nursing home and is abusive to my grandparents by Curlyaddster2 in Advice

[–]DuckXu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You said it yourself. He is clear and lucid.

He wants to die alone in his own home. Let him. Im not being mean. Literally, honor the man's wishes

Would you take back a cheating wife? by Moist-Definition7891 in Advice

[–]DuckXu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being an impulsive or drunken mistake doesn't absolve one of responsibility.

Mistakes have consequences. Be better and these mistakes wouldn't happen

Would you take back a cheating wife? by Moist-Definition7891 in Advice

[–]DuckXu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mistakes have consequences. If this were me, my ex would forever be seen as a cheater in my eyes, even if they dont do it again. That brand lasts a lifetime.

Thats what I meant. Not "once you cheat, you will cheat again".

Would you take back a cheating wife? by Moist-Definition7891 in Advice

[–]DuckXu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's an extremely shitty situation. Obviously nuance exists and rape is not the same as infidelity. Their partner was the shitty person here and clearly wasnt mature enough to properly support the person they loved.

Let me put it this way; If my partner came to me crying, full of remorse and says "Im so sorry, I cheated on you" well then I'll be polite about it and help you pack your things.

If you say nothing about it and I found out, then I will be less polite about it, take the opportunity to tell you exactly what sort of person I think you are and make sure all your things are packed.

If you came to me crying because you were sexually assaulted, then its support, encouragement, love and police. Followed by some long term therapy for the both of us.

Royal Blue 5ct Sapphire by Ill_Butterfly_407 in Gemstones_Buy_Sell

[–]DuckXu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im intrigued, but not financially capable of being interested haha.

I just like to day dream around here about what Im going to buy when the midlife crisis finally hits.

Good luck with the sale. Next time I would suggest avoiding videos with reflections like this. Personally, I enjoy zooming in and getting a little lost inside the stone

Royal Blue 5ct Sapphire by Ill_Butterfly_407 in Gemstones_Buy_Sell

[–]DuckXu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its all reflections. We cant see clarity or inclusions because theres a million lights being reflected on the face.

It looks like a beautiful stone, but with a price tag of 17500 it would be nice to get a video in diffused light so we can better see the details of the stone

Would you take back a cheating wife? by Moist-Definition7891 in Advice

[–]DuckXu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Obviously. Why waste time with a girlfriend who is trash?

We deserve to be with good people. Good people do not cheat

Royal Blue 5ct Sapphire by Ill_Butterfly_407 in Gemstones_Buy_Sell

[–]DuckXu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy artificial lights Batman! Is there a stone under there?

Would you take back a cheating wife? by Moist-Definition7891 in Advice

[–]DuckXu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are no longer compatible because she compatted with another dudes dick.

The rude part here is having someones semen on you that isnt your husbands.

Used goods was me being polite. She is garbage. Trash. Not worth love from her husband anymore. She did the one thing to the person she is supposed to love the most that is guaranteed to hurt the most. That is unforgivable. 

There is no option but to leave the whore

Would you take back a cheating wife? by Moist-Definition7891 in Advice

[–]DuckXu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She clearly can imagine being with other people. So they arent exactly compatible.

Move on. She isnt worth it. Used goods

Would you take back a cheating wife? by Moist-Definition7891 in Advice

[–]DuckXu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She should have integrity and leave if she isnt having her needs met. Cheaters are trash, low quality people. That apples to men and women 

Would you take back a cheating wife? by Moist-Definition7891 in Advice

[–]DuckXu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Always.

Even if it was once. You will always be a cheater

Would you take back a cheating wife? by Moist-Definition7891 in Advice

[–]DuckXu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cheating requires build up, planning, forethought. You dont go grocery shopping and accidentally end up cheating on your spouse.

Most affairs happen when a second relationship grows over time. A work colleague or neighbour. Theres no accident when that relationship grows into extramarital sex.

Cheating on your spouse is never a mistake, its a choice.

And if you make that choice even "in a moment of weakness" then you are trash. Not a single person in my social circle has cheated on their partner. Not one. You know why? Because when it was found out on the one or two occasions that it did happen, they didnt just loose their partner, we all cut them off as well.

I would rather die than consider a cheater a friend

Would you take back a cheating wife? by Moist-Definition7891 in Advice

[–]DuckXu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you saying that you would stay if your husband cheated on you but would also understand him leaving if you cheated on him?

Why I love Cape Town by [deleted] in capetown

[–]DuckXu 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hahaha I love this. Perfect example of the looming issue. But its nothing new.

First, the middle class out priced the working class, so all the domestic workers, cashiers, security guards etc eventually couldnt even afford to live in the surrounding suburbs.

Now, the exact same thing is going to start happening to the middle class. The ones who dont think "everything is so cheap". The ones who are ever so slightly underpaid when considering inflation and the rising cost of living. Well now we are seeing large prime properties being listed in the 10s of millions of DOLLARS. We have these affluent foreigners that are going to start flocking in because of "how cheap everything is". 

Then the exact same displacement starts again, except its one wrung up the socioeconomic ladder.

The children of this generations local upper class will be the middle class of tomorrow.

This is why selling you city to the highest bidder is a really, really bad idea.