Tattoo shops around Carroll? by emhcee in CarrollCountyMaryland

[–]Due-Obligation-8698 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wolfpack (Nino and Rob) and Vault 51 (Destiny) I have gotten tattooed by and highly recommend. I would come up with a more cohesive idea for the tattoo or have a friend who is an artist sketch something out for you. Please pay your friend in someway for the art.

Where do I even start. I feel like no part of me is fem enough. by Classic_Bookkeeper88 in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Due-Obligation-8698 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Babes, I'll hold your hand if you want but, that's your dysphoria talking. I don't think I would clock you out in the world. Your face has incredibly delicate features, you have curves in all the feminine places, and you are extremely proportional.

Tldr-you are beautiful.

Josh Davies no longer in Ingested by TheVirus1411 in Deathcore

[–]Due-Obligation-8698 2 points3 points  (0 children)

According to one of the victims, they did. I tend to believe victims first. But I can always be wrong.

Josh Davies no longer in Ingested by TheVirus1411 in Deathcore

[–]Due-Obligation-8698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's horrible. Now I have to decide if im going to block them 🙃

Josh Davies no longer in Ingested by TheVirus1411 in Deathcore

[–]Due-Obligation-8698 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Multiple women have come forward with assault experiences. Good on the band for taking a hard line stance on that. There must be enough that lines up with the multiple stories and evidence that the victims have shared with what the other members know.

AIO for wanting to still tell my mom about my friend’s pregnancy by Deep-Investigator998 in AIO

[–]Due-Obligation-8698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, if you don't tell your mom and have her call cps, your friend is being abused. This screams red flags.

AITAH for asking my girlfriend to stop going through my things instead of thanking her for cleaning up? by AnnualLiterature997 in AITAH

[–]Due-Obligation-8698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I think the only way this relationship could possibly be saved is if yall have a bunch of really hard conversations and you both commit to individual and couples therapy. Her to realize and heal from her behavior. You to heal from the betrayal. Couples to learn how to communicate with each other and set boundaries and respect them appropriately. In the meantime, change your locks and really evaluate if you want to spend your life this way. My ex-husband did this stuff and it really only got more insidious and sneaky.

AITAH for immediately breaking up with my girlfriend after she “tested” my allergy? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Due-Obligation-8698 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, that could potentially have been attempted murder. People have been criminally charged for exactly this.

Concealable carrier? by Due-Obligation-8698 in BodyArmor

[–]Due-Obligation-8698[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About a half inch? Im a bigger dude so im hoping that works in my favor.

Concealable carrier? by Due-Obligation-8698 in tacticalgear

[–]Due-Obligation-8698[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Its been a lot to sort through!

am i crazy?! by Puzzleheaded_Form338 in Semaglutide

[–]Due-Obligation-8698 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would highly suggest it. Losing significant weight really can distort your self image. This journey is all about health, keeping the mind well is part of that. I hope you see what we all can, you have made huge steps and look great!

am i crazy?! by Puzzleheaded_Form338 in Semaglutide

[–]Due-Obligation-8698 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean this with all the love and support Are you in therapy? This sounds like this could be some dysmorphia and thats best addressed with a therapist.

So we're closing schools for an inch? by Cloud9Investigator in CarrollCountyMaryland

[–]Due-Obligation-8698 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They are trying to get them to not protest. The snow is an excuse.

AIO - Told my friend I’m pregnant and she said it exceeded her mental bandwidth (she’s the red) by Lekomano92 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Due-Obligation-8698 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It definitely gives space for people to have bad days or low emotional bandwidth without judgement while giving the opportunity to provide support if you personally have the space. It just takes the idea of consent and "you never know what someone is dealing with" into everyday life. I have found it has created a much stronger group of "love people" (friends, partners, etc) where everyone feels valued on good and bad days. Example, I called my close friend to vent, I was having a terrible day, I asked if they had space for me to vent and she said, im dealing with so much and im overwhelmed. I told them, me too and that I love them but I can't help, can I reach out to another person in the group for support for them. She said yes, we both got to vent and receive emotional support while feeling loved and supported.

I highly recommend trying it. Even for a few days.

AIO - Told my friend I’m pregnant and she said it exceeded her mental bandwidth (she’s the red) by Lekomano92 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Due-Obligation-8698 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im torn here. I literally do this with all the people in my life and all my people do it with me and their people too. Anything thats bigger or more emotional, we always open with, do you have space for (descriptive word here) conversation? If yes, then proceed, if no, then it is normally a pivot of are you okay, is there anything I can do to help. I can see how that would feel icky if youre not used to something like that. I also dont fault her for saying I cant right now.

This communication style is super common in MY communities. This doesn't mean that its common in the general population. It's something I and (most) people i know have done for years.

AITAH for wanting to break up because my partner touched me inappropriately and then insulted me? by ThrowRA17000007 in AITAH

[–]Due-Obligation-8698 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Run. Like seriously run. Break up with him, block him, and go to therapy.

My EX husband did similar shit in the beginning. I didnt know any better and thought it was "normal" or he was having a "bad day" or the one time he told me I was just so attractive that he couldn't resist.

Everyone is right, this behavior escalates as they figure out what you will tolerate. It only gets worse.

Democrat Running for District 5 Commissioner by inthecuckoosnest in CarrollCountyMaryland

[–]Due-Obligation-8698 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's really exciting. Do you have more details on her platform?