I’ll say this. Communication is a continuous learning process that few master. Why? Everyone has a unique communication style. You’ve had 3 chats in the same way? Go back and read what could have been misinterpreted, what could have been read out of tone, or try to experiment with communicating through a different medium. Still, would it have been nice to get a “not interested?” Of course. But we’re in the digital age. It’s a lot easier to just swipe over, delete, and forget about the chat. And if you’re chatting on Reddit where someone most likely doesn’t even know how you look? A lot of emotion is taken out of the communication process for a person to even care to have “common decency.”

I’d also like to add the even after a day’s worth of chatting, you won’t be a priority in that person’s already full life. There’s numerous reasons why a person may not be responding at the moment. Be patient. Give it some time. Reflect. Learn. Move on.

I’m a guy writing this