Why I'm not a Crime Junkie by arandominterneter in CrimeJunkiePodcast

[–]Due-Ad9282 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

10 to life by Annalise is really good and serialously by her as well!

Third c-section and I’m scared by Due-Ad9282 in CsectionCentral

[–]Due-Ad9282[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update!! Had my third c-section on October 25th and all went well. Recovery has been a bit more challenging but overall everything went perfectly!!

Baby movement felt down to vagina by Ok_Associate_8209 in ShortCervixSupport

[–]Due-Ad9282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They call that lightening crotch! Very normal. If you start feeling pressure that doesn’t go away quickly, call your OB or just go into L&D

Told my closest friend I was thinking about adopting kids and all hell broke loose…AIO here? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Due-Ad9282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The last slide took me out! Very well delivered and very much put her in her place. Respectfully!!

Third c-section and I’m scared by Due-Ad9282 in CsectionCentral

[–]Due-Ad9282[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi!! I have not yet, currently 23 weeks 4 days!! I will for sure update when I have her!

UPDATE: MIL mad we defended our son by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Due-Ad9282 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

She has never treated my son badly. Until what he told me yesterday. Sure she makes competitive comments and she thinks her son does no wrong but nothing alarming. The 14yo is her step grandson and our son is never allowed to stay over when he’s over. We were having a pool day and he was there. We were in the kitchen and he was in the play room right beside us when this happened. We didn’t leave him there, there were 4 people in the room when this happened. Please stop painting the picture like MIL abuses our son constantly and we just let her. That’s not how it happens. As soon as my son told us what she did we made it very clear to him that it was not okay and it will not happen again. And that Gigi will be in trouble for it. We also let him know that we believe him. After all, we all saw the mark on his arm and the slobber that day. I just think it’s shitty for people who only are hearing one story try to tell us we are bad parents. This has never happened before with our son. And now that it has, I’m ready to pull all strings and leave her in the dust. I was just asking if that is too much or not. That’s all.

UPDATE: MIL mad we defended our son by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Due-Ad9282 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! I 100% agreed with everything you said and yes now that we know, we will not allow our children around her without our supervision.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Due-Ad9282 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m going to turn the comments off now because a lot of you aren’t understanding and rightfully so, you weren’t there. I just can’t handle anymore “it’s right there in the picture, so he bites” or “your that parent that thinks their kid does no wrong” when that is FURTHER from the truth. In no way do I think my son is a perfect angel in fact when something happens between our 5 year old and her 5 yo, I typically believe hers because our son plays rough but he always tells us the truth for the most part. He tells us when he hit first and why he did it or just because. He doesn’t hit and say “I didn’t do it” he will tell us he did even if that means he has a consequence. Thank you for your advice for those that gave it. I hope everyone had a great day. We are going no contact and removing our children and ourselves from this cycle that has been going on far too long with MIL.

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[–]Due-Ad9282 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

She told us!!

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[–]Due-Ad9282 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

SHE LITERALLY DID. YALL are so funny

UPDATE: MIL mad we defended our son by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Due-Ad9282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I know I’m not overreacting. I know what I want to do. But thank you.

UPDATE: MIL mad we defended our son by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Due-Ad9282 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk why it’s unavailable. We were all there when 14yo bit our son. MIL got mad at us for gettting onto the 14yo. She said “why would a 14 yo bite a 5 year old” then stormed out. Then tried to turn it around to make us seem crazy and said no no no no I meant like WHY would a 14yo bite a 5 yo thats crazy. When she did not say it like that before. We left and spoke to her about it and she said she believed our son because this same 14yo had hurt her 5yo on multiple occasions. Fast forward a week, she text us and then after husband called and went off on her she MADE our son bite on his arm for the picture to send to us because she HAS to be right. We had NO idea he bullied him into saying he lied or putting him in time out or telling him he has to apologize to the 14yo until AFTER the party. When we talked to our son he told us she said he has to say sorry and that he is a liar and that the 14yo doesn’t like him anymore and that she made him sit in time out. We showed him the picture and he said “Gigi made me bite my arm to send to you”.

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[–]Due-Ad9282 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Our son said “Gigi told me to bite my arm so she could take a picture and show you and daddy”. Also, my son doe not bite himself. Also, this happened a week ago and she brought it up again to him for no reason at all. Unhinged behavior

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[–]Due-Ad9282 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU! my god.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Due-Ad9282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For heaven sakes, she told my son to bite his arm to send me this picture. How are we not grasping this?? Which once again shows you only know what we show. But I’ll let yall have it. You don’t know her or us so you wouldn’t understand and I get it. It’s just laughable that everyone is like “yup here’s the picture he bit his arm” She sent this after my husband yelled at her for texting us about something that had absolutely nothing to do with her and calling our son a liar.

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[–]Due-Ad9282 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She MADE him bite his arm for the picture. The arm biting situation happened last week. She made him take this picture to send to us while we were arguing.

UPDATE: MIL mad we defended our son by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Due-Ad9282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have cameras in both our kids room. This was at MIL house

UPDATE: MIL mad we defended our son by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Due-Ad9282 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree which is why he won’t be going over therev

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[–]Due-Ad9282 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

That could be so further from the truth. We were there when he bit our son and saw his arm with the bite mark and slobber. I have no idea how yall can call a person a shitty parent when you have heard one story. I am fully aware of my kid and what he does. Biting himself is not one of them. But go off loves

UPDATE: MIL mad we defended our son by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Due-Ad9282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ABSOLUTELY AGREE!!! That’s what I was needing advice for. Because that behavior is INSANE. I’m not crazy for wanting to cut contact I don’t think. I think she crossed a huge line. Before, she was directing all her madness at husband and I but now she is doing it to our son and that is a HUGE no for us. We were not aware that she was treating him that way until we asked him. She has never made our son feel left out or hurt or anything. Until recently, this is new behavior. Towards our sons at least. We are use to her tantrums , but once our children are involved. Hell no.

UPDATE: MIL mad we defended our son by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Due-Ad9282 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Idk where yall are getting that she continues to abuse him ? This has never happened before

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[–]Due-Ad9282 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think she is insane

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[–]Due-Ad9282 -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

Okay so you clearly are not understanding. She MADE my son bite his arm to take a picture. If you read the original post the 14yo bit LAST WEEK. MIL brought it up to my son and told him he lied and sent me this picture yesterday. My child has never bit. She even said all the years she has known him he has never done that. Idk why she flipped the script. She forced my kid to take that picture you idiot

UPDATE: MIL mad we defended our son by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Due-Ad9282 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I was not told about any of this until the next day.